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 Will someone please help me..?
I saw my boyfriend try to kill himself yesterday. I wanted to end the relationship because he hurts me, mostly emotional, but sometimes it resorts to pushing and grabbing. He drank about 3/4 of a 1/2 ...


 Help please, I don't know what to do, and I'm scared?
I've been sleepwalking and losing weight (10 pounds) Over the last two weeks. I think it might be because of one specific thing going on thats really bothering me, and I don't know what to ...


 What do you tend to do when you're the most stressed?
I go to the casino and drink.
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I only bring $20-$30 so I'm not tempted to overspend if I get a little tipsy!...


 hmm.what is this?
I probably sound like a huge baby, but I want to know what this is!

Im very close and attached to my mom.I used to sleep at peoples houses every weekend,but now I cant even go for a day. I...


 Did you ever feel like you wanted to kill yourself? But you managed to control yourself? How?
Please help i feel like geting a piece of paper and saying my final good byes :(...


 RE QUESTION Yes or No....Would you ever put either/both of your parents in a Care Centre/Nursing Home???
I noticed a lot of people answered definately NOT

BUT

what if the parent was incontinent, agressive, deranged due to altzeimer's etc.

Could you really cope with ...


 Will this sadness ever go away?
I have become extremely depressed, and before you say, I have already made an appointment to see my doctor. I just wanted to know if any one out there is also going through this illness. I feel ...


 I think my friend is cutting herself.?
Last Thursday, my friend and I noticed all kinda of scars on our other friend's wrists. We got a little worried, and asked her why they were there. At first, she said she was cutting herself. L...


 I've just been to a funeral. Can you help me with a question?
I've visited the funeral of my sisters' best friends' mother. She was only 52. Cancer. The family are devestated. How long does the whole "grieving process" take? Is there ...


 This is very personal, ashamed to share, but i am at my wits end?
My son was a good lad, he joined the army at 16, excelled, he went all over the world, doing all sorts, jumping out of planes, bull run in spain etc. I was so proud! He was posted to Iraq, excelled ...


 know one understands me my life is miserable i cant stop crying?
people say im emo i cut myself and cry alot but i cant stop i need help
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my parents don't know about it but my friends do cuz they do it too im scared to tell my ...


 POLL : Do antidepressants really help?
options:
1. Yes, ( i took/take them)
2. Yes, ( i never took them, but i know.)
3. No, ( i took/take them)
4. No, ( i never took them, but i know.)
5. They dont help as much ...


 i'm mental help!!!!?
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 Song that makes you cry?
Please post a youtube link to the saddest song (or songs) you know.

The song that makes me cry wins!
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LINKS PLEASE. LINKS LINKS LINKS. :)...


 i cant sleep, pleaassseee help me!?
its not serious, im only 13 and normally, when i cant sleep i just go sleep with my sister or ask my mom to comelay with me. but i used tthe mommy escuse 2 nights in a row , and i dont wannna wake ...


 Im depressed and thinking about suicide becuz the best girlfriend ive ever had moved wut do i do?
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 Does alcohol and sleeping pills make a good mix?
Does alcohol and sleeping pills knock you out if the sleeping pills don't work by themselves?
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What about three or four glasses of vodka or bourbon that couldn...


 Why should I not kill myself right now?
I know this is probably a stupid reason, but if we are all going to die of old age, why should I not kill myself right now?

Everyday I look in the mirror and I see myself am growing older, ...


 What causes you to panic?
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 I'm having a miserable day today. What can I do to cheer myself up?
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Monya Y
I'm really scared please help - Am I going to hell?
I've been a devout Athiest for a while, I've lost my faith in God when I was 8, when my best friend was taken from me, my two dogs died, my other best friend died, and when I got addicted to drugs.

And since I lost my faith, I've been feeling much better about it, but I had someone scare me recently, saying "Aren't you scared of going to Hell? Being whipped maliciously, and your back being peeled off day by day."

I'm scared for some reason, first time this has happened, please help me?

I don't want to turn to God again, what do I do, to stop being paranoid?
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I'm sober now.
                      








Liza
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Don’t worry about hell, the Bible indicates that death - not something after death - pays for your sins: “For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord”.
You say you don’t want to turn to God again, but maybe you never got to know Him in the first place. From the Bible you could learn why he allows the terrible things you have seen in your life and what He is going to do about it. Bible knowledge could prevent you from getting easily scared, and could do much more for you!


Justin C
if your dont believe in heaven or hell why would you be worried about going to hell you dont believe in its existence.


Brenna M
don't give into scare tactics.


Susubonbons
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In my religion we believe in god.
You should never do bad things but you never know if you are going to hell or not.
God will decide. If you pray and ask him to forgive you, he might. You never know. You should always pray and ask for forgiveness for the things you have done wrong. ( this is just my religion im not trying to be offensive or convert anyone ) And also, it is said that your own mother can decide to forgive you of your wrongs or not. If you have done bad things and you know it,,,,, i dont know...... im still young. but im learning...


Ray
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Faith is a funny thing. Using the word devout to describe your atheism is ironic, but I understand where you're coming from.

Fear of hell is a terrible reason to be religious. Love of God(s) and faith in a religion is the best reason to be faithful.

Fear of hell does not save you from going there in the afterlife, and if it's your primary reason, turning to God is a sham and you know it. Hell and eternal torture is a dirty tool used by proselytizers as a means of getting you to go to their church, which happens to be the only way to save yourself.

If you find your faith in God restored, let that be your reason. Don't let fear rule you.


Stephen
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You drink. A lot.

Also C's answer "Your back being peeled off day by day? Aw, you'd be like Satan's little banana!" made me laugh really, really hard for some reason.


cute girl
don't pay any attetion to people like that they yust want to scared you ...there is no such thing as your back being peeled off day by day..but you should try to help your self


essentiallysolo
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seems to me that just because you lost your "faith" in God, you obviously have not lost your "belief" in His existence. Thus you fear hell, because that is all you ever learned to do. My personal opinion is that "God" does exist, and He does not destroy that which He creates. We do that. Forgive yourself, and He also will forgive you.


DATAMAN F622
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Try this for the next few nights/weeks/months, it will clear things up and help you, your family ‎and friends enormously NOW AND IN YOUR FUTURE . ‎
YOU WILL SEE ITS NON BIAS ALSO.‎

THIS LINK IS ON THE POWER OF PRAYER IN THE NEW YORK TIMES ‎http://www.nytimes.com/2006/03/31/health/31pray.html

PRAYER’S DESTINATION: CREATOR OF THE UNIVERSE

PRAY IS A TRANS-DIMENSIONAL UP-LINK TO THE CREATOR OF THE UNIVERSE

ASK to your Creator in a state that you are CERTAIN that your Prayer will be RESPONDED to, and ‎Know that Your Creator WILL NOT ANSWER REQUEST’S that comes from a CARELESS and ‎INATTENTIVE HEART. Pray onto Him as though you SEE HIM and if you don't see him, then verily ‎HE SEES YOU. eg have Full Concentration of your mind and heart as to what you are asking for.‎
Never will YOUR CREATOR ALLOW YOUR PRAYER to be Lost and the GOOD work any of you be ‎lost, be he male or female.‎
NOTHING CAN REPEL PREDESTINATION except PRAYER/YOUR REQUEST/ASKING HIM

You may start with O LORD….. Or O CREATOR OF MY….‎

‎ O Lord / O Creator of my Mind, Body and Soul, if there is a Way Of Life which you Love over ‎all other Ways of Life in this Universe then please Direct Me towards it, show me the Truth as ‎Truth and render me help towards that and make it very Clear and Easy for me to understand. ‎Show me Falsehood as Falsehood and help me to avoid that with the greatest of ease. I plead ‎with you today for help and understanding in this matter with your Infinite Knowledge and Mercy ‎on these matters.‎

O Lord / O Creator of Me and Mankind, Save and Protect me and my family and friends from ‎Sudden Major and Minor - illness, Rape, Murder, Kidnapping, Drowning, Burning, Any ‎Transport Accidents, Terrorist Bombings, Evil Secret Societies, Pandemic Disease’s, Plagues ‎and Poisoning, and something falling on us or that we fall of something.‎

O Lord / O Creator of my Mind, Body and Soul, you have not Created this Universe aimlessly, ‎you are with blemishes, so save and protest me, my family and friends from all Major ‎Calamities, Disaster, Miseries, illness’s and depression, sorrow and grief and save and ‎protect us from the Evils in and around my life, in this Country and from Evils of this World ‎and the Hereafter.‎

O Most Merciful of those who show mercy, change my Bad Luck into Good Luck and change ‎my Destiny into a Good and Pleasurable Destiny and shower your Special Blessing and ‎Mercies on me and my family and friends.‎

O Lord / O My Creator, Forgive me for my Past, Present and Future sins and Wrong Doings ‎that I may have committed, whether it was committed knowingly or unknowingly by me. ‎

O Lord / O Creator of my Mind, Body and Soul and everything in the Universe Open the doors ‎to my mind, heart and soul and feed me data from yourself and give me knowledge of this ‎world, and of the Next world and Spiritual world, make it easy for me to understand it, to act ‎upon it and live my life in the best of ways in order to gain your infinite pleasure and that will ‎Extremely benefit Me, My Family, Friends and My Country now and in our future.‎

HERE MENTION/ASK FOR WHATEVER YOU WISH, NEED and DESIRE FOR NOW AND ‎YOUR FUTURE…………………‎
THEN END WITH EITHER…………PLEASE ACCEPT AND ANSWER MY REQUEST IN THE ‎BEST OF TIME AND WAYS……OR………Amen / Ameen OR…. SO BE IT


Hector
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man tell you the truth who else an you turn to besides god..and there are people that have it worst than you sorry to say that but true..and still don't loose faith in god, no matter what..sorry probably wasn't what you wanted to hear but the truth


slyC
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you're sorry for what happened, you learned something valuable in life, and you're doing the best you can.
that's what most religions ask for, so no, you wouldn't go to hell.
who's moral compass are you living by? christianity? societies? or your own?
think about what YOU believe is right and wrong... and how far you have come and how much you have learned.


OldSkhool
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God's going to respect what you choose in life and apply it to the afterlife. If you choose to live without him in life you will live without him in the afterlife.


Krista
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Have you gotten your life together, and gotten yourself off of the drugs? Life is about trying to be the best person you can be, not about what you believe in. I am of no religion but I'm still a good person. And I have many beliefs, but just because they don't all fit into one already established religion that doesn't mean I'm a bad person or I'm going to hell. You can believe in a god and not have a strict religion. The way I see it is if God is as kind and all seeing as he's supposed to be, he's not going to send a truly good person to hell just because they don't believe. I'm not bashing religion and I'm not saying any one religion is wrong. Maybe they're all right. I guess in short I'm saying, just be the best person you can be and try your hardest at everything you do. You don't need to believe in God to do that or to have faith. Good luck friend!


Joe
wait, you started doing drugs at 8? Stop doing the drugs first, second visit with a priest or a rabbi


Devin
I am Catholic! Believe in GOD!!


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The only way you will not go to hell is if you get saved, which is having full faith in God and when you ask him into your heartt you have to obey his commands and trust in him and you have that knowing in you that if you were to die in the next 5 minutes you would be going up to heaven with God and have eternal life with him but if you do not realize that you do not want to be with God and you don't want to have everlasting life you will go to hell ... but if you want to be saved its not just saying " I am sorry for my sins, would you forgive me" You really need to believe you want to be saved, you want to go to heaven and you want to believe and trust in God and God's word, which is the bible...


Alyssa
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you should turn to god!! he is the ONLY way to go..i used to be an atheist but god finally got my attention when he got me off drugs and saved my dads life.. you should be thanking him for not taking your life instead of your friends... bad stuff happens to people all the time.. that's life!! just turn to god and PRAY and he will be with you.. even though you don't believe in him he still loves you and all your doing is hurting him.. i will pray for you


Tom R
that person came to you to help you reevaluate your life. i dont think you should go to church because your scared. instead i think you should try to examine your life and try to make sure you are living a positive life. all religions have different views of what the afterlife looks like. muslims have their virgins that they meet. what happens to the women do they meet a whole bunch of studs or a lots of pimply teenage virgins.? people who have had after death experiences all say that its like seeing the world through the golden rule . whatever you do good or bad you experience. make someone happy feel happy reject someone feel rejected. my personal belief is that the hell will be all the times i hurt people. the heaven is the opposite


Harriet J
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Its probablyy the drugs.....


Lee T
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Monya,

I'm an Athiest also, don't worry about what other people are saying to you.
If you believe in Hell, then you are ceritally not Athiest.

When we die, we die, and get put in the ground, not Hell or Heven!
If Heaven was as good as people make out, why aint people killing themseleves to be there, like the poor people that believe in god, but have no money, no home... they would get all that in Heaven.

And if people were scared of going to Hell, i.e. the people who are criminals, why do they commite the crime.

Just don't worry! :)
Take it easy.
Enjoy Life :)


Craig
look i know you don't want to but you HAVE too!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Turn back to god if anyone can stop you from going to hell its him!!!!!!Do some good deeds,don't swear all of this helps!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :D you're welcome


Lisa D
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Jesus died for our sins. That means your sins, my sins The WORLDS sins. You lost your faith for a little while. There is a song that says "I"ll take you back- Always" I'm unsure of who sings it, but that line is true. People make mistakes, people hurt and can turn to things that are not right. Jesus died on the cross to cover our sins. Pray to Him, say " I know I was wrong, Jesus. I want you to be my savior, I love you and I want to be a Christian again. I confess my sins to you, and pray want you to be the Lord of my life. Please take me back".
You should go to church and turn from your wrongs, pray and read your Bible. Sometimes it is difficult to read and all, but try to turn your life back to God. John 3:16: "For God so Loved the World that He gave His only begotten Son that WHOSOEVER BELIEVETH in Him shall NOT perish, but have EVERLASTING LIFE".
Sometimes I have questioned whether I was a Christian, though I have accepted Jesus into my life, my husband says this a lot-- "If you confess with your mouth and believe in your heart-- you shall be saved"
You can email me through yahoo answers if you need to talk anymore.
I can understand your faith waning with all of the struggles you went through, but GOD loves You! He wants to be there for you, He wants you to lean on Him and He wants you to be His child.
I hope the best for your life.


__Cass*
no your not dont believe all that. i believe god is a very forgiving person.


exItus
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Be a good person from now on if you aren't already. Be an asset to society. IMO, doing drugs doesn't make you a bad person; being addicted and/or harming others to get your fix does, but then again nobody's innocent.

"To laugh often and much; to win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children...to leave the world a better place...to know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived. This is to have succeeded. " - Ralph Waldo Emerson

eh. Study philosophy?


Ned F
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Why would you be afraid of turning to God again? Are you holding a grudge because he allowed your dogs to die? I'm sorry if this sounds harsh, but your statement sounds kind of shallow. God puts you through hard times in order to help you grow up and mature, not to harm you.

Being Christian makes me happy, because it offers me the hope that I will be reunited with my dead relatives and friends again. Praise Jesus!

And being Christian gives me hope for a better future, no matter what happens, because Jesus is watching over me and protecting me, and he will work everything out in time for those who love him.

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"For I know the plans I have for you," declares the LORD, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Then you will call upon me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you. You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart.”
~Jeremiah 29:11-13


And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose. For those God foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the likeness of his Son, that he might be the firstborn among many brothers.
~Romans 8:28,29


[Jesus said:] "I tell you the truth, whoever hears my word and believes him who sent me has eternal life and will not be condemned; he has crossed over from death to life. I tell you the truth, a time is coming and has now come when the dead will hear the voice of the Son of God and those who hear will live … Do not be amazed at this, for a time is coming when all who are in their graves will hear his voice and come out —those who have done good will rise to live, and those who have done evil will rise to be condemned.”
~John 5:24, 25, 28 & 29




New International Version (NIV)
Copyright © 1973, 1978, 1984 by International Bible Society


Jennifer R
Hi. I'm really sorry to hear about all that you have been through. Life is tough, but we always should stay positive. I do want to tell you that life's problems are not God's fault, although thats what the mojority of the world thinks. If somethings bad happens, they tend to blame God or say that it was his will. This is not true. Satan is real and is trying hard to confuse and put people against God. My advice, although I know you don't want to, is to read the Bible. Find someone that can help you understand the TRUTH. Don't be afraid of being tortured in hell, because God is a God of love and does NOT have that planned for anyone. People confuse hell for something worse than it really is. Its the common grave. Think about it. If you have questions, feel free to ask. Hope this helps.


Tar Baby
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Why did you lose faith? Just because of deaths? Look, deaths happen so we know how important the people around us are. If nobody ever died, why would we love? Wouldn't have a reason to because everyone would always be there.

Not trying to convince you to believe in God, just curious as to why you lost faith. Death is hard, but it's not bad enough to give up on God. I think there may be something else going on here.

You got addicted to drugs because of the deaths.

I can't say whether or not you're going to hell. I'm not God. That's for Him to decide. I think you need to talk to a priest.


Criiikey
All you need to do is turn to the Lord and ask for forgiveness. Just remember that He ALWAYS loves you and will take you back, no matter what! Ask Him back into your life and you will have nothing to fear in this life or in the next1


Lol ( Smiley Face)
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My opinion , don't judge.......


" I'm the way the truth and the life , no man will go to heaven but by me" -Jesus Christ.

Jesus is your only way out of hell , sorry.


C
Your back being peeled off day by day? Aw, you'd be like Satan's little banana!


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