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 Does school cause death?
I think yes, because school causes stress, stress causes cancer, and cancer is the most killing disease out there. it also causes suicide and drug problems to young kids. did i prove my point?...

 when i say the word cancer.......?
how does it make you feel inside

 cervical cancer injections for teenage girls?
recently, vaccines for cervical cancer have been introduced in my school. Is it really as safe as they say? Can you get side effects?...

 why is so many people getting cancer?
almost everyone i know who as died lately as died of cancer why is so many people getting this awfull thing and dont say with smoking as i now loads who never smoked died with ...

 Which one Are you :?
A smoker: http://www.lungcancer.org/images/patients/lungs/diseased_lung.jpg


A nonsmoker:

 Do smokers deserve to get sick?
What do you think? I've always been a very compassionate person. Whenever someone I know gets sick I've always been there for them, in any way I can. But there is one type of person for ...

 Terminal cancer - Will I know when I'm in my last few mins, or just go to sleep unaware then stop breathing?
I know nobody can answer this from personal experience, since if they have the experience, they couldn't be sitting in fron of their computer.

I just want to know if I'll be able ...

 I am a cancer survivior - What should I do now?
I just survived Overian Cancer and want to start my life new, and I am not sure what to do?
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I am 34 years old and had Overian Cancer Stage IIIC - Full Hystrectomy - L...

 what cigarette do people start out with?
to be honest, i have NO intention on starting. i feel cigarette smoke smells horrible and dont wanna pick up the habit. so again,what cigarette do most people start with. marlboro menthols, newport ...

 I have cancer, anything to do before I die?
i'm due in 1 and a half years
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I have a tumor in my brain and they are unable to get it out....

 Can I get paid to take care of my mom?
We live in Michigan and my mom has stage 4 breast cancer with mets to her brain, liver, adrenal glands, and bones. She has been getting worse and worse and she can't really do much anymore. She ...

 I last smoked pot over 30 days ago and just took a few hits. Can this be detected in a hair follicle test?

 How do you deal with the news that you have cancer?
I am 57 years old and I already have bad health, COPD, Diabetes and now I have been diagnosed with lung cancer and even though they say it is not in an advanced stage, surgery is not an option ...

 Do Clowns suffer from Jesticular cancer?

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Charlie: Yes I am and the Goverment aggree!...

 question about jades cancer?
i know this is gona sound a little bit stupid but ***** doctors given her a liver transplant and removed the other infected cancer parts instead of just saying its terminal? surely there was ...

 do u think there will ever be a cure for cancer?

 I Have Cancer, but I don't want to tell anyone, I feel alone?
Hi, I'm 18 and I have just been diagnosed with Thyroid Cancer,

My mom is the only person that knows, and I can't talk to her about it without her getting emotional. I have been ...

 How do you tell a 4year old boy that His Mother has breast cancer?

 I have pain in my breast, chest, upper back & neck but scared to go to to doctor and find out its cancer?

 Have you ever had a family member diagonse with a CANCER?
If so how did you cope with it and move on with your life and everything, or do you move on? just curious!...

mrs tennant
my friend lied about having terminal cancer?
one of my best friends in the whole world told me she had terminal cancer about nine months ago. i was absolutely devastated and wanted to help her as much as i could. i was there when she was crying for days i even helped her plan her funeral. Then one day i met her mum in town and asked how her daughter ( my friend) was doing because i had been told she was in hospital having fluid drained off her lung to help her breathe. ( she said the cancer was in her lung and had spread) her mum didn't know what i was talking about and said my friend had gone away with her boyfriend for the Weekend. then i asked her mum about the cancer and it turned out it was all lies and her mum knew nothing about it.
so anyway, i confronted my friend and she admitted she had .lied and said it was just a joke and she was having a laugh. i don't think its funny ive lost alot of people i love to cancer . so now i don't know what to do . i really don't know if i can forgive her.

Any advice guys.

thanks in advance

Da OzzY MaN
forgive her dont live with a grudge just realize that she might not be that best friend in the whole world because of that "joke." if she was ur best friend she would know that that kind of stuff would hurt u. she basically hurt u for a laugh. (not kool =[ )

Yeh well, idc
Oopsi thats a sad joke...she must really lack social skills her joke couldav made you insane!...okay I would not forgive her...you cried for nothing, you felt the feeling for her for nothing...its like you was betrayed she told you a lie and she hurt your feelings...she doesnt deserve a nice friend like you & one who really cares...shes probably just like all of the girls, thinking about themselves, having fun when they want how they want...you need to leave her...

dom .
Understandably, you're pretty upset and p!ssed off with her - that's quite a messed up thing for her to lie about.
Do you think she understands why you're upset? Have you been able to tell her that you've had people you care about die from cancer, and that you really don't think that it's the sort of thing you find easy to forgive?
She sounds like she must be quite screwed up to make such an outrageous claim: of course this doesn't justify what she's done, but I imagine she's pretty unhappy to do this, and she may really need someone to talk to about the reasons why she's done something as attention-seeking as this.
If you find it difficult to talk to her about the situation, maybe you could write her a letter instead?
It would be perfectly understandable if you couldn't forgive her for what she's done: I suppose you have to decide whether her good points outweigh the hurt she's caused you.
Whatever your decision I hope you find some peace.

What a horrible creature! I'm so sorry you had to be put through that. With her probably knowing how you've lost so many to cancer, and she goes and plays that trick on you, that's inconceivable.

Now that I've gotten my little rant out of the way, on to answer your actual question...

If you think that you stand a chance of forgiving her, it's definitely going to take time. If you have a belief system, pray to whoever you might worship to help you to forgive her. Forgiving someone is one thing, forgetting their transgressions against you is another. I do agree with what a previous poster said, it sounds like she has some serious psychological defect of some sort. I would recommend that you maintain your distance from her, so that she stands less of a chance of hurting you in the future, assuming you continue keeping her in your life. Good luck, whatever you so choose.

๑۩۞۩๑ blondie ๑۩۞۩๑
please drop all contact with her immediatly ,let her mum get her the proper help, she is a pathological liar , caused pain and sorrow to you and she is, in my opinion, extremely dangerous.

One of your best friends in the whole world? I dont think so. She lied to you and made you suffer for several months. Chances are she will tell everyone about this and they will think you are a fool. You should evaluate how good of a friendship that is. But if I were you I wouldn't waste my time trying to find an excuse for what she did. I would let her go and make new new friends.
Hey, life is short.

There's nothing wrong with forgiving! It will help you too rather then keeping a grudge. But can you trust your friend again?!?!?

omg, why would anyone lie about something like that, she obviously has some kind of problem and needs help, as for her being a friend...well real friends wouldnt lie about something as serious as that.

Thats horrible!
You cant do something like that for i joke, if i was you i would tell her exactly how u feel about it and that it was ott

mona lisa
you should of said to her if that was a joke can you tell me why i am not laughing you must have really sick taste in jokes and then let her do all the running and apologise to you and if she don't apologise forget her.it's up to you if you forgive her but if i was in your shoes i would drop her if she can lie about that what else is she going to lie to you about.

Wow, sounds like someone needs to be the center of attention. My advice would be to stay clear of that one. My biggest question would be if he would lie about dieing, what other things has she lied to you about during the course of your relationship. Trust is the biggest factor in a relationship and apparently you can't trust her. I have had cancer myself and lost more friends and family to the disease than I like, so, no, that is not a joke and you don't even pretend with something of that magnitude. I say distance yourself. She's probably so absorbed with her boyfriend right now that she's not worried about your attention. When she has no one else to bug, she'll come knocking on your door again. The next time, though, don't be there to answer.

Find another friend.

Your so-called friend is an awful person!
Sounds like she wanted some attention and that's why she said she had cancer. Things cannot be fixed with a 'oh, I was joking, sorry'

If she can't give you a good enough reason as to why she said it I'd tell her where to go!!

Louise S
You need advice on this? Jesus Christ.. forget her..
I would never forgive anyone for that. Not only did she lie, she completely abused your friendship and caring nature. She is obviously not a good friend to you. Ditch her. She doesn't deserve your friendship.

She needs psychological help, it is neither a joke nor funny.

That was mean - to say the least. What a *****. You're better off without friends like her - cut her out your life and stick to people who respect you.

Drop her like a lead weight. What she did is about as bad as it gets. Some things you just dont joke about.

John Elias
I think she has psychological problems. It wasn't a joke and it wasn't funny. She doesn't seem much of a friend to me.

She is a sick person, imo. My mom just died from terminal cancer, and it sure isn't anything to joke about. The emotional devastation is immeasurable! I wouldn't forgive her, personally. If it were my "friend" I would cut ties. You don't need someone so cruel as to joke about cancer, in your life.
God only knows what it would be next time? She needs professional help. Normal people don't joke about that stuff.

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