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 My son help plz!?
last night my son told me , his neck hurt him , about one h later he had a fever of 103.00 till this morning . i toke him to the ER. ad sat for 3 hours while he still had a fever of 103. 3 we got in ...


 I pee'd out a blob of blood
I'm only 14.
what could it be?

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I'm only 14.
and i've already had my period.

i start my period more later into the month. i'...


 How bad is bulimia?
I'm not saying i have it. Just how bad is it exactly? What are the side effects? And how long does it take for the side effects to show?
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 What can I do about severe swelling in my feet and legs after 9 bags of IV fluids?"?
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 I need HELP........................
I'm writng a story and I need some facts. What kind of disease can affect a young boy of about 15 which requires an expensive surgery and no transplants? It must not also be caused by drugs or ...


 Is there anything i can do to relieve Carpal Tunnel Syndrome?
I'm 32 weeks pregnant and have Carpal Tunnel Syndrome from my pregnancy. Is there any massage techniques or anything I can do to ease it as I am in a lot of discomfort! Please help!...


 My right arm is felling slightly dead...not totally?
This means typing this is giving a strange tingling sensationa dn it doesnt quite feel right??? Any diagnoses
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I play guitar and use pc all day...that could be it...I ...


 Help me I can't get rid of my head lice I have nits that won't come out!!!!! What should do?
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 What is the best and effective way of cleaning your ears without damaging them???
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 What's wrong with me?
I have the chills, i feel really weak, i have frequent mood swings, loss of appetite, headaches, dizziness, tiredness, shortness of breath, off and on fever, easy bruising, paleness, and confusion.<...


 My 20mth old has the diarrhea for 4 days now, what can do to help stop it?
We have been to the doctor and was told it was the stomach flu and it had to run its course. But there has to be something I can do to help her. Does anyone have any suggestions on what I can do to ...


 Bleeding questions??
Hi, my grandpa every time he uses the bathroom number one and 2 he urines out blood? And he let blood out from no. 2?? And he always is sick now. And he was never like this he is 52 years old! I am ...


 What does it feel like to use cocaine?
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 I think I might have an eating disorder called Compulsive Eating. How can i tell if I do?
I LOVE food... I eat if Im bored, if theres nothing else to do, if I feel bad or sad or mad... And then I always feel bad because I put on weight. I recently was not able to fit into a pair of pants ...


 Constant burning in middle of chest, worsens when eating or drinking?
For a week now I have had burning in the middle of my chest. Feels like it is following my esaphagus. It hurts more when I begin to eat or drink. It also radiates through to the back between the ...


 My 3 year old has chickenpox.He is very upset as they are in his mouth and giving him pain. what can i use?
I would like to know if there is anything i can put on the spots apart from calamine lotion as this seems to be having no effect. Also he is in a lot of pain with the ones in his mouth. Just rang ...


 I have a headache. Is it time for taking a break for Yahoo Answers?
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 You be the doctor--Diagnose this?
Here's a chance for non-doctors to play doctor without killing any patients. Real doctors please don't answer unless it's been a day or so and no one else has.

A patient ...


 Can a person be anorexic all their life??
iv had/have an ed.. iv had so many ups and downs.. will it ever go away?? anyone had same problem?? did u sort it?? its ruining my life and it has to stop! plez dont say the obvious thing.. 'eat&...


 Whats does it mean if i have pale coloured poo?...?
Whats does it mean if i have pale coloured poo?...?
Also, i find in an average week i have 2-3 poo's that have semi digested food in it and its not just the usual things we all know cant ...



kevin k
How do you end a relationship with someone who has bipolar?
i have been with her for 5 years, when i met her she did not tell me she was bipolar, and she was also manic when i met her, which is what attracted her to me, i happy love having a good time, now that i siad i loved her, she has been is the depressive mood, and her manic only comes once in a great while, i know its a disease, but how much could one person take?
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ok wait a minute, im not immature, and believe i do more than anyone person ever would, i ve tried everything in the world to help her, however, its not that she is depressed, everything i do and try is not good enough , and i feel like im the one being used and abused, i cook i clean she sleeps 16 hours a day, had i known that is what she had b4 i got involved maybe i would have not gone into, and like i said i love her but i hate the way i am treated
                     





amd730
Get out now, I have an Aunt who is like that and they turn on you, run away fast!!!!


ramsha
its your duty to control her dont trash her after use


Be nice, or at least funny
I offer 2 options that have beens successful for me. The first is far inferior to the second but much easier.

Drive her away: Do things you know she hates and make it clear these things are important to you and that you're going to be doing them forever. I got a girl to break up with me once by eating a whole pizza like a pig in front of her.

Confront the issue: Think veeery carefully about why you aren't happy, then start a dialog about this with your partner. You have valid, or semi-valid (quit chasing manic people) reasons for being unhappy. Address these with her and make it clear that they are issues YOU are feeling at that you hope she can help you get through them because you care about her. Make it clear what issues are deal breakers and make it clear that you want to see change. The key is to get to the root of what you can't live with and display that this behavior has to change or you can't stay in the relationship. She is aware of her behavior and if it continues she will expect a breakup coming and may actually initiate it herself.

An example of deal breakers to address and how to address them: "When I try to talk to you about what is wrong or why you don't want to go out and you won't engage me or talk to me frankly about what is wrong it really bothers me. I feel like we have no line of communication and I just don't know how to have a relationship when I cannot reach you."


Ginkgo
Tell her that even though she is losing you, she is gaining a way to no longer be a victim of bipolar. See this site under mental issues.

http://phifoundation.org/heal.html


sugars_that_heal
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Kevin, If you love her and want to help her, I want you to read my testimonials on this site. I know what will help her balance her hormones.


william l
if you want to end a relationship with some you just don't care for,do so with a little compassion, but if its because of bipolar disorder,you just might be losing a out on a really great relationship, bipolar disorder is very treatable with the right medication, do some research, then have a frank discussion, and express to her of your concerns and INFORMED advice.
good luck
William


finaldx
You are on a roller coaster you want to get off of, it sounds like. If you can't take the whole package deal that is her, better leave it alone.

You will have to do so quickly and thoroughly, and not look back. If you have access to her therapist or family you may want to prewarn them of this event, so they can be ready to intervene.

There are so many emotionally healthy people out here, you deserve one. But I would recommend taking some time alone for a few months to decompress, reflect and getting yourself to a place where you can participate in a normal relationship. You are probably way out of practice at that.


strwberridreamz
well kevin i myself have had to go through this. and the way did it was tell your mate you some time to figure out what YOU want to do with your life before permently bringing someone else in it. makes sense? and tell her you want to stay friends and see if it will make sense to you later. you have to figure you out before you can anyone or anything else out. keep your chin up kevin there is always a special lady out there who will be waiting for you. good my friend.

Jan
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xie18
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She should be on meds. I know lots of people that are bi-polar and as long as they take their meds everyday then they are fine.


RODRIGUEZ
wow i dont think that's a good reason to leave her i think your mean person you tell you love her now she's deppresed so your leaving her i dont think you do love her cause if you did you wouldnt leave.


PATRICIA G F
Just tell her the truth: you're an immature person who claims to love people but takes it back when the going gets tough. She deserves better than you.

How would you feel if you were in what you thought was a love relationship and your partner dumped you when you were ill? You don't have a clue what real love is.

It may be hard on her to have you be honest, but in the long run it's better than being with one who is so shallow that having a good time is more of a priority than seeing someone you claimed to love through a bad time. Love is about putting the other person's needs and problems above your own. It's about sacrifice sometimes as well as having the good times. It's knowing that while the other person might be needy now, you may one day be the one in need.

If you took five years to figure out you aren't up to the challenge of actually loving a person who happens to be bipolar, that's somewhat surprising. More surprising is that if you supposedly loved her you didn't fight to try to get her help and get healthy again instead of just bailing.

It might be better if you found a more emotionally mature and caring person to break this to her.


pat s
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im not trying to be hard on you, but i want to share this with you, its easy to say you love someone, especially when they love u back, when things are goin good, but love is an action word and its much deeper than one thinks. Its patience, longsuffering,forbearing, etc.. You said you love her, now that your love is being tested, its shakey. If you truly love her you will find the strength to hang in there until a change comes, if not let her go, dont stay with her out of guilt, but talk to her about it and be free, but i do say this also, every relationship is gonna have somekind of flaws, so you might end up with another that has a worst problem, or maybe you should just look at you, im sure there are things in you also that bothers her. Who's perfect?


Freddy B
I also am in love with a Bi-Polar woman. It's not easy.
Is she getting therapy?
Is she sticking to her medication routine?
You have to ask yourself if you are willing to stick it out through the bad times.
You need to get some therapy to help you to cope.
I scanned through a book at Barnes & Noble. The name was something like "How to Live with a Bi-Polar spouse".
If you want to stay with her you need to buy that book, it takes a very holistic approach to your situation.
Unfortunatly, my love has decided to leave me. Her reasons are rational and logically thought out. What makes it even worse is the fact that she is right.
So here I sit my heart is crushed, but I have to let her go.
I hope my answer helps you.
Good luck!


cristanine
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When she open her legs for you it was good, but now she 's not good enough because she's Bipolar...take a hike Dude...your aweful


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