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 What is the best way to build self confidence and self esteem?
I've heard all of the techniques about repeating positive things about yourself,.... to yourself. I need something stronger and more lasting over time. I've also had my problems with life.I&...

 Today is it just me or?
Has everyone felt that today has been really long boring and

 Why can I not move when I wake up?
Sometimes at night...I fall asleep and then wake up in the middle of the night and I open my eyes and I see myself and everything around me, the only thing that is wrong is that I cannot move ...

 Questions about my dad?
hi, i am 17 yrs old. i have a real mom, a real dad (no steps) and a sister. my dad loves my mom, and it is not hard to see that. however, my dad would neevr let anyone touch his work laptop. one day ...

 Should i die?
i feel i am in the world all alone and i can't live for much nobody even notices i am feeling this way but i put a happy face so nobody will worry about me Yes i have thought of ...

 How do you control anger?
I definately have anger issues, and it can lead to me being destructive (punching walls, etc). I always regret afterwards, but I almost have no control when I get heated....

 Any advice? My suicidal thoughts come and go with stress. Today I started to think about it again.?
I know that I am being selfish and not thinking of anyone else but I am having a hard time just functioning. I am so depressed.

I don't want to call anyone as I am afraid I will be ...

 Did you ever have the feeling?
(im not exactly shure where this should be posted )
the feelin that you dont belong where you are ,some how your life was meant to be so much more that some how some way some thing is ...

 I am having a miserable birthday - how can I redeem it?
I know there are many more horrible and important things in this world to be concerned with, but right now I am selfishly consumed by my own misfortune!
My husband and I separated 3 months ago, ...

 My sister has depression.?

My sister is 28. She has no friends, not even one. She fears of going to work or being in public. However, sometimes she feels perfectly fine and starts talking to me and my dad. We ...

 Im so depressed ?
what can u interpret from these two mood charts?


I had some good days last week. Until yesterday I felt ...

 I need help, very depressed.?
I cannot control my feelings. One minute I am really happy the next I am so depressed i feel like there is nothing for me.

I start college tomorrow and its my dream course (animal care and ...

 How can I get my 20 year old son off of pot?
My son is 20, he smokes weed everyday and has had mental problems (add and depression) in the past. He used to take prozac but hasn't for about 2 years. He can't find a job because everyone ...

 Phobia/fear of feet touching you???
i have an extreme fear of ppl putting their feet on me and like when they do, i like freak out. they make fun of me for freaking out and they even make it worse by putting their feet on me, is there ...

 Can the after effects of alcohol make you depressed?
When you drink, like on the weekend, can it cause you to become depressed a few days after?...

 My 10 year old girl seems to have "no common sense". Is this a brain malfunction?
I am acctually scared for her.. it's so bad. Should I consult a neurologist? Psychologist? I am at a lost and need help!
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 How can explain my anxiety disorder to my husband?

 What the f**K is the problem with you people????
Someone asks how to kill themself, and you give them true answers!! These people are obviously asking, probably hoping that someone will try to help them, even though they say that they don't ...

 I have anxiety attacks, OCD, and social phobia. how can i overcome those three?

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im seeing a psychiatrist for almost 3 years now and fortunately i'm almost over with the obssesive compulsive disorder. However im still trying to overcome my ...

 What is the best way to kill yourself?
Something quick and painless, but fail proof?
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Please stop telling me not to do it. If I want to, then I'm going to regardless of what you say. If you truly care,...

I'm going to kill myself... i need help fast!!!!?
i'm at the end of my rope and i'm really thinking about killing myself... i tried to today but i guess i didn't take enough pills... i can't take things anymore... the rent i d due and the bills are all pass due, i can't get a loan for more then $150.. i have bad credit and everyone tells me that i should just get ANOTHER JOB because the one that i'm doing now doesn't pay that much... i don't have a car to get any were and even if i found another job it wouldn't pay me anything until at lest3 weeks from now and i need money now...as in today! i keep trying to think of some way to get everything sorted out but i can't.. my land lord will kick us out if i can't pay the rent and i'm so afraid that i'm going to lose my job, because i have been so sick with worry that i can't work.... i'm drowning and NO ONE CARES AND NO ONE WILL HELP ME... i just want to kill me self... i can't do this any more... i need some one to tell me what to do... someone to help me.
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i need atlest $400 to pay the rent and the best that anyone will give me is $150..i have already tried the payday loan places... i don't have family that can help me and even if they could the most of the family i have is a state away and i know that they wouldn't be able to send anything to me for atlest a week...

Hey...its not easy to place yourself in someones shoes and say I understand so I will not try to do that. I am not sure of your religious orientation but as a christian I'll tell you that God has promised us that He will never give us more than we can handle, and neither will he leave us nor forsake us..(1 Corinthians 10:13)
But speaking in general terms suicide is never the answer to anything..try talking to your landlord and setup a payment plan or something..you never know they may be more understanding than you anticipate.
Feeling alone and like no one cares is a natural human reaction in times of distress but Im sure if you look close enough you will find even one person who may not necessarily be a friend but who is willing to lend you a listening and sympathetic ear...just have someone listen to you is therapeutic you know..
I hope you don't go ahead and take your life because its always sad when the world has to say bye to someone before thier time...
I'll keep you in my prayers...

move in with your parents or another relative until you can sort things out. try getting two jobs with flexible hours so you don't come home exhausted.

Forever Young
Ssshhh.... take a deep breath. Money is really the last reasone why you should kill yourself. Go take yourself to hospital or call somebody to take you. You need help because you tried to commit suicide. Those pills could have still done some damage. Go to family and move in with them for a while, even if they are far away. Just simply talk to somebody. Hide yourself away from the world for a while. Move out. Eventually, though, you will have to get on your feet. Get a new job. Get a new apartment after you have some money. Remember to see a counselor. They can help you in case you feel suicidal again.

Hold your head high, heavy heart. Instead of looking at the bad, focus on what you can do to make it good. Leave suicide as your very last option. In fact, it shouldn't even be an option.

Good luck.

See: CHEAP/FREE FOOD & MEDS - RESOURCES FOR THE DESTITUTE & HOMELESS, in section 99, at http://www.ezy-build.net.nz/~shaneris and learn to manage your finances MUCH BETTER! view TIPS ON FINANCES - TURN YOUR FINANCES AROUND: 100's OF TIPS. Ask for an advance, or loan from your employer. Tell your landlord you are employed, and having temporary financial difficulties right now, but will start repaying the amount due over several weeks, from your next paycheck, due ... Sell what you can. Take the $150. Contact your creditors, ASAP, and ask for more time to pay.

See anxiety treatments, at ezy build, in section 6. Set yourself a specific time period for worrying about anything, (say; around three quarters of an hour, possibly when you get home, or after your evening meal, but not too close to bedtime) after which, resolve firmly to refuse to even entertain the thought of worrying again on that day: realise and accept that to do otherwise would be counterproductive to your mental health, and enjoyment of life.

You will have had your "worry time" for the day, and can just write down any more thoughts that come to mind, and say to yourself: "Well, I'll just have to worry about that tomorrow, won't I?". Have a backup plan for if you become homeless, such as living with various friends for a few days at a time. Never allow yourself to get in this position again. Regularly save 5% - 25% of your discretionary income, and always make provision for regular bills, and unforeseen expenses.

u shouldnt kill urself because ur overwelmed with stress....

Well, I don't think killing yourself is the answer. Don't see where that would solve anything. And I know it's easy for me to say, but worrying will get you absolutely nowhere. Things will happen as they will whether you stay up all night worrying or get a good nights sleep. Already you can see worrying is ruining more than helping. How old are you? How many are in the family? There must be some social services in your area that will help.

Sometimes starting over, even if it means a shelter for awhile, is the best thing that can ever happen. Might not seem like it at the time but it can give you time to plan and think things out. New job, new area.

Slow down and take a few deeps breaths.

ask family and friends for help
if they turn their backs on you get a new job

Killing yourself is surely not going to help anyone. not you and not the people your leaving behind. stop worrying so much, i know..easier said than done but you must. dont give up, keep looking for a better paying job if thats the problem. make some sacrifices. hell..get two jobs! you need to work for what you want. dont worry things arent going to be bad forever..things will get better eventually believe me. just DONT KILL YOURSELF! if things are at its worst..they will only get better if you TRY!
if your religious at all..ask god for help, pray before bed and ask him to help you..no prayer gets answerd if you dont ask for help. just do your best and god will do the rest.

hope this helps at least a bit.

pray god helps those who help themselves go to welfare or a church emergancy services maybe one can help do not kill your self it is not worth it tommorrow could be better or you do not know how much this would hurt your family please hang in there god bless

Gary Y
You need to contact each debtor, explain your situation and try to come to debt repayment agreements with them. Work out a budget first so you can give them something concrete in terms of repayment schedules.

I don't know where you live, but where I am, there are organisations called debt mediators that will do this for you, once you give them the go ahead they act on your behalf, and your debtors stop harrasing you. See if you can do this right now. But you need to stick to your arrangements. This is one step short of declaring bankruptancy.

Life will be much easier for you then. It is just money - its not worth killing yourself for! Good luck.

shane m
who is kick us out? you know you can't let money ruin your life, you feel like no one cares but i am sure someone does. look for a new job, you'll be fine trust me, everyone goes through financial hardships except the rich, but you can do it. i believe you can cause you're on here. don't kill yourself you don't even know if death is worse than life.

You should have at least thrity days to handle your business before the landlord can throw you out. There are homeless shelters for women in your city. Call united way, see if they can help you out with rent, utilities, etc.

Is anyone hiring where you live, across the street in walking distance.

Last but not least, you're going to have to snap out of the funk! You will never get anywhere by thinking negative, seeing no light at the end of the tunnel. ( I've been on a bad luck roller coaster for the last three years of my life) I say whatever the hell...keep trying. It's ruff but I have to try because I believe someday I will get past this. NO MATTER THE SITUATION! I'm a fighter not a punk azz.

If you end you life, your dead forever....keep in mind ten yours from now you could be the lucky winner of the lotto. You will never know if your dead!

Phuck yahoo answers
Landlords can't kick you out that easily. You say ' we' so at least you're not alone. You must have someone who cares about you. try having this situation and being abandoned.

Maggie M
suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem.
so dont do it.
There is always an answer to every problem. Just wait it out and see.
But for now, just give it your all until things start to look a little brighter. =]

First of all stop. The more you struggle and stress the deeper it pulls you in.

Second, take a deep breath and quiet yourself for a bit.

Realize that these problems are meaningless! Your life is way more precious than some stupid bills.

You can't solve every problem at once. You are driving yourself mad constantly thinking about them.

Relax, everything will be okay. The biggest mistake you can make is to convince yourself that things wont change. THINGS WILL CHANGE. They always do. Be positive as hard as it is. Happiness is a matter of perspective. Your problems are truly insignificant to taking your life.

There are people who do care about people like you. I would call your local health & human service department to see if you can ask for rent assistance. Maybe you can move to section 8 housing.

Silvia R

do check into cash or whatever it is... you pay them back whenever you get your paycheck...

Dont kill yourself over something like that....

If you are really in this desperate situation seek a church. Sometimes they will help with a few bills and give you some good advice and counseling. Do it now before its too late. Prayer can do miracles I am not a religious freak or holy roller, but if you are desperate that's who can help.

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