beautifultakenwomanbyjp_20
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Everyone in the world drinks and does stupid mistakes but they learn by them, I would definately tell your boyfriend what happen and have him know that you got herpes from his father and ask him for his forgiveness and maybe he'll forgive you or maybe he wont . Thats totally up to him but they do say once a cheater always a cheater it does't matter if your drunk or undrunk. But I would TELL him to let him know what is going on ? Because I really dont think you want to give him such a uncurable type of diesease he cant get rid of . Why were you drinking with his father anyhow???? Thats the question there???? An why would you be over with his father when he aint even there? This is a interesting situation and very fishy to me!. Make sure your 100 percent sure you have herpes first off get retest cause sometimes theres false positive test results that come out abnormal .! |
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dick rush
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try the microwave. i hear that cures herpes. |
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Kayla D
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try rubbing aloe vera on your skin, and jumping up and down
tha'll cute herpes.
and your are a disgusting little woman
oh.and your screwed. |
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mel
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dannnngggg...ewww ....well of course u need to tell him |
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rml313
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Tell him so he can dump you |
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booger butt
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run away |
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MissL
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WTF EWW thats sooo disturbing! Even if u were intoxicated i think u would be able to stop yourself from doing something like that. sorry but thats really wrong and yes i would tell your boyfriend otherwise your gunna be stuck wiht alot of guilt. |
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helpful, needy
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Herpes isn't a death sentence but it's annoying as hell. Whether you got it or didn't, if you slept with someone else and are in a committed relationship, you should definitely tell your partner. Please, stop drinking if it is going to lead to this kind of incident; and please tell your boyfriend. You're right, he has a right to know.
-- Would you want to be with someone you couldn't trust? |
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papa0s0
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say goodbye to that relationship... better luck on a herpes dating site :S |
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lemony_fresh992
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ummmmm....i surgest to tell him...just don't tell him its his dad...its gona be akward at your family get togethers |
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old_friend_new_face
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first off, gross for your boyfriends dad sleeping with you.
or was he intoxicated too?
because if he wasnt that adds a whole new level of disturbing to this.
and second,
yes.
you really should. |
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yonana
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Are you sure you got it from his dad? Could you have gotten it from the BF? Or the milkman? I doubt this was the first time ever that you were intoxicated, most people don't do something that's so totally against their basic nature just coz they've had too much to drink. Unless it's your basic nature to sleep around.
I think you should tell the BF you got it before you guys met and that it's being treated and you didn't think you should hide it from him anymore. Unless you already told him you were a virgin, then you've got to be honest and get ready to lose him.
I also think I agree with a previous writer that this question is kinda suspicious, but good luck if it's not. |
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F.D.Burgess RN BSN
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I don't know what type of relationship your bf has with his dad but if it was good, you just ruined it forever. The trust between them is gone. He would not want his father to meet another gf, wife, and even future children.
Being intoxicated is no excuse; there had to be some type of flirting going on before this happened. You had to know it might happen if the chance comes. He did. You should not drink again!
This is a tough decision that you will have to live with forever. Don't tell your bf and ruin their relationship. Just tell him you don't think it is going to work between both of you--basically give him the walking papers. If you don't want to tell him about the herpes, explain that it is for personal reasons that you prefer not to discuss.
There is no need to tell him who you slept with but inform him that you cheated on him and didn't use protection. Now, you may have herpes. Only tell him this if he has no idea about you and dad.
Having this disease is punishment in itself. I wonder how do you know for sure that you got this from his dad. Many people do not display symptoms for a while and sometimes it is a silent disease. It might be possible you got it from your bf.
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Smashy
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This might be the greatest question ever asked. |
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micwaltrip15
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you absolutely should tell your boyfriend |
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