When i try and have sex with a guy i don't get wet and he can't put it inside.?

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ellehcim
sounds like ur not too stimulated..foreplay does contribute alot to the success of your activity...lots of it will make you really wet and he wont have a problem putting it in..or otherwise, if u suffer from it quite a lot, then good old KY jelly will do the trick..


jiraruedas
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Buy water based lubricant,,,if you don't use a condom (I don't recommend this, unless you are married or something of the sort) you can use petroleum jelly,,,like Vaseline.


Candy
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Plenty of foreplay and some lubricating gel should do the trick


munchie
you should try more foreplay


rasputin
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Because theres something screwy withn your arousement response...if I were in your shoes, I would invest in some K-Y, or, consult an o.b./ gyn and get a real answer from a specialist.


digendra
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use lubricants which make your life easier.


alginon77
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relax and tell your guy

or theres always a little lube

but the best thing is a lubed condom thats way your safe and not haveing the embarressment of fummbling for the lube at that point of the night


Kitty L
Try foreplay, oral sex first, or KY Jelly.


RED M
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Well, tell him to eat you out or do some really good tongue on your vagina. That should get you wet, either with your juices or his spit. Then tell him to take his rod and slide it up your love canal. Enjoy.


kennma
foreplay would do it and patience from him. he needs to work on you.


what the hell
vagina wetness, is the body's way of allowing easier access for sexual intercourse. if you want to have sex and you are dry or lack enough wetness there are many products available at large chain stores that will help.....such as ky jelly and astroglide


abc123_11580
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well tell him to lick it! do oral sex! do some anal! lots of foreplay! & relax! just lay down & if its ur first time be prepared for the best time of ur life with a little pain of course & if hes good a good hard pounding! relax ok? have him rub his penis over ur vagina. ull *** for sure! be relaxed ok? if u cant then use lubricant or if u like pain let him go in dry!!!!!!!!!!!!


Ed z
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get some ky jelly.


stolenanjel
Lots of foreplay and KY. Just enjoy yourself and don't actually think about trying to get aroused, you'll stress yourself and end up making things worse.


bluebell
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try k y jelly


Kristen S
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Get him to lick your clitoris or use some ky jelly
try foreplay


peggy fw
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Some women have this problem about not getting wet. Hello that is why they make lubicate. Also the second part - about not putting it inside that is a man problem don't worry about that..lol..


xxxxxxxxx
Lube. Plenty of it.


axeman
your frigid love-thats all try again next week!


tookelovalicious
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Just tell him this: "ya gotta lick it, before ya stick it." That should solve your problems:)


butterflybaby
Try some foreplay and some ky jelly.


persephones_beloved
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Sounds like you are anxious. Foreplay, and lots of it! And if you don't produce much moisture, use some lube. I do, even if I am wet. It's great!


sudaloodaloobopbop
i have the problem just after my period has finished and generally when my boyf is gagging for it cus he has been without. lots of lube (plenty out there... find the best that works for you) relaxation. e.g. a good massage before always gets me going. and yes, getting him to go down tends to work too.


Pauline
Get him to lick your clit for a while


jess w
Honey increase the foreplay some more and you have to learn to relax. Cos you are thinking about this you might be worrying causing yourself not to be aroused. Sometimes its better to enjoy foreplay for a bit and wait til you are both comfy before having sex.

Lots of lube helps. Good luck and try to relax hun


DEAN
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use lubricant like KY jelly


Cindi
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Lots of foreplay!!


digital genius
use coolwhip


daisymay
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also buy some KY-jelly


XxXxPinkPrincessxXxX
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you need to start with foreplay
and be with someone you really like and trust
becuase if you are 2 nervous, it will be very hard for the penis to get in.


Amanda K
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Not properly relaxed - that takes time usually.
If you are both anxious and inexperienced it can happen that way. So try not to rush