When i try and have sex with a guy i don't get wet and he can't put it inside.?

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ellehcim	sounds like ur not too stimulated..foreplay does contribute alot to the success of your activity...lots of it will make you really wet and he wont have a problem putting it in..or otherwise, if u suffer from it quite a lot, then good old KY jelly will do the trick.. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

jiraruedas	Buy water based lubricant,,,if you don't use a condom (I don't recommend this, unless you are married or something of the sort) you can use petroleum jelly,,,like Vaseline. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Candy	Plenty of foreplay and some lubricating gel should do the trick Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

munchie	you should try more foreplay Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

rasputin	Because theres something screwy withn your arousement response...if I were in your shoes, I would invest in some K-Y, or, consult an o.b./ gyn and get a real answer from a specialist. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

digendra	use lubricants which make your life easier. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

alginon77	relax and tell your guy or theres always a little lube but the best thing is a lubed condom thats way your safe and not haveing the embarressment of fummbling for the lube at that point of the night Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Kitty L	Try foreplay, oral sex first, or KY Jelly. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

RED M	Well, tell him to eat you out or do some really good tongue on your vagina. That should get you wet, either with your juices or his spit. Then tell him to take his rod and slide it up your love canal. Enjoy. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

kennma	foreplay would do it and patience from him. he needs to work on you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

what the hell	vagina wetness, is the body's way of allowing easier access for sexual intercourse. if you want to have sex and you are dry or lack enough wetness there are many products available at large chain stores that will help.....such as ky jelly and astroglide Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

abc123_11580	well tell him to lick it! do oral sex! do some anal! lots of foreplay! & relax! just lay down & if its ur first time be prepared for the best time of ur life with a little pain of course & if hes good a good hard pounding! relax ok? have him rub his penis over ur vagina. ull *** for sure! be relaxed ok? if u cant then use lubricant or if u like pain let him go in dry!!!!!!!!!!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Ed z	get some ky jelly. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

stolenanjel	Lots of foreplay and KY. Just enjoy yourself and don't actually think about trying to get aroused, you'll stress yourself and end up making things worse. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

bluebell	try k y jelly Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Kristen S	Get him to lick your clitoris or use some ky jelly try foreplay Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

peggy fw	Some women have this problem about not getting wet. Hello that is why they make lubicate. Also the second part - about not putting it inside that is a man problem don't worry about that..lol.. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

xxxxxxxxx	Lube. Plenty of it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

axeman	your frigid love-thats all try again next week! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

tookelovalicious	Just tell him this: "ya gotta lick it, before ya stick it." That should solve your problems:) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

butterflybaby	Try some foreplay and some ky jelly. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

persephones_beloved	Sounds like you are anxious. Foreplay, and lots of it! And if you don't produce much moisture, use some lube. I do, even if I am wet. It's great! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

sudaloodaloobopbop	i have the problem just after my period has finished and generally when my boyf is gagging for it cus he has been without. lots of lube (plenty out there... find the best that works for you) relaxation. e.g. a good massage before always gets me going. and yes, getting him to go down tends to work too. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Pauline	Get him to lick your clit for a while Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

jess w	Honey increase the foreplay some more and you have to learn to relax. Cos you are thinking about this you might be worrying causing yourself not to be aroused. Sometimes its better to enjoy foreplay for a bit and wait til you are both comfy before having sex. Lots of lube helps. Good luck and try to relax hun Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

DEAN	use lubricant like KY jelly Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Cindi	Lots of foreplay!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

digital genius	use coolwhip Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

daisymay	also buy some KY-jelly Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

XxXxPinkPrincessxXxX	you need to start with foreplay and be with someone you really like and trust becuase if you are 2 nervous, it will be very hard for the penis to get in. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Amanda K	Not properly relaxed - that takes time usually. If you are both anxious and inexperienced it can happen that way. So try not to rush Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No