What Bra?- Girls only please.?

ok, well, i'm 13 years old and i'm cofused. One of my friends says that i should wear underwire bra's, another says i should just wear them for sport, another says i should stick with p...

ok, well, i'm 13 years old and i'm cofused. One of my friends says that i should wear underwire bra's, another says i should just wear them for sport, another says i should stick with padded non-wired another says i should were the sort of bra's you get at places like la senza and another says i should stick with the thin training bra's. My mum says i should stick with just padded. I dunno what to do! I wear a 34aa but my boobs jump around in size! Sometimes their too small for my bra and sometimes i get double boobs!

I haven't started my period but have had discharge for about,, 3-4 months probably longer. Can anyone tell me what to do!? I have no idea what bra to wear! Also, one of my friends says i should wear thongs, but i'd rather stick with girl boxers and bikini's

emily k	I agree with your mother. Sports bras are good, for when you'll be very active, like working out, but with your size it's not such a huge deal. Once you have boobs, any size, you should stop waering your training bra. They are made to get you in the habit (or train) you to waer a bra, not to support the ones you already have. You also don't really need an underwire bra, yet. The wire makes the bra less comfortable, but when you grow, you will need one of these for good suport, (and nice shape!). Now, the padded with give you a fuller look and suport, and will be quite comfortable, even for long periods of time. When you go bra shopping you should get a size check, just ask one of the assistants. As awkward as this is, it's even more awkward to wear a bra that's too small/big.

Danny M	i say no bra, go commando, u'll definitely be popular

AS	Def. padded, you'll look better and probably feel more comfortable if you got a little something there..

knihelpu	I think your right about your panties. As for your bra, as you've discovered the choices are nearly endless, the best advise is to wear the style that YOU are most comfortable with. Everybody has their own opinion, but YOU are the one that has to wear it. So, if your fine with a sports bra, and it's comfortable than just wear a sports bra. Also, the bra you choose needs to fit properly. It's not your boobs, it's the bra. Just because they may all say 34aa doesn't mean that they will all fit the same. For some bras a 34A might fit you better, in another style you might take a 32A or 32B. It depends on how the bra is made.

Cute as button72886	ask your mother

hotdog.	first you wear what ever bra is the most comfrotable for you. its your chest not your friends. i'd say you don't need an underwire though.. second your period will come don't worry about it. third wear the kind of undies you want. its your bottom.

kelly	i chose padded becuase my uh nipples stuck out [[hehe]] and i just get cheap ones from wal mart. they work really well. i am 13 and a 36B. i also have the underwire. feel like more support! who cares what ur friends say. its bras and underwear! what 13 year old cares about what kind of bra and underwear their friends are wearing.

Kanga2roos	Ah puberty.... lucky you. I recommend going to a store and finding the one that you feel most comfortable in and then get a couple different sizes so that you can wear the one that fits best on any given day. You should not be worrying about what your boobs look like, just so long as they stay covered!

♥MaDdiE♥	juz wear whatever u feel comfortable in!!

Terri	Stop listening to everyone else and wear a bra that is comfortable on YOU. Also get properly sized. Most of us are in the wrong size bra. Just a note, do NOT go to Victoria Secret as they size incorrectly.

Tammi D	the thing with bras is that they are mass produced also, the sizing may not be consistent from one manufacturer to the next, so find a few favorite brands and figure out which size from each fits best (best meaning good support and comfortableness) of course you're still young, so there should be further development. as for panties, wear what you like. tell your friends to worry about their own panties, and you'll take care of making your own panty decisions. get a t-shirt that says "i picked out my own panties, not what ____(fill in friend's name) says I should wear" talk to your mom about your discharge.

Alicia Rae	I think you should wear whatever bra feels most comfortable. The padding one with no wire sounds good and a sports bra for just sports. Wearing a wired bra for sports isn't good for you boobs and can cause discomfort. Once you get larger try underwire and see how you feel. Try getting a bigger size and see if its more comfortable! That's totally normal, i was the same way. I think its a sign that its coming soon so be ready! When my friends starting wearing them I thought I had to too. But after a week they became annoying and i just went back to my normal underwear. You can get just as pretty girl boxer shorts and bikin as thongs! Plus they are much more comfortable.

Krissy	For bras, go to the store and try on different ones. Jump around in the fitting room and see which one is the most comfortable. As for the underwear, stick with what's the most comfortable for you. I'm 19 and I hate thongs. I love bikini cut and boy shorts!!

Dr. Amy, DDS	When I was around your size, I wore a regular padded bra. You don't really need the support of an underwire, and sometimes training bras "show through". Maybe also try a sports bra. Wear girl boxers and bikinis. Much more comfortable, and appropriate for a 13 year old.

♥Hollister_chick♥	what do you want to do? It's your choice what do you feel comfortable wearing?

MissA	You don't have to wear an underwire bra. Technically at a 34aa you don't have to wear a bra at all unless you have unusually prominent nipples, since it's not like you need the support. But the underwire or lack thereof will not have any effect on what happens to your breasts. Personally I do wear them, but that is because they are actually comfier for me since I am busty. Try on any bra before you buy it. It should cling to your ribcage snugly but not be digging in to you. Look at the back where the hooks are... is it riding up? Then you have the straps too tight or too small of a size. The cup should be responsible for most of your uplift. Move around in it, raise your hands. Are you oozing out of the top or has it ridden up so that the bottom part is not below your breast? Get a different bra or a different size. For day to day wear, you should probably have basic bras in three colors, black, fleshtoned, and white. Then you can wear whatever shirt you please and people won't be able to see your bra. Apart from that, buy whatever you think is cute and is comfortable for you to wear. As far as the underwear thing goes, it is deeply, deeply creepy when thirteen year old girls wear thongs. It's sexualising you way too young. So please, just wear something that covers your butt, if only to not make me feel (at age 28) like the old woman of the hills preaching about how society is collapsing. If you are worried about discharge, you can always buy pantiliners in the sanitary napkin area of the grocery store. These are basically thin pads that you can use so you don't get discharge on your panties.

Michelle	Good Gawd! At your age i wish i had some boobs to put in a bra. J/K. I never wore a training bra. I jumped right into a 34 A. If im not mistaken that is a tiny size. If i were you i would wear a normal bra, perhaps with a thin padding to prevent my nipples from printing. but padded to increase size? No. and definitely not lingerie from la senza. Thongs? No. Do what you feel is comfortable. Your boobs probably "jump around" in size because they swell or bloating. Im not sure tho. But hey in everything you do, do it for your comfort. Because its you who has with the discomfort.

trish	Wear what's comfortable, try on all kinds of bras and make sure that it doesn't leave lines when you wear a shirt. Who cares what other people think you should wear, you have to wear it, right? Different bra makers seem to make the cup size different so always try on the bra before you buy. If you don't want to wear a thong than don't. Just watch out for pantie lines with your pants and skirts, that's the only reason I wear thongs, but only when you can see the lines. Don't wear what others say you should wear, where what you really want to wear. Your period will come when it comes, talk to your doctor if it bothers you, some discharge is normal, but it could be a yeast infection so ask you mom if she'll make an appointment for you. And just remember Hun, if you conform to want others want than you'll be unhappy and spend too much of your adult life trying to figure out who you really are. Good luck and I hope I helped a little.

spread your fire	it's your decision..whatever you find more comfortable, wear.

mardaw	Go to a store that will do a fitting for you then the sales lady can help you pick out some styles that might be right for you. Try them on and then pick out whatever you feel comfortable wearing. Stick with the bikini's and girl boxers because, that is what you are comfortable with.

whatshername	Claudie...It does not matter what anyone says. YOU WEAR WHAT YOU ARE COMFY IN!!!! You wear whatever kind of bra that you like and you wear whatever kind of panties you like. There is no reason to be uncomfortable just to conform to what other people say you should be wearing. When your boobies get a little bigger then I would say for the added support wear and underwire bra. Besides these bras will help your boobs not to sag when you get older. Until then you wear whatever you like. As far as the thongs........I am sorry. I hate them. I ONLY wear them when absolutely neccessary. Like when I am wearing pants that my pany lines would show. Other than that.......forget it. I do not like that strip up my HOOHAA! The only person you should listen to when making a decision about what under garments to wear is Claudie!!!!

princessdawnofbearcreek	You need to go to a department store with a nice lingerie section and be fitted properly for your bra. "The right tool for the job" is an old saying, and it applies to bras as well. Sport bras give extra support when you are doing something athletic; underwire bras tend to separate and define the breasts. Pushup bras can give you more cleavage and fill out your bodice better. No larger than your breasts are, I would avoid the underwire. Why bother with the discomfort of an underwire if you don't need it? Bras made of cotton with a touch of spandex are wonderful for daily wear. Do not be surprised if your breasts grow a bit once you get your period.

belinda	Honey, we come in different sizes and shapes. Stick with what is comfortable for you. Get measured properly to be sure that you're wearing the right size. As you grow, you'll probably need to try different kinds of bras. It sounds like you may need to have a couple different sizes on hand. For sports, use a sports bra that compresses your breasts. Why should you wear thongs? They're not healthy, so stick to what is comfortable and save thongs for when you don't want panty lines. Most days, you probably wear clothes that don't show panty lines, and frankly, on most days, who cares? When you get dressed up, then you can either wear thongs or just smooth your panty lines with pantyhose.

michelle s	For sports you need a sports bra. Also the size of bras varies form where you buy it. La senza bras are differant then say wonder bras bras. But yeah i woudl just stick to padded untill your boobs get bigger then go with the wire

Hope	Most people are wearing the wrong size bra.Go to a reputable store and get a good measuring and then just wear whatever is comfortable! On the pantie issue too!

me	hm...well if your 13 then whatever bra you feel comfortable in. i personally like underwire but its whatever you like...o and your 13, you dont need to wear a thong but girl boxers are kinda weird...o and if your friends are telling you what underwear you should wear then seriously...get some new friends

Ekaterina Vivace	ok, heres the deal sporting bra for sports. keeps you in, but kinda squishes underwire for dressup. gives you support w/o squishing, can be uncomfortable tho padded only if you are small. if youre jsut doing it to be even bigger, ppl can tell thongs? i think not. theyre gross. just wear bikini-type if youre concerned about it showing. if youre wearing a skirt tho, and you need to keep it in a little, like if you have a little softness there, wear slightly higher( low rise rather than bikini).

froggie	You probably don't need underwire given that your chest is not very big yet. Also, I like bras with a little padding because your nipples won't show if it is cold out. Bras vary in how they fit, so you should get yourself measured to find out what size you need to wear. You can do this right in a department store. Don't worry, they just put the measuring tape over your clothes, so it is not a big deal or anything. Then try on a whole bunch of different brands and styles until you find something comfortable. Don't feel pressured to wear thong underwear. Wear what is comfortable (so stick to your bikinis)!

cchslaughaholic	Just wear bras that you find most comfortable in. If you do sports and are active alot sports bras would probably be the best choice. But this all really matters on your opinion. And about the underwear that is also your choice. Thongs are good to wear if you have pants that show your underwear line.

GEE-GEE	Stop listening to all your friends. Go to a store that has a lot of different types of bras and buy the ones that are the most comfortable. Just make sure that they look good when you have clothes on as well. You don't want to have some funking looking bra lines under your t-shirts.

Rosie	your best bet is to just do what you are comfortable with...since you are so small (no offense... i was that size at your age) your best bet is to wear the training bras or the ones with just a little padding....why wear an uncomfortable one when you dont have to? or if you prefer you could just wear sports bras..try on different kinds and decide which you feel most comfortable in...as for your period..it could be starting or it could be a long time away..there really isnt a fool proof way to tell sorry...and if you'd rather stick to girl boxers and bikini's do that because its your choice...no one has to see them anyway so why would it matter? happy teenage years!