Was it my fault?? (female only please)?

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вℓαмє_¢αиα∂α	if you were telling him to stop and he didnt stop then it's rape. report his ***. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

rouba158	:S Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Jazzy C	RAPE RAPE it's not your fault girl go to the POLIC3 Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Ms. G	That's rape girl. It doesn't matter if you went with him knowing he had a reputation or whatever. The fact that you told him to stop and he kept going makes it rape. Don't keep it a secret, tell those you love and who love you. They can help you get through this traumatic experience. Don't keep quiet and let another girl end up in your situation as well. It may also be good to go to a counselor or a women's rape center to find other people who have been raped and have someone you can talk to who understands what you're going through. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Starfish	Where I live, and in most States 15 is jailbait. You're not of legal consensual age, so no matter what you agreed to it is still considered rape. Just be sure about what you want to do, once you open that can of worms you can't put them back in? Have you thought about talking to your mom about it? If you can't tell her, then can you tell a complete stranger, or the police? If so, your parents will have to be informed at some point, you should talk to your mother about it first. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

libertysrose	I have to agree with 90% of these answers it was date rape.. no means no , no matter what !!! It wasnt your fault at all. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Kickstand	What you have stated is literally the definition of Date Rape. You should definitely contact the police. You are an underaged minor and this "lad" is a rapist. My guess is that you aren't the first and you probably aren't the last. You have an obligation to stop him. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

c money	yes in fact that is rape and you need to tell someone what happened i'm not sure if you can even make a case against him now since you've waited so long and there are no witnesses unless there are signs of force still on you. if you had told someone earlier you could have gone to a hospital and gotten tested then they would've arrested his punk ***. next time ohh God don't let there be a next time just punch him in the dick or the B@LLS. just get away from that creep OR BETTER YET don't inform the law. just your older brother and the older brothers of some other girls he's done that too. and let them settle up out of court(stomp that kids @$$) if you know what i mean Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

kate j	yead i think it is Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

GEEDER	If you told him yes he assumed that meant yes. However, once in the act when you told him to stop he should have stopped. not sure if it is "classified" as rape. stay away from that guy. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Brina	Rape go to the police you shouldnt be with someone like that Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

babi_lara_ere	yeah sounds like rape. no one should pressure you into having sex and you have a right to stop if you don't like it. get rid of him if you haven't already. also take a pregnancy test just to be on the safe side and see someone to talk to about rape, maybe your doctor? if you can tell your mum and i think she will understand. NO IT WAS NOT YOUR FAULT dont even think that, it was his fault. good luck hunny. and get rid of that scum! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

JAN	No means no, report him or he will do it to another girl if he hasn't already. He is a rapist. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

07jaggrad	This was rape. I know you've heard the saying, "No means no." It still means no even if you've started already. He should have listened to you and you need to handle this situation accordingly by contacting the proper authorities in your area. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

cfoxwell99	Sounds like rape to me, I would talk with someone about it for sure. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

back2good1225	There is no way that this is your fault. Even if you agreed to intercourse prior to the act, if you said no, you said NO. This is something that I would definately talk to authorities about, or a school counselor, your parents, any adult figure you know and trust. This may not (legally) be considered as rape, but it is definately something that needs to be addressed. Since you are having 'flashbacks' and seem concerned about it, it would be wise for you to talk to someone. Most areas have a rape crisis line, crisis center or domestic violence center. call one of these places and talk to them... they can keep it confidential (unless you sound like you are in danger) good luck, and i am sorry that you had to go through such a terrible experience~!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

zzHoUnDzz	It was definately NOT your fault. And it was rape because you told him to stop. Please confide in a best friend that you can talk to.Some guys are total jerks & should be in prison.Please dont ever get yourself in this kind of situation again,,like,,dont be alone with anyone until you know them very well,,&when you are older.Dont blame yourself,,you are young & unaware of some of the ways of the world.You learn from this & go on.Life gives us many lessons & thats what makes you stronger.If you feel that you need counciling,,get it.If you want to press charges on this person,,do it.If you want to give him a piece of your mind,,I strongly suggest it.He took advantage of you.Im so sorry.You will get thru this,,I promise. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

warmhearted	at first i may considered it's your fault because you went out with this guy who has a bad reputation...but then if he's forcing you to have sex or threatening you for you to have sex with him then that is i considered as rape. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

sam	No dear it is not your fault. No means no and he should have accepted your refusal. That is clearly a case of date rape. I would press charges. I am sorry that this has happened to you and I think you should seek counseling because you have been through a traumatic ordeal. I will pray for you and please take care of yourself. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

corinne_29_	definitely date rape. You said stop, he didn't =rape. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Meemee	If you did try to stop him somehow & he insisted, then I would consider it rape Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

YourShopGirl.com	A guy pressuring you to have sex is not your "fault" Only you know if it was rape..I tend to consider rape as a guy attacking you and just going for it (not to be rude)...you seem like you were dating him...it was TOTALLY wrong what he did and I am sorry since I also have a daughter 16....I would want to know personally. Try and see what part you played and how it could have been different if that's possible (just to stop the thoughts of it). I hope you used protection or he did at least. Anyway...sorry if this doesn't help much.....Really your parents and his should know but beyond that...I really am unsure. Take care :) xxxooo Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

girlfunny	A woman has every right to decide when to stop sexual overtures. just have this at the back of your mind. Altho u did put yourself in a rather unpleasant situation by going out with him even with his bad reputation. In a court of law the lawyer might just argue this away cos u niether screamed nor struggled, nor did he hold a weapon to you. You are young and many times we do make silly mistakes. Its left for you now to decide if you'll want to make this public and live with the probability that he'll be supported which is usually the case or u just go ahead with life. Learn from this and never make this mistake again Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

shondak	We all make mistakes. Yours began with even talking to him, but know that it ended when you told him to stop. That's where his mistake began. Yes, it is rape. If you say no, that means no. Stop, too. Even if your naked and had previously agreed. If you change your mind and don't want to give it to him, then he must respect that and comply. Don't feel like its your fault or that you have to keep this quiet. You obviously are disturbed by the whole situation and he was wrong. You don't need to be having sex at such a young age, though. Wait until you're in a serious relationship. But I would definitely tell my mother or some one trustworthy to get it to the necessary people. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

dasgirl	u r just like me. my boyfriend have sex with me but he say if he dont love me, he wont do it. but actually he just love TO HAVE sex with me that is all. well, it is not your fault. it is all the J E R K guys fault. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

onlylove41	it was rape. talk to someone, a parent, school councilor, police. sounds like you put yourself in a position where he could take advantage of you and you will hopefully learn from that. but what he did was totally wrong and whether or not he gets justice served to him, you need to get help. you don't want to carry this around with you the rest of your life and you don't want it to come between you and any relationships you will have in the future. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

jasonheavilin	I know you said females only, but I feel compelled to give you some information. Yes, it will be considered rape. Even if you start willingly and then change your mind. Once you begin to say no, he is supposed to stop. I also want to give you a bit of advice if I may. Please be more careful in the future. If he has a bad reputation, stay away. Try to avoid situations or places where such things like this could happen if you are not willing. I understand that it could be difficult, but for your safety please try. You did not give much information on how you ended up with the guy alone, so I will not say much more. I recommend that you seek some counseling before you report it because the process with the police can be difficult for you. A counselor or other professional can help you through the process of reporting while minimizing your pains with the process. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

HA HA	RAPE! CALL THE POLICE! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

bardstale	Your 15! Next time you see him, kick him in the balls. Some guys ruin it for the rest of us. Fry him. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Paramedic2007	If you agreed to have sex with him then it was consensual sex, but if you were against it from the beginning then it could be rape. Considering that you were telling him to stop and he would not then that is a sign of rape. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

QuestionWyrm	This is called date rape. It was clearly his fault and not yours if you kept saying no and to stop. He pressured you into sex when you weren't ready. You need to realize that this is HIS fault and not yours, and you might consider talking to someone professionally like your school counselor or by calling a rape hotline. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No