Single mom thinking about suicide?

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JACKS	Not sure what to say, asians normaly stick with their own cultcher, dont be sad you can't leave yor child without a mum, you will get over this everything is done for a reason what the reason is i dont know , but hang in there, i've felt like that so many times in my life over men, but when i think back i think silly fool! there are so many bad things that happen in the world, so we should all make the most of what we have we're put on this earth for reason again i dont know why maybe it's some sort of test i dont know, i'm 47 and have money worrie's and have breast cancer, and lost my lvely mum at christmas, i've felt like giving up so many time but i'm trying to be strong, i have a grown up daughter and know she be devastated if i took my own life, you must think of your little one dont leave them without a mum. Hope you can get through this maybe talk to your doctor? good luck dont give up. x Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

GR	Suicide is forever. And, it is one of the sins that you cannot ask forgiveness for. If you do this, you will be seperated from God forever. When you think about it, you will realize that it's just not worth it. Call and get yourself a doctors appointment with a therapist. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Nancy L	I NEED YOU NOW to go to youtube type in The Secret it says first ;20 min of the movie Watch it. Please I am a single mom. I have a 2 year old. I was BRRRROKE and I just kept on trucking. I started nursing school so that I will never feel this way again. You can make it! I can never go out I need a sitter and have NO family to help. :Your kid needs you PLEASE. Go to the ER right after you watch that movie. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

fa-shizzle	do not killl yourself!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! well, if you want to find love, go to eharmony.com then you can review your matches for free. i promise you would find one and asian guys just probaly like asian girls because of his culture. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

laura	live for your kid... you don't want to hurt him or her and make him/her feel like you do now knowing his/her dad left and then you too... life's hard but it's worth living for the good times. move on from the guy and live for your kid. :) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

heartbroken </3	dont kill your self, but i mean,, why the h ell are you asking us, go see a frekin shrink. duh! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

FIZZBABE!!!	DO NOT KILL YOURSELF! SOme man is not worth your life. What will ou kids do without you! You will be able to date again. Get a counselor and got to the doctor. DO NOT DO IT!!!!! Your life is a precious Jewel DO NOT GIVE IT UP!!!!!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

211	How can you say all these things when you have a child to take care of? If you commit suicide, you're not only killing yourself, but your child too. That whole thing you wrote is all about yourself! Not one thing about your child. Life is more than crying and killing yourself over a guy. Don't you understand how ridiculous that sounds? You seriously need to see a counselor and get some depression pills. Let me just ask you this question. When people find out what you did, what are they going to say? "She killed herself because that guy left her. She also abandoned her child." Is that what you want? I know that what you want right now is for him to feel guilty. I'm pretty sure that you are furious at him, but do you love your child enough to let that anger go? Please do yourself and your son/daughter a favor and get some professional help. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

ms.biggleboggins ;]	pleasee dOnt u know how may children out there wish they had a mother. and your kid will be verryyyyyyyyyyyyyyy upset knowing that there mother did such a thing. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Jelly	A life without love is no life at all? Excuse me?! What about your child for Pete's sake! Why don't you stop being selfish and spend more attention on loving your child rather than sulking over your own needs. You need to get a grip. You don't just turn 'suicidal' just because your ex won't go back out with you. That's pathetic. I'm sorry, but you really need to spend more time with your child. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

wildcat33	SEE A DOCTOR. You have a child. You think you're having a hard time now, think about how much HARDER it would be for your child. Any guy should never come before your kid. You're 27! That's still young. You can't just give up because you had a few months of bad luck. Quit thinking about yourself, think about your child. You need to take some time to bond with your child so you feel like you have something to live for, because it's right there in front of you, and while doing this you will be occupied and not think about men. Quit looking for men, they will come to you, and don't focus on a certain race, even if that's what you're attracted too, you could find a white or black man that treats you better than any men you ever knew. Let the men come to you, focus on your child, see a doctor. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Angel~~sometimes~~Not!	don't compit suicide think about your kid things are hard but think if you hit rock bottom all you can do is go up Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

(사랑)	ok first thing killing not going to work well u dont have confidence in your self U should go out there and find a man whos perfect for u im asian and i dont care **** about looks its about the personality If ur personality is squeeky clean then you will find a man who loves u Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Rawrr xxox <33	dont call her selfish, thatll make her want to die more... Have you ever read Catch him and keep him? I havent actually read it, as im still young... but i saw something and i think it might really help you find a good guy. I'm sure there's another guy out there. just order to book find it on google. It was writen by a guy so that helps. so if you read that, youll probably fidn a perfect guy :D . also, please dont kill yourself for the sake of your children. If they still need a babysitter they'll have a HORRIBLE time growing up knowing their mom killed herself.... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

In God We Trust	Who is more important than you? Who does this guy think that he is? He sounds NOT like a person that would be suitable for you. You need a strong, responsible, well mannered, caring, God-fearing, God-loving man. HE DOES NOT COMPLETE THAT APPLICATION. As for you, young lady, let this 'sad, sorry thing called a man' get out of your mind. He is disruptive to a fine young lady and has mistreated you. YOU, don't need this headache and this abuse. I wouldn't care what he liked or disliked. He is not significant in this picture. YOU ARE and so is your baby. Don't let anyone put you down. YOU should go to Court right now and get a Filing against him for child support. While you are at it, get whatever full custody papers you need to keep him out of your life. If the Court somehow grants him visitation rights, then ask for supervised visitation ONLY. He is not good news! Whatever you do, don't telephone him any longer. Be cool and keep up with what he is doing. This way he can be served, and you will gain from the knowledge of where his job is, and where he lives. Also, if he is not working, that is not a problem. You can get a judgment against him in Court. This will guarantee that if he gets any assets from employment, inheritance, etc., you the mother of his child, must be paid first. You have no time to waste. Stop thinking negatively about yourself, I can tell that you are beautiful person. You just happen to live in the cruel world that we all share. Believe me, when I say, I have run into some guys who were humdingers. They were folk that relatives of mine, just couldn't live without. Give me a break, and give you a break. Do you eat out of a garbage can? Then stay away from garbage, and you won't have it smattered all over you. You can't enjoy God's blessings if you hang out with the garbage. What shall we then say to these things? If GOD be for us, WHO can be against us? - Romans 8:31. The Lord daily loadeth us with BENEFITS, even the GOD of our salvation. Selah. - Psalm 68:19 I sincerely wish you continued success. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Jason p	i agree......if u were to comit suicide, you child wouldnt have a parent,and besides.......suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Sarah D	Killing your self is never the answer (yes that is a typical thing to say but its the truth) I know how it feels to have your heart broken and it is by far the worst feeling in the world but if he isn't going to be with even when you call and beg him then he just isn't going to be with you. NOONE should ever put another person in that much power. You can be happy without him. It might not seem like that now but it is true. Think about the good things you did before him. The things that involve you. Do them and enjoy them and enjoy life. Your 27. You have so much life to live still. There are people who have serious diseases who dream about being healthy because they want to just live. Living is the best thing you can do to get over this guy. Not dying. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Cassie31	amen complex kid (comment above) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Pixie311	you have the love of your child. That love is unconditional and no one can take that away from you. How would your child feel growing up with out a mother. U need to be there for your child. Don't let men rule your life. You should look into seeking out professional help. You should not be involved in any relationships until you can learn to love yourself. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

scarletmcbeth	are you serious?...you have all the love in the world...the most important love of all..a parent/child love... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

alsand@rocketmail.com	dont kill urself,the kid will kill itself if u do. u'll scar him. love the kid, kid will love u too. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

CHAR L	First off you are being selfish to your child or children if you kill yourself.Your child needs a mom. I am 43 and a single mother of 3. Things are not easy but everything I do is for my children. NO man nor WOMAN is worth suicide. Live your life, do something you enjoy Take care of your child or children Suicide is the cowards way out. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

xXxCupcakexXx	think about your child. your a single parent. you're all your child has. and you're just going to leave it because you think you're going to be alone forever? first persons right thats selfish. maybe guys dont find you dateable because you sound super desparate. && everyone loves asian girls.at least thats what im told =P Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Josie007	You're 27 years old - why would you possibly think he was your last chance at love? That's crazy, girl! AND, you have a child who needs and loves you. That's reason enough to stick around. No loser guy is worth your precious life. You are too good to beg anyone to love you. Focus on your self worth, and loving your child, and if you really feel suicidal, get to a Dr. ASAP. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Hannah330	hun, please dont, you have a kid who loves you no matter what. your just going through a bad patch in your life. i promise it will get better! just imagine how you would have felt if your mother had killed herself when you were a child? its not fair on your child, please think of them, and put their needs before yours! over time it will get better Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Complex Kid	That's selfish as hell considering that you have a child. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

EmilyOsmentFan	Why even think that, ur a mom think of your child! Your child gives you love :-) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

sidesjeremy	YEah, what a good choice. YOu kill yourself and leave your poor child to live with that for the rest of his life. I dont care how sad or depressed you are. You have a responsibility to your child. What will he do without you. Guess you didnt think that far ahead. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Jasmina Pierro	Think about your kids. Stop basing your happiness on a relationship with a man. There are many, many more things in life to be happy and fulfilled about. 27 is very very young. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

GiGi	I know its really cliche....but you're young. To say you will never find love again is just not true. Everyone and i mean EVERYONE feels the way you currently do at one point in their lives...we all loose someone we loved and thought loved us back...and it hurts....bad. Sometimes it feels like it might be easier to 'end things' then to deal with them. That isnt the answer...I promise you will get through this...it may not be today, or tommorow...but you will. Please think about your child...he/she needs you...you are all they have! Continue living your life and loving your child, love will find you when its time. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No