Should I let my daughter get breast implants?

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Bistro	hey, I'll tell you what, if you say no, then get a reduction to her little size. how would you feel about that? Let her feel like the woman she deserves to feel like. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Ilooklikemyavatar..exactly	As long as she doesn't believe it will change her life dramatically? Appearance should not be given a top priority in life. How much time and energy does she take into her appearance. If she puts too much into it, she maybe stunting her growth as a genuine person, because her self esteem rests so much on looks and trends. Personality and character is so much more important. Let her know that. If she only wants it as like a bonus, then maybe. Personally, as a guy, I could care less what the breast size is unless it is smaller than A average. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

leikevy	Uhh no, but shes 18, so technically, she can do 'whatever she wants'. Fake breasts turn guys off. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

j H	If she is 19, she doesn't need your permission. But I wouldn't be paying for it either. In response to Timothy's point.. women are so "hung up" on big boobs because society and men are. I am guilty as charged as well... but prefer the softness of natural boobs. Just look at the advertising industry and see how much cleavage you see hanging out. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

S'Rae	I don't hink that it is really "up to you anymore" b/c she is over 18 but that is nice to know that some of theses children out here stsill value there parents opinions. Just b/c you may have larger breasts than her does not mean that she needs to have them as well- first of all you are a mom- child birth does a lot to your body- and you are a bit older, no offense, so you may have gained a little weight since you were 19 yourself contributing to your larger breast. Not many guys like fake anyhow. Many "boob-guys" like them b/c of the feel and they appreciate breasts of all sizes, large and small. I think she should do some research fist- I used to want them too when I was in high school- I am 24 now- but I am glad I did not. After having a child and FINALLY puebety, ( i guess) I am very happy with my C cups. Let natuer take its course- I am sure the higher power(s) that be made her gorgeous as she is already. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

brevejunkie	If her breasts are uneven to the point where other people notice and it's really bringing her down or giving her low self-esteem, then yes, sure. Other than that, I don't really think it's necessary. Some women have big boobs, some have small boobs. She should be thankful that she has any at all. There are plenty of women who have breast cancer and end up having a mastectomy (or double mastectomy) and almost HAVE to get breast implants to feel like a woman again, and to avoid awkard moments, whispers, etc. If your daughter wants implants because she isn't happy with the size of them now and wants them bigger, I think that's wrong. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

nilajaj	well, if she has read up on all the pro's and con's then i guess so......i would not be happy about it though. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

strathhavengirl	If i were you, I would say no. Implants ruin your natural beauty. Besides, only INSECURE women actually get implants. Tell her, that, instead of implants, you'll get her skin colored knee and elbow pads that she can wear, becuase I swear, one morning she'll wake up, look at her massive chest, and think " What a mistake I've made. Why didn't my mother stop me?". Does she really wanna become one of those old ladys with a 34 DD?? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

dec2181	my theory has always been... 'If it's not broken don't waiting your money fixing it". Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

mochachinna76	Teach her to be happy with what she has. Her breasts will get bigger when she has a baby later in life. My sis went up a cup size. Seriously bigger breasts are society's idea of a ideal shape, and not all guys care if you have big ones. Don't forget the ever present wonder bra if you feel you need some lift or shape. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

firefly5003	I am only 17, but I have read up on the issue and I do not think it is a good idea. Even at 19 her body could still be changing, giving a greater possibility of problems. It also can be pretty addictive. If she is very stuck on the idea of enlargement I have heard good things about breast enlargement pills, for example http://www.breastgain.com . I think they have really advanced in the past few years and actually have many positive health side effects. Also, they are a lot less expensive, so I would try that before jumping into surgery. I hope that helps. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

jamesi	19 years old, probably a simply gorgeous young lady, and she can't wait to get started with the self-mutilation. that's really sad. didn't you raise your daughter to have any self-esteem or dignity? tell her from me to smarten up and stop thinking such disgusting things. it's an abuse of breasts, and therefore an abuse of women, and it should not be allowed. think of the health problems! the resulting scars! the trauma to her body and mind! ruining the breasts that she already has! those things don't look good on tv screens, and in real world they look disgustingly bad. your daughter needs to learn how to love her own body! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

[Teddy♥Bear]	ok she is 19 years old!!! it's legal at 18! let her pay for it herself because im sure that paying a thousand bucks for implants is her decsion and her waste of money NOT yours! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

timetraveller	advise against it but assure her of your continued love and support is she insists. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Erin	Some women's breasts don't finish growing until they're 25. It would be wise to wait a few years to be sure she's done developing before tampering with things. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

krys	No, there's no reason to change your body. 19 is too young. It's not safe. but hey, she's gonna do what she wants Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

nathanielgpalmer	How is she well-educated by 19?? She's still a kid. She should wait until she has a child, which hopefully is well after she is married. She is acting like a child, because she still is on those matters. You paying for them would be a huge mistake and would contribute to image problems, not solve them. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Mary Ann	I think at 19 she should be able to make her own decision. Make sure to research all the pro's & con's so she knows all the facts. And make it known to her that if she wants it then she'll have to pay for it. They don't come cheap and if she doesn't like the way she looks then she can pay to get it fixed. And make sure to let your daughter know that no matter what you'll always love her whether she goes through with it or not. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Jess	She is your daughter and in the end you and her would make the decision. I have B and don't have a problem with my size. She just has to make sure that she wants them. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

*ITS ME!*	i know ur just trying to be a mom, but let her do it. my mom i all for it, when i told her i wanted to get them. she also told me to wait till i have a child, but personally, i have pretty low self esteem and its bc of the size of them. i know i would love to fit in clothes better, and where certain things that i cant, and feel more like a "woman" and not a little girl. it gets deep. let her, if thats whats going to make her happy. and she will be happy that her mom supports her no matter what. :o) (then again, im 22, and just realized that shes 19....but my answer still remains the same) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

snoogans	sure why not, if it make her feel better about herself. just find out if there will be issues with brest feeding if she plan on doing that. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

TIMOTHY D L	You know, that is just sad in a way. Why do women put so much of their identity in their Breast's? You know there are men who just don't care! I think I would talk her in to waiting until after she got out of school. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Privratnik	That's ridiculous! She can have breast implants when she can afford to pay for them! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Skittles	If she wants bigger boobs, first i say wait til shes 22, thats when woman are fully developed, and then i say make her pay for them. Why help her with materialistic things that she will most likely later regret getting. Especially at such a young age. Fake breast are bad for your health and look really bad as years pass on. They must be redone every ten years or so. And I am only 19, so this isnt advice from some older lady, ove just done my research, i wanted them for a while too. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

snydermane34	Put her on the Pill. Birth control always grows boobs. If she's already on it, I know how she feels. I didn't quite get blessed in the front either. But I'm not getting mine done. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

kaszika	I would try to make her understand that she is a perfect person just the way she is and she doesn`t need two mags of Silicon to make her more a woman. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

zooba	I dislike breast implants myself. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

denali444	Well, at 19, she can pretty much do what she wants . . .i just love natural breasts and hate implants . .. it's always sad to see the change Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

luckyaz128	Don't let them her butcher her body that way. Leave nature alone. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

bunstihl	I guess this is a matter of your own personal values, so only you can decide. Personally, I think breast augmentation is ridiculous. They usually look fake anyway, and what is the point of doing it? So guys will notice you more? Most of the guys who will notice you more are not worth noticing anyway. I'd say let her do it if she can afford to pay for it herself, but I wouldn't support it if I were you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

alohajen	SHe's an adult so you can "let her" or not... but I'd have her watch some of those gross shows of implants gone wrong. Go from the angle of "you wouldn't want to disfigure yourself fovever at the prime of your life" and if she still wants them, be supportive, helps her find a good doc, and take care of her when she recuperates. But also tell her that there are TONS of really good guys... that hate implants. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No