
Julia G
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It is better without a condom. Alot of people are telling you that u shouldn't but if your gf takes her pill correctly u should be ok it only happens to a % of woman.
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beckyminime
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Yes its def better but there is always that risk of getting pregnant on the pill or not.
My bf and i use to do the 'pull out' technique but i had a pregnancy scare and decided condoms are the only way until we want babies.
Also remember you can still pass thrush and Clamidya (cant spell) to each other also urine infections. And u can get these without catching an STI
Hope that helps ............... have fun :-)
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Ting Tong
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look lad! at least ye know her bloody name.... not like in the good old eighties....them were the days.
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cherry pie
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mmm, i kinda understand her point. i am a virgin, myself. i mean the whole point of it is nothing to do with virginity. i think in her mind it has to do with u doing that to finalizes the point that she is completely yours and u are hers. its a mental thing. it has to do with love. i understand her point of view. if she is on the pill and u all dont have stds. there is only about a 1% chance she could get pregnant. if u all can live with that chance, then, do what she ask. as i said this has to do with love, the combination of physical and mental. if u all really love each other, then go ahead and do it. good luck!!
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jh030548
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Unless you want a family, keep up with the condoms. Anti-biotics, throwing up etc all affect the pill. Do you want a child yet? Without a condom for a girl is good,(can't speak for the male sex) but be very sure you know what could happen......
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gregg98133
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yes it is way better without the condom unless you are preapared for a baby because the pill isn't 100% foolproof actually no birth control is 100% foolproof so if you two are ready for any consquences that may follow then go for it and good luck
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aqx99
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If I am in a long term relationship where there is no concern about STDs, I let my boyfriend go without a condom since I am on the pill. I prefer sex that way. It feels different than sex with a condom, and allows for more spontaneity.
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SalsWyf07
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OH YES!!!! Absolutely, you feel it all, the warmth, wetness, you feel it all. I love it, thats why I love the fact that I am married, because you can do this ALLLL THE TIME!!!!
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Soon2BMrsB
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It sounds like I'm the weird one out here, but I prefer sex with a condom. Without has too much friction. I just don't like it.
Good luck! BE CAREFUL.
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Riss
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yes way better
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Caged Parrot
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yeah. I mean, it's kinda gross, but it makes u feel closer to the person. It's flesh on flesh, w/o anything in the way. To me, a condom just makes the experience cleaner. But w/o a condom makes the experience more meaningful and closer. I can totally understand where she's coming from. That's the way I always wanted to loose my virginity...although I hoped and prayed I wouldn't get pregnant. God smiled on me, and I got both my wishes. When u've waited for the right one to loose it to, u want to loose it to them the right way.
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VenusdeMilo
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I didn't think that sex with a condom was so bad! I wouldn't do it....it just takes one pill....or for her to be on antibiotics for something as trivial as a throat infection to make the pills less effective......it's much easier (and cheaper) to buy and use condoms than to be raising a child.
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Snuffy
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cars without breaks -- don't stop, oh please don't stop.
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that hot chick
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Don't you dare fall for that. I don't know either of you but that was a very lame excuse she gave. If your girlfriend had said she wants to feel you without the condom, I'd still have the same advice for you and that is keep it on but at least I wouldn't feel like she's trying to scam you. It sounds to me like your girlfriend may want to get pregnant , and guys fall for the ol' I take my pill trick every time. but please be smart . Ejaculation doesn't make you a woman, once you entered her vagina, she was no longer a virgin , I've never heard anything more ridiculous , for more reason than one keep your condom on, don't get into the habit of having unprotected sex, if you don't know what it feels like to have sex without a condom just wait until your married to experience that, because its gonna really suck to have to go back to using one after that. Be smart.
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҉Fuzzy҉ - ҉No-Nosed҉ - ҉Chimp҉
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Sorry, I'm a bloke, but can't help myself ;-)
If you are both happy about each others fidelity, and you are both mature about birth control, I don't see a problem, especially if it sounds like a one-off.
You're in a loving, long term relationship, and she desires it, I want to know what the hold-up is? ;-)
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Brianna B
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well i gues it depends on the pill she is taking. but nothing is 100% sure that the girl is not gonna get pregnant. tell her to ask her doctor if the pill is reliable.
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nite_angelica
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I personally think it's better without a condom. However... that whole thing about not feeling like she's 'properly' lost her virginity is stupid.
Be careful - make SURE you know she's taking the pill the way she's supposed to before you do this. Not that she would try to get pregnant on purpose, but it happens all the time.
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♥ Joey ♥
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Absolutely ....
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Dr Frank
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You sound unusually considerate, usually it is the male who is desperate to lose the condom. If you are both faithful virgins, and she never forgets the pill, there is no risk of STD and only a minute risk of pregnancy. It might be reasonable for you both to find out what you are missing. It will feel better physically for both of you.
Good luck with your ongoing relationship.
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Lale
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I am wonderin how old you are... if you are prepared for her to get pregnant(just in case) and marry her than dont even do it. Just tell her you are uncomfortable. I am engaged and going to be married in like 4 months and we starting having sex without a condom recently because it doesnt matter if I get pregnant since we are trying to start a family. I like it better without a condom, and it feels amazing for him too but pregnancy is a worry for most people, and just because she never forgets a pill doesnt mean she wont get pregnant.
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angelpurplewings
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you could still give her an infection.....
once she has had a yeast infection or a bacterial infection...she think twice about protection
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Lee
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I wouldn't risk it!
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Nodor
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Um, stick with the rubber.
My GF was on the pill, we were having sex without a condom because she was "protected"...
...our daughters 4th B-Day party is tomorrow.
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kim
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If you are ready for a baby........GO FOR IT! If not.... don't! BC pills are NOT 100 percent effective!
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arvencheese
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Its only better if she wants a baby
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Jim C
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Dude, just remember. It's kinda like that soap commercial that says it is 99.9% pure. The pill isn't 100% either. Be careful. Be prepared.
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poppy vox
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Good luck to the three of you in nine months.
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kleo
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Of course sex is WAY better without a condom, but just make sure you're willing to take on the roll of parenthood if you do this. Nothing is 100% effective and I certainly would not ejaculate inside of your girlfriend unless you were ready to accidentally get her pregnant. Keep up with the condoms!
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that_guy
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Get her to wear a Diaphragm or something. I hate kids so I am super protective against having one of my own and wouldn't risk it.
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