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The Napster	have you tried oral first it may help you relax and excite you. Also a few drinks may help Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Jessica	Maybe u r making the wrong decision and r nervous. Wait until ur married. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Ashley R	Don't be nervous around him, and you won't tense up. With the dryness, after he gets in there for a while, you'll become wet, but he either needs to A) do some foreplay to get you aroused so you become wet. B) Slowly continue to try to stick it in until you're wet enough for it to completely go in. C) use lube, or just wet your hand with spit or something. Good luck! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Pallavolo Girl	Maybe you don't really like him. Try some lubricants? PRACTICE SAFE SEX! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

?	You may not be in love. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Lloyd W	ky or motor oil, i would use the former Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

THE ELK SLAYER	any foreplay involved to "juice" you up? it will also put you at ease before the actual sex happens. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

~><~	just try and relax try foreplay that normally helps. it might get you a little more 'into it' lets say. good luck! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Unsurewomen	try haveing him go down on you ... or masturbate before that way you get wet an you are relaxin ur musles at the same time take it slow Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

John Cage	More foreplay perhaps? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

yezzzzirrr	Yeah it's easy to say lubrication...but foreplay is crucial. Hold out and play coy for as long as you can, until your not only going crazy...but your also comfortable. Sex should not be a chore and if it is, you probably have some issues to work out. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

cdn_ash	Sounds like you're not fully into it mentally, you gotta be with someone who makes you comfortable and relax. Ask for more foreplay to help your body lubricate naturally too. You can also use a lube. If you're not comfortable getting one from an adult store just use an over the counter lube, even just female 'moisturizer' like Vagisil is fine. Just make sure the lube you get is water soluble, so it won't cause a condom to break. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

HamsterLuver	Your not ready and should wait till your married you know you can get sexually transmitted diseases like that and he can to and when your married you won't be a virgin and the guy that you marry will be angry. Think twice about this if you don't want to be scarred for life Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

icequeen	just relax and dont do it Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Sophie S	woooow...why the hell did he say your friends name....i wouldnt advise you to even have sex with him!!! anyway...you are probably nervous - maybe your not ready to have sex with him. If you feel you are try lubricant - but not ooil based like vaseline if you are using condoms. If condoms are the problem you might be sensitive to latex. If all these are not the problem it might be vaginismus. Look at wikipedia and see if you match....if so consult your doctor :D hope this helps Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Sabz	use lubrication like KY jelly....if you cant get your hands on that then try some vaseline or oil....but relax during it, enjoy it and let yourself go...you'll be well lubricated Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

BabyX	A lubricant and RELAX !! If you are tense or scared...then your muscles tense up...hence..difficulty engaging in intercourse... Maybe you're not ready for it...? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Adia	Id suggest finding another guy. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Psychodelic Chicken	Are you sure youre ready for this, there is obviously something in your pysche that is stopping you going that step further. make sure youre really ready, and try and relax, and plenty of foreplay. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

kaykay24/7	wish i could help but different things work for different people Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Rock_chickie_rock	it means ur not turned on, you may like him but not neccesarly to have sex with him, if u fo use lube. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

kelly_girl	ur nervous. maybe your not ready. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

God Bless Everyone!	agreed with answer 1 Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Besos	KY warming lube is good... it's more comforting Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Sinatra	You should just take is slower. Your just nervous. You should try it with KY once and once the tension is gone you should try it without. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

idkqwert	lubricants Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

checkmex	try to mediate and just relax before hand do more foreplay as well as lube and just relax Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

I know, I know!!!!	use lubrication like KY Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Lesly M	tell him how you feel tell how you think its uncomfortable. its your body u should decide. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

PinHead	its nerves sweetie just relax Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Princezz	I would definitely talk about the 'mentioning the friends name' thing. Is this someone he mentioned wanting to have sex with? Unresolved issues...do not bring them into the bedroom, they will cause all kinds of problems. Talk about it until it is resolved, at least in your mind. Good luck sweetie. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No