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Beth C	Are you sure your ready? You are under age but if you think your ready it is your decision. Anywayz you can sometimes bleed but its not usually much and doesn't happen to everyone!! Hope this helps!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

M M	thats stupid. youre stupid. why ruin your entire life. what are you gonna name the littel babby that explodes ou tof your vagina. you should not have kids until youre 36. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Me	DON'T do it! You're too young and not ready. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Emily X	ahhh.. please wait until your a bot older but am ya im sure you mite bleed a little but you would have to know what you doing..... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Sweetie Pops	my hymen was broken, and I didnt bleed. Make sure you are ready, dont feel pressurized into doing anything you dont want to. Good luck! Its really not as bad as its made out to be the first time. Its a little uncomfortable. But you will be fine. have fun! and Good luck! and BE SAFE! (Im not going to tell you not to have sex, its your life and up to you) but be safe! xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx Good luck! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Lucy K	if you are ready thats fine but dont rush into anything, if the guy knows what hes doing and he is ready too he will know that if its your fist time you will bleed and it might be a bit painful you could try talking to him about it before you actually have sex Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Adia	if youre scared then youre not ready. itll hurt like a ***** Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

john h	Sweetheart if you are scared because you are going to lose your virginity then please listen to this old geezer of 60, you should not do it, 14 years old it illegal and also really to young. When a girl loses her virginity it should be to a partner she loves with all her heart and he loves and cherishes her in return, it should exciting as you are taking your relationship on a further stage. So please think again carefully and ask yourself is this really the right time Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

driver_man37	if the boy would think you weird then maybe he is not the one to take your virginity im a bit concerned as to how soon your hoping to have sex as it would be illegal at 14 you should wait till your 16 at least but in answer to your question you wouldnt be weird and anyone who respects you enough to have sex with you should understand that Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

MARK T	your only 14 whats the hurry am chantelle i know it comes up as mark thats my bf usin his acount i was 14 wen i lost my virginty i regret it iv been with my curent bf since i was 16 am now 23 he was a virgin wen we got togther and i wish i wud of waited if u decide to go ahead with it use protection and go on the pill hope u make right choice Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Tasha	really, you shouldnt be haveing sex at that age. i lost my virginty before I can remember, I think I was like 8 or something. I was raped, and now I look at virginity as a very special thing that most girls get to lose theres in special ways that I never got to experence. and now I see all these little girls throughing it around as if it didnt mean anything to them. I wish I could have lost my verginity to somone special, like my now husband, or my first bf -note; I was 19- please be carefull, and Id say wait, if he really loves you he'll understand if you say no, and that you want to wait. if he dosnt, well then hes not worth being with. take care of yourself gurl! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

keenie	First off, I would like to explain the bleeding thing... the reason why some girls do not bleed is because either 1.) they were born without a hymen or 2.) because of playing sports, falling at some point in their life, riding a bike, or any other reason that could cause trauma to that area, many girls have their hymen break at a young age. If this has happened to you, the chances that you will bleed are slim. If you do bleed though, it will only be a few drops, nothing to worry about. However, I do not believe that a 14 year old is responsible enough to be having sex. I do realize that you think you are ready, and I thought I was ready at that age as well (thankfully I decided to wait). I am sure that you are going to take any and all advice you can get so I will give all I have to offer even if you don't appreciate my post. First, Sex is very painful the first time (and for several times after that). You will not enjoy it at first, and it will only last an incredible 30-45 seconds at most. (Not quite what you were expecting I'm sure). You also need to consider the risks, STD'S are common. To site an example of how common, a friend of mine works for The American Red Cross, and does the blood drives at the schools, in a rural area, she recently did a blood drive where out of 80 people (high school kids) only 2 people did NOT have an STD. They didn't even know that they had it. So please have your boyfriend get checked out before you have sex. He may not even know he has an STD, since it is possible to not be sexually active and still get an STD. Another thing to consider, is the possibility of pregnancy... I hear girls saying all the time that it will not happen to them. Using protection is always a good idea, but you need to go beyond that and consider what you are up against. Protection is not 100%, abstinence is. If you choose to use condoms, they can rip, or fall off if they are too big, or they can have tiny holes in them that you will not notice until you find out that it is too late. Babies are expensive, the delivery alone is several thousand dollars. Do you have the means to pay for the expenses of a child? Have you considered what would happen if you did have a baby? Who would watch the baby while you are in school? Another thing to consider would be the pregnancy itself, at your age pregnancy alone could threaten your life. It is not a problem for every girl, but definately something to consider... A 14 year old girl that I went to school with had to deliver her baby 3 months early because the weight of the baby durring pregnancy was making the girl's pelvis crack. She and the baby had to stay in the hospital for a long time. The baby only weighed 2 pounds and had to stay in the hospital for a couple of months, it had to have several surgeries. This was so expensive that she had to drop out of school, to get a job to help her parents try to pay the hospital bills that were over $100,000. She is still trying to take online classes to get her GED. A baby will change your life. I know it does not seem cool to wait until you are married to have sex. But I recommend waiting. Right now the kids you are around do not understand the consequences of their actions, and are not willing to take responsibility for them. Believe me, when you are out of high school none of this will matter, and if you wait you will have the respect of the people who did not wait. It is not easy to look back when you are married and think of how many people you slept with before you met your husband. Imagine trying to tell your boyfriend now that you were not a virgin when you met ... Wouldn't be easy would it? Now imagine telling that to someone who you will spend the rest of your life with. How would you feel if your boyfriend told you he was not a virgin? Think of the risks and decide for your self if you think it is "worth it" or not. Good Luck in whatever decision you make. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Natalie E	Hopefully he isn't just someone who wants to "do it" cause it sounds a little silly that you'd care about him thinking your ''weird'' i mean if he loves you why would he think you're weird? anyways/ Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

koji	you are too young dont think of it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

y_ani18@yahoo.com.au	in my opinion you should wait a little longer. your too young to have sex . you got plenty of time to to do it.. just wait for the right person and the right time.. you got no guarantee that he's staying with you after that... if he's pressing you to do it than he;s not worth it. you do it when your ready not because some one else asked you. you might bleed the first time not everyone's the same p.s use a condom.x Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

roger.williams20@btinternet.com	Don't be silly and delay intercourse until you are older and at least an age when your boyfriend will be legally allowed to have sex with you. Once you start you will be sorry and if you conceive then you will be very sorry. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

elkab	its a normal thing to bleed. sometimes it doesnt happen, and its not alot if it does only a little, just remember it is illegal to be having sex at this age? are you sure you are ready! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

tantetmw	I have to agree with so many of the others who answered your question, you really are too young to be making a decision you can't take back again. Remember that you can only share your virginity with someone once...so if you've already made up your mind, make sure it's the right person. Words like scared and weird are not words that should be associated with sex. So if you feel this way, wait for now...you'll know when it's the right time, and just as importantly, the right person. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

lovelyjubblyblad	14 is a bit young honeybunch. you sure you want to? well lots of girls do bleed, make sure he is Gentle and takes it slow if he doesnt know that girls do bleed on their first time then he isn't old enough to be having sex really tbh if you do have sex, then use a condom (: Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

lauryn4	in my opinion, you are far to you to lose your virginity, i think you should wait until you are older and more mature to deal with something like this, but i don't know you and i'm sure that I can't changhe your mind if you have already decided to do this, so don't worry a lot of people bleed during their first time, I did. the guy won't think this is strange at all especially if its not his first time. take your time before you do this and make sure it what you really want and above all be safe. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Sheri C. #2 Dec. 21st.	hun I hate to say this because you will hate me for it but here it goes , if you are worried about this then you are to young to be having sex, please wait until you are older and find the right person and make it something special not just to lose you virginity its not worth it Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

jenyzmcc	Firstly, this is illegal. And secondly, if this lad will turn around and think you are weird for bleeding the first time you have sex (which about 8/10 girls do) then he is too immature and you shouldn't be having sex with him! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

tizank12	Well Firsrt thing is do not have sex you are way too damn young Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Kim	If the boy or you aren't mature enough to understand that is a natural part of sex for the first time, then you're definitely not ready.. You both don't even know what sex means. You think you do, but your minds are confused by how the media portrays it. Just wait. You will be glad you did. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

TomLad	your 2 young Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Proud Mommy of 6	If you are scared, and you and the guy are not "grown up" enough to know that this will most likely happen, then you should probably NOT be engaging in sexual activity. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

gatoguapa	DONT DO IT ,please wait till your over 16 at 14 i can reassure that the sex wont be that good.:0) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Friendly Alien	Normaly i would say grow up but not in this case ACT YOUR AGE YOU'RE NOT READY FOR SEX Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Gotcha	I don't suppose there is any point in me reminding you that you are under age, is there? Honestly love, you will regret it when you are older because no-one is emotionally mature at 14. Please consider the risk of pregnancy. You are still a child yourself and a child will not benefit from coming into the world and having a mother who is not mature enough to look after it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Thomas D	You're too young to be having sex sweet heart. Why don't you wait until you have grown up, matured a little , wait a few more years before you start thinking of sex Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

echoedmemories	Are you ready for an unplanned pregnancy? I didn't think so. Wait until you're older and more mature to have sex. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No