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tara	I won't lie to you, the first time does hurt. And maybe will hurt the next couple of time after. Make sure you wait and have sex with a person you love it is so much better that way. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

hypnotherapycw	asposto? assuming this means "supposed to" how about you learn english first and grow up a bit before worrying about sex. sheesh, scary. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Sheriza	hey i hear u! i never had it either n dont plan on it till marriage lol cuz im savin that for a special guy but anyways im afraid bout the pain too! but i've heard the first time does hurt but after a while ur (hole) does get used to it n it'll be fine the next time =] peace xxx Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Patrick B	I am a male, so I can't tell you how it feels. However, If your body is ready and that you're relaxed, if you talk to your partner about it and if he cares for you, he'll go slowly. Anyway, this doesn't mean that it will not hurt a bit. So while doing it stay in communication with your partner. Let him know when it hurts and when it's good and you'll adjust the way that suits you. If he doesn't want, ask him to stop. One last piece of advice: be sure you're ready and learn about how to protect yourself against undesired pregnancy and STDs. And remember that even if it might look fun, it's not a game. So take your time, go with your feelings without forgetting to be responsible. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Katie	SAFEST way possible is absenance. just don't have sex, not until you're fully grown and you're body is ready for it. You could damage yourself and will hurt WAY worse the more premature you are when you have sex. hope it helped. :) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

bunnny	It'll not hurt if you continue thinking and torture your brain with it... Leave the nature's word and just do it(when the moment come). I love my first time...a few drops of virgin blood mixed with fresh & tasty Semen...Nothing more beautiful and meanwhile kinky that this... GOD CREATE US TO PLEASURE OURSELF...NOT TO TORTURE IN THE DARK! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

gypsyveg	The first time can be painful when the hymen breaks upon penatration. There can also be some blood. Not all girls have pain and not all bleed. I never bled, but there was a lot of pain. The hymen is the thin membrane that sometimes covers the opening to the vagina if you're a virgin. I say "sometimes" because, even if you haven't had sex, the hymen can do a bit of a disappearing act due to an overzealous workout at the gym, horseback riding, tampons, and even passionate "heavy petting" with your boyfriend. (It's not an impenetrable barrier, anyway, as it has holes to allow menstrual blood to escape.) For some, the first few times might make you feel sore, as the vagina has been an unused muscle or even hurt, if you aren't properly lubericated, or if the guy is in a hurry, doesn't arouse you and your body isn't ready. Relaxing, foreplay, being fully aroused or better yet, you having an orgasm FIRST or using a lubricant like KY-Jelly or Astro-Glide can help. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Ms.Thoughtful	It could hurt a lot and be a very unpleasant experience or it could be a very pleasant experience, depending on several factors. First, your body will respond to the situation. If you don't trust the guy and/or don't want to be having sex, your body won't do what it needs to do to relax and be ready and it could hurt. If you find someone who you trust and you are really ready, you will be able to talk with him and tell him if anything is uncomfortable and he will respect that and try something different. Also, your body will do what it needs to to be ready. It also help to go to a doctor to talk about birth control and STD's. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

ohbother	The huge thing fits in the little hole via lubrication, which is produced by your body and his. ( Your body -vagina--will also physiologically expand to accomodate the penis size when you are aroused!!) Yes, it will hurt the first few times and then it is fine and you will probably enjoy it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

whisperer	Yep-some pain the 1st time. even a bit of blood. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

julesingreene	it does hurt the first time, for all of like maybe less than a minute. it hurts because of the breaking of the virginal barrier. it only hurts for a small amount of time. if the guy truly cares for you, he will be Gentle the first time and give you time to adjust to his member. and it does only hurt the first time. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

kat	not everyone has a big one, just relax it hurts if you think its going to hurt Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

carmeldymond	not always. i heard from friends that if u use tampons then it doesnt hurt as much/at all Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Shannon	Its very different for every girl. I was not in a lot of pain the first time i had sex it hurt for a few minutes but then it started to feel good. Where on the other hand i knew girls who cried their first time and thought it was very painful. Its really different for everyone and how you deal with the pain. For the most part it doesnt hurt that bad and you will surely be able to deal with it (if it was that bad no girls would want to have sex) Make sure you find the right person to be your first someone who will go slow and care that it is your first time that way if it does hurt too much you can always stop. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Teddy's Mom	Sounds like you are too young to even be thinking about it. When you are mature and married it may be uncomfortable at first but then it will become much better. When you are ready you will not be asking these questions. Put it on the back burner until you grow up honey. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Dr. Emily	Your age has a great deal to do with the amount of pain people experience during initial sexual intercourse. If you are young then you tend to experience more pain, due to your size and lack of true sexual arousal. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

zmamasita	My first time didn't hurt at all, and I've never found sex to be painful. I guess some girls do? I guess use lube and tell him to go slowly! And I've heard it's not so much "pain" as it is "discomfort". Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

*<3_Gizmo*	lol, from what i've heard and what i've been told yes it hurts the first time. usually there is the fore play stuff in a relationship before you take it to sex. so when a guy fingers you, it opens things up a bit and that might help a little with the pain. but depending on how big the guy is its gonna hurt. but hey no one ever perfected something the first time around. it will get better and more fun i'm sure! lol. i know i can't wait for my first time! lol. oh wait...yes i can! haha Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

alexanders and ? mama	It fits bc the vagina is elastic and can stretch. And no it doesn't always hurt, it depends on the person. If you are relaxed and ready it shouldn't hurt if at all. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

marlee	its not that bad. people exagerrate a lot. i mean its uncomfortable. but youre not going to die of pain. just make sure youre ready for it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

A. Lynn	It's not that bad! It's uncomfortable at first, but definitely not terrible. As long as you are very lubricated, it goes fine. But of course, there are variations in body sizes. Some women are very small and men very large and that can cause problems. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Boogie	Yes, it hurts a lot. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.. Just make sure you're in love and you're with someone special, and that will make it less difficult. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

DeanDavo	Well I wudnt know but Id just say wait untill you meet sum1 you trust enough to take your time when you do finally have sex Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

lchico4life02	lol the huge thing in the small hole.. a baby is supposed to come out of that small hole as well, so its not too small. and just take it slow Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Miss Marie	It's different for everyone. It may hurt, it may not. It may hurt a little, it may hurt a lot. You may bleed, you may not. Just make sure that when you do decide to do it, its with the right person and for the right reasons. Become more educated about sex and use protection so you'll have nothing to worry about. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

dkav	Well I don't know if it hurts like HELL but it is usually not really comforatable or enjoyable the first time. But usually the nervousness and tension is so overwhelming you don't really notice the pain so much. Please wait as long as possible.... seriously! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Answer This!	ok, it will hurt depending on who your are, it might not hurt so bad, but if your with the right guy, he'll take it slow, and just tell him how to do it and when it hurts, also use lots of lube :P Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Vera	i think everyones different so dont go by what other people say. it does hurt but not a lot, you will be lubricated (hopefully) and that will make it easy. but dont do it... just wait till your ready and mature enough and responsible, because you never know what can happen. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Briettny C	well it depends adn how big your hole is and the size the thing is but always use a CONDOM you do not want to be hvin kids no Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Laura	It's going to hurt the first few times. I reccommend using a good lube. It can really help with the pain. And don't worry, you "hole" (as you call it) will open up just fine - but make sure you are lubricated well! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

XL	Well it doesn't ALWAYS hurt the first time, it depends on the people doing it. IF the girl is tense, that would cause her pain. If the guy is not Gentle, THAt will cause pain. Best case scenario: You are relaxed and he is not humping like a jackhammer. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No