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sweetboo	ok first you need to seat and think real hard on how to tell her. if you guy have like a mother daughter day then tell hew then. or you can write her a letter tellin her that you are really sorry and that you need her help in this. have you told you boyfriends parents and if you have not you and him need to tell them too. Good luck Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

amrit	u have to tell ur mom. u should. good luck wid it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

rajni	UR THIRTEEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!....not good at all...u should talk to ur mom about it...because there are so many years for u to go....and u should make sure that u want a child at this point in ur life!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

nees	okay..so your preg. nothing can be done about it. confront your mom, she is your mom and well shes gonna find out..you cant hide this. call over your parents, the babys father, and his parents!!! all of them together!! tell them all at once. it will be easier. and dont take all the blame for it, after all you cant get preg. by your self. the father needs to take some responsibilites now!!! your parents are going to need to be supporting you now more than ever before in your life!!! so tell them ASAP!! but first get the father! and make sure he is also taking responibilities. i feel sorry for you, my friend is going through the same thing except she is 17. and she is gonna deliver next week. but her parents are going to adopt the child as thier own. i hope it turns out well for you and may god have mercy on you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Vate	You have no choice. Tell he that you have slipped unintentionally and save you from this mess. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

annie	HASTE MAKES WASTE!sex makes pregnancy! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

it's me!	Ur only 13???? idk how 2 tell, i guess just say it. sorry i can't really help. that's why u don't have sex at 13. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Steph	you HAVE to tell your mom, trust me she wont be as mad as you think, she is gonna be mad at first but in the end she will be helpful, and she really is the only one that can help you. okay,,,and P.S. to all you people out there who are calling her a whore and stupid, SHUT UP! dont judge, people make there own decions, I'm thirteen too and no i wouldnt run around having sex either but do you see me calling her a whore and a slut NO! becuase I'm a nice person jeez get a life, stop cyber bashing, maybe you can see that she acctually needs help. and P.S.S. it's people like you who kill women, new born babies, and unborn babies. live with that @$$holes. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

T.Ajanthaa	u are critical say the symptoms u face now.She will understand Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

ellieinthebox	you shouldnt be having sex at 13 just put the news on her gently Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Mac McFlurry IV	You should have been concentrating on your studies and kept your legs crossed! instead of putting out at 13! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

*~Emily~*	Ok, well one, all you idiots who are bashing her shut up it ain't helping its a little late for telling her she is to young. Two, tell your mom soon, she will find out eventually it will be even worse that way. I'm 14 and my mom isn't real talkitive, I guess on this stuff but I would be in the same situation, bring up someone you know who is pregnant and then start to tell her you are pregnant. I'm not at all saying it is easy and I feel deeply for you. Do not have an abortion! Feel free to email me anytime if I can help at all. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Marie N	you need to tell her, it will be probably 1 of the hardest things you will have to do in ur life but you have got to tell her!! your mum loves you & she will try to help you in whatever way she can, good luck! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Shorty	It is going to be hard for you to tell her that your pregnant, but sooner or later she is going to figure out because of your stomach getting fatter. So it is just easier to get it out to her now so that way she doesn't have to figure it out the hard way. Sorry. That is the only Advice that i can give. ~!Shorty!~ Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

hottestpinkk1116	wow. 13 and pregnant. you should start off by going, "hey mom i have a question. when did u have ur first baby" get on the topic. then say, "i actually think im pregnant" Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Ronni	wow. i am thirteen too. i can't even imagine myself getting pregnant. but here's how i would deal with it: just plain out tell her before it gets too late. go tell her as soon as possible so you guys can talk about it and consider options. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Sophie L	well I guess you have two options - have the baby and either try to raise it, or give it up for adoption, or have an abortion. I think that the best think to do would be to discuss it with your doctor first. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

me	well u need to tell her shes gonna b mad but she cant b forever trust me i just went through the same thing only im 20... the baby is here and they love him..... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Nikkismommy	Honey, you need to tell your mom as soon as possible. You need medical attention. If you don't go to the doctor a lot of things can go wrong. Are you alright? Have you been to the doctor? Is there a family friend or a relative who you could confide in who will help you tell your mom? Being a Christian won't make her mean it should make her more loving and kind hearted towards you. You need help and love. I cannot stress how much you need medical attention. Please feel free to email me if you need to talk. I have a little sister who is a year older than you. I know how I would feel if this was her. One of my friends had a baby at 14. She never did finish High School. I thought that I was pregnant when I was 15. It was scary for me. I cannot imagine how you must feel. Please talk to someone you can trust and get help. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

hart21664	you must tell your mother so the both of you can go over your options. It will be hard to tell her but once you do she will be right there for you. You were old enough to get pregnant, now do the right thing and tell your mother. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

ellen s	To be honest, it's gonna suck, but it's better to tell her sooner than later. You need to say that you made a bad decision, but God has blessed you with a baby. The sooner you get it off your chest the better you'll feel so say it soon. I'm sure she'll be disappointed, but you have to kind of expect that. If she gets really upset or anything, just leave the room/house and let her cool down. Sorry bout everything you're going through. Good Luck!!! hang in there. :) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Sally Ann Cappuccino	You should really get rid of it. . You are way to young to be having to change diapers and breast feed. . Plus I don't think you can get a Job is you are an underage unwed mother maybe not even get a drivers licence until you turn like 18. Because you could wreck the car and hurt the baby. . . Why did you have sex? Were you forced? if so you should have the babydady arrested. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

My Chemical Romance Lover	im sorry well there are programs where while you are preggers you guys look for couples who can't have kids (like juno) just make sure they are nice and i don't think you have a choice you have to tell your parents im sorry hun but look at it as a blessing Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Kshizzle	i am so sorry, first you need to tell the person who impregnated you, and get theur stance, then tell your mother, if you dnot, your only hurting yourself and your going to need her help. i really hope it works out, and im sorry Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

BooBoo	girl i know how it is to have people in your fam thats christain and for them to find somthing you wanted to keep hiden show. what you need to do is tell someone your close to you. right now im 17 and might be pregnant and i know its so wrong, but i know how it feels to want to stop doing "it" but to addicted. but before you do anything go and get a home pregcnacy test and if it comes of neggitive then dont trip but if it comes out positive then tell someone close to you like i said. and if you dont have anyone you can talk to call your doctor and ask if she/he can brake the news to her or if you can do it with the doctor in the room with you. and dont let all those people that r sayin slut and all that on here put you down. they dont know you and w.e is happening in your life. gud luck hun and keep incontact. and just remember God forgives you and still loves you now matter what, people that you thought were your friends will turn there backs, but there is one person in the whole world that never will and that is him. please always remember that. Love God. Love Life. and Love People. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

ZOEY♥	omg u have got to tell ur mom soon. I know this is harder than it sounds but you juat have to trust her and believe that she will help u make the right decisions. She knows almost everything about her and she is the best person to ask for help. She has gone throught the same thing. You are young and need some help so ask her. You should go up to her and say, "mom please dont get mad at me bc i already kno what i have done is horribly bad and i totally blam myself and will probably never do this again but i am pregnant." bele me, it is hard to say but once you tall her she can help u and you will feel like a bug weight is lifted from ur chest good luck ♥ Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

nautus95	For god sake...please ignore the ignorant people posting. Yes, you are 13 and definately should NOT be having sex, Yes, You have a tough road ahead of you.But what is done is done though. Hopefully you have a good enough relationship with your mom. Be honest and try to understand that she is most likely going to be hurt, disappointed...etc. She has that right. You are her baby and you will be dropping a bomb on her. However, she is your mom and I would hope will help guide you through this. The longer you wait the harder it will be and regardless of what you decide to do with your pregnancy, you need to see a doctor right away. Good luck, I hope everything turns out for you! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Michelle T	as a christian parent,i would strongly urge honesty,if you need ask a trusted relative or even your pastor to help with this.i also know there are pregnancy centers that will help with this.sometimes just a mediator will help. please do it soon,it is extremely important to get prenatal care and with your age it poses even more reasons.is thew father around/? good luck and i hope all goes well.i am not sure where you are located so i can not recommend any pregnancy centers. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

me.	Do you attend church? If so I would turn to your priest or another church member and confide in their help to help you have the strength to tell your mom. Watch juno then you will have some good ideas. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

lalldjfkjlgfh	im sorry but there is nothing i can say to help you you put this on yourself, and unfortunately there is no way to get out of it. imagine first how your mom will feel to just know your having sex at your age? and now on top of that; your pregnant. ... you might as well just tell her avoiding confessing this to your mom will only make things worse, and it wont make you magically unpregnant. this is exactly why you shouldnt be having sex at 13. im sorry to be harsh, but i cant sugarcoat something like this. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

first_prelude9	"um mom, I think i'm pregnant" Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No