Oh my god. I'm pregnant. I'm only 13!!! Help!!?

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bookworm5767	You have a mature writing style for a 13 y.o. Anyway, your parents are going to find out anyway. Its in your and the baby's best interest to just tell them now. God bless. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Karli~♥	my heart goes out to you hun. listen to the other people though. email me about how it goes and if your baby is a girl or boy and what you name it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

.	what did you expected, a teddy bear???? its okay if you were raped or drunk, I can understand that, but you knew what you were doing. no one tought you how to make babies???? welcome to the jungle Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

(loopy)	omg. you need to talk to your parents. it will probably be the hardest thing in the world, but you have to. theyre going to find out anyway. wow, idk what i can say...they will be dissapointed, and maybe even angry, but mostly they will just be there to help you. your life doesn't have to be ruined. you can still go to school. it will work out, it will just be harder. i respect you soo much for not having an abortion! that is the best possible decision...they do horrible things in abortions. i think that you should just go through with it...but make sure that you tell your parents soon. sit them down and tell them. do not wait for them to find out. being honest is the best thing you can do right now, and you need their support! im praying for you, sweetie. you're gonna get through it ok. good luck, hon!! xoxo Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Wanna14	they are going to find out about anyway. you should of thought about what could happen if I do this. tell your parents. you are really young. I wish I can help you the only thing I can help you is to pray I will pray for you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

waiting for baby	Yes of crouse, I know that this summer and youguys have nothing to do but you should get a book to read and start getting ready for school and yes one day you might get lucky enough to get pregnant for real Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

D	wow im sorry but dat would make a bangin movie he shoulda wore a condom Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

deb	You need to be honest with your parents. I know its scary and will be hard for all of you but there is no way you can change what has already happened. Your parents will be angry and hurt for a while but they still love you and only want the best for you. This doesn't necessarily mean your life is over. You can give the child up for adoption. There are many more families wanting to adopt babies than there are babies born . Your baby may make a woman who cant have children very happy. The adoptive parents can pay for all of your medical care relating to the birth and counseling after the birth. Your life isn't over , you can still have all the things you dreamed of. You cant hide a baby forever and you need medical care. They will figure it out and wouldn't it be better coming from you? You can prove you are responsible enough to still achieve those dreams of yours . You can do it Everyone makes mistakes, dont let fools on the internet make you feel bad about what has happened. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

-CD4-	hey.im not agree with your plans.better to talk to your parents.i know you are afraid on wat will be their reaction of towards the situation.you want to please your parents but you didnt consider God.so jst try to weigh God and your parents. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

PUMKIN	First of all, your life hasn't been ruined. I'm a great believer that everything in life can be 'fixed' apart from death and occasionally severe illness. Saying that, i'm not implying that your situation is easy but you should be cautious how to handle it. Tell your parents! They love you and they'll support you; also, i think that the boy and his parents need to know too. After all, there's a shared responsibility here (if i can use this word for your age). Just tell your parents! Their love and support is genuine and yes they may be shocked in the beginning but their love to their child will overcome the initial shock...Go tell your mum first... And sth to some of you ppl! STOP BEING SO JUDGEMENTAL...that's the last thing needed here. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Hi, I must be Jasmine!	I am not going to tell you how you should have been more responsible or anything like that because whats done is done. I would do a number of things... 1. Tell your parents, They may freak out at first, but let them calm down and they will want to help. Be completely honest about everything. 2.Realize what is coming, You are going to have to grow up a little early. 3. See a doctor reguraly, I am sure once you tell your parents they will help with this. BEST WISHES! =D Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

lovebug.	Stay calm & talk to your mom/dad or a doctor. The baby is not gonna go away now, its already there. Everybody makes mistakes and you can still live your life. Try to find a planned parenthood center in your area, just look it up in the phonebook or online and they will help you talk to your parents. You need to tell somebody now though because keeping it to yourself can be dangerous. Your not the first 13 year old to get pregnant and the doctor will understand. Now, your parents, they might freak out, but whatever happens they will always love you. No matter what. Everything will be fine, I promise. Xoxo! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

camof2009	Obviously they're going to find out sometime. It's much better to tell them now before other people start noticing, then you have to worry about them talking to your parents, too. There are consequences for things, no matter how much you regret doing it. If you're old enough for sex, you're old enough to deal with the consequences. And yes, you need to see a doctor, get to sitting down with your parents, or find a clinic. It's scary, but you're going to have to face it sometime. Sit or lay down and go over what you need to do, and do it quick. You need to be an adult if you're going to raise a kid. And please don't even consider abortion. At the very least, put them up for adoption. You still have a lot of life ahead of you, so keep strong and get through what you need to do. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Amber	Yea, first of all suck it up and tell your parents. It's hard but you have to. You also have to see a doctor imediately. If you are planning to have this child then you need to step up and take care of it and deal with this situation. It's time to grow up and start now being a parent. You could be jeapordizing your child by not going to the doctor. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

nicole r	Unless you parents are physically abusive, TELL THEM ASAP! PLEASE!!! They love you, and want to help you and see you not get hurt. Please tell them. On a side note- everyone makes mistakes, trust me. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

monique815	Well, my dear! You are already 4 months.... you need to tell your parents NOW! I can imagine how you are feeling, but you cant change what happened. Your life is not ruined , youve just made a few wrong turns. Good luck! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

cshell442003	You must go to your parents because if you plan to carry this baby to term you must have prenatal care especially at your age this is very important. I definately wouldn't say your life is ruined if you give the baby up for adoption you can still continue on with your plans. If you put the baby up for adoption the adoptive parents can pay all the medical bills. If you are afraid to tell your parents then go to a planned parenthood or talk to someone who is an adult that you can trust, even a teacher you may be close to but please please please tell someone!!! Good luck to you sweetheart and please get some help! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Ashley	ok obviously you need some help darling. just tell your parents! i cant believe you had sex. i am 13 and would never even THINK about having sex anytime soon. so i'm guessing you didn't use a condom? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

jean jacket	well first of all tell your mom asap...the longer you weight the harder its going to be.....if your in the car with her or something just say i have something to tell you.....write her a note....just tell her....she will help you...,.....you do need to see a doctor soon..........good luck with everything Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

I WANT to DIE	Well this wouldn't have happened if you hadne't had sex!!The only thing to do is tell your parents I'm your age and if I were you I would write them a letter cuz it would be really hard to say it with words...Its your fault not to be rude or anything but just because he's cute shakes headyou should have thought about that good-luck with the letter Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Gen•X•er (I love zombies!)	Your life is not ruined! You are going to have to tell your parents at some point; sooner rather than later. If it helps, ask another adult to be there with you when you tell them (clergy person, school counselor, etc). Adoption is an option for you--there are so many couples out there who really, really want babies and can't have them. You need to be brave and face this, because it isn't going to go away. You can still go to school. You can still be a nurse. You have your whole life ahead of you. But you now have a responsibility to take care of first. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

ipj9	u wont be able to hide it from them.the only thing u can do is tell them. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

just me	Well, first of all, drinking and being at those types of parties is wrong to begin w/, and if your parents allowed it, then they should be ready for the news...you have to tell them, because the baby needs vitamins, and proper care while inside you...although it is scary, what's done is done, and now you need to deal with making sure you and the baby is healthy. Please talk to your parents tonight...they will be upset, but they will want to make sure you are okay, so it will eventually work out. Hopefully this has taught you a huge lesson that maybe you can pass on to your friends and child...... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

smile	you have to tell your parents, it's better now than when your 18, that would really ruin your life, now by the time you go to college, kid'll be 5, you can leave him with a babysitter or grandparents. It's not the greatest thing but your lifes not ruined. There's much worse than that, I've been to the death huts in africa, I've seen people at war and starve to death. Your parents are going to freak out but don't let them make you think it's all over and life stinks, you got miles to go kid. Good luck and hey, congradulations. Don't let anybody tell you otherwise. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Melinda	You are going to have to do something. You had better tell your parents, & see a doctor because they are going to figure it out soon enough. I know its scary. But if you want the baby to be healthy, you had better see a doctor soon. If you dont then you will have even bigger problems. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

fierysagittarius	WHAAAAAAAAAA!!! I'm 13 ,2!! well intsead of being non supportive here's what u can do!: 1.u can tell ur parents! their going 2 find out !!! believe me 2. go to a local clinic wit a friend about 18 or 16 and see a doctor! 3. tell the guy about the kid! 4. tell the truth! and i wish the best 4 u and ur baby! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Jamie	Tell your parents. They'll be upset and shocked and everything, but they won't kill you. They're going to find out soon anyway. And they can help you get the best care for you and your baby. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Sunny Flowers	So are you going to hide the baby from them when it comes? Kind of hard to do that. Tell them NOW! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

☆ M ☆	first of all, a 13 year old shouldn't be having sex. you need to tell your parents, they're going to find out anyway. apparently you thought you were mature enough to have sex now you should be mature enough and deal with the consequences. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

amr3169	if your old enough to have sex your old enough to deal with the responsibilites that come with having sex Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

GottaBeHonest*	OMG im ur age and would never do that!! u have2 tell ur parents b/c u know they'll find out one way or another. b/c ur pregnant ur parents will yell at first but then calm down and try to help. the best way is to talk it out. jus make sure u never do that again!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No