
Sheepless Wonder
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Engaged and sixteen o.0 ??? You shouldn't of had sex.
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Sarah X
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engaged, are you sure. where are you from. sorry honey can't help it.
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Squadcar
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Moms aren't stupid and I'm sure she knows you are having sex if you are engaged. A 16 year old isn't even an adult yet and you certainly shouldn't be engaged. Most people don't really mature and know what they want in life until they are about 25. If you are passing blood during urination you may just have an infection and need antibiotics. They check that by doing a urine test, not a pap smear. If they do decide to do a pap smear it takes about 2 seconds and doesn't hurt at all. You should tell your doctor that anything you tell him or her should be confidential which they are suppose to do anyway.
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stormy.!
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If you're peeing blood...That's bad. As much as it's hard to do, you have to tell your mom that you're sexually active. Wouldn't that be a lot easier than prolonging the situation and having something really bad happen? Was this your first time having sex? 'Cause it could've been your hymen breaking. Mine broke, then I bled for five days afterwards.
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Bela
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You probably just have a UTI (urinary Tract infection). It is very common and a simple urine screen at the doctor's can tell you for sure. A few antibiotics, and you'll be good as new.
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pink lamborghini is awesome
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wait....so your mom dosent want you having sex, but you have a fiance'?? dosent she know thats what couples do? and how can you be 16 and engaged??????????
well anyways, you really should go see a gyno, your mom dosent have to be in the room and they wont tell her anything about you having sexual intercourse without you saying its ok, you really need to go because this sounds serious.
hope all goes well.......
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☺Blurry Angel☺
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If she caught you having sex.
Then it shouldn't matter now.
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so_art_it_hurts
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you need to get checked out, this sounds messed up.
also, if you get a pap, the doctors can't tell if you had sex and can't tell your mom.
if you tell them it's confidential.
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Sammy!!
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You're 16 and engaged WOW!!!
If it doesn't stop go to the doctor and they should help you out.
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Angel
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If you are peeing blood i am sure you mother already know that you are having sex. It is very important that you are honest with the doctor about your sexual history and you will need a pap. Its for your health. Peeing blood is not a good thing
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loulu
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The first thing they will do is a urinalysis to check the content. One thing you need to realize is that you are afraid of your mother's response if she finds out you are having sex. What about her response if you were to get pregnant? Right there you should realize that you are too young to have sex. When you can handle the consequences, be it a baby, an STD or shame, then you are mature enough for sex. I don't want to sound like I am preaching, but want you to think about the bigger picture here.
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~*Bride 2 Be*~
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Wow!! Your engaged and having sex all way too young.. whatever happened to enjoying life as a teenager and whatever happened to closing your legs..??
Why in the hell did your mom let you get engaged at 16??? Your not even an adult yet.. You need to live a little and enjoy hanging out with friends not having to worry about well peeing blood... You have runied your life, I hope your happy..
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mrfunkypants
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im sorry but that is so thrashy. please dont do that. think about your future. think about all those gorgeous dreamy men out there that you could have sex with. anyways, you should just tell your mom. dont be scared. if she already knows that ur engage, she should expect you to have sex - even if she doesnt agree with it. much love and good luck!
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clarissa
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totally wrong....you need to live alittle....i bet your mom doesnt even know that youre engaged...
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CAR
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Its sad that even Christians are having sex before marriage.
Im not trying to down grade you. I am just saying, I find that sad. You can say you are a Christian but you cant say you are pure and waited for marriage.
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Carrie
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Wow... Does your mom know you're engaged? I don't know the answer to your question, it's probably different in every case. You really should save sex until you're married. You're WAY too young. I hope everything is ok.
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life is good
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If you're really "peeing blood," you will need to pee in a cup and they'll check your urine for bacteria. If there is bacteria, you will be put on medicine (antibiotic) to help clear up the infection. If the blood is coming from somewhere else (your vagina or anus), then they will need to check these other areas.
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Rachelle G
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Are you sure it not from your vagina ? Stop having sex.
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Janet W
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you should DEFINITLEY go to the doctor. they might ask for a urine sample or something but don't take any chances. the doctor might not even need to check. but don't take any chances with something like that and go to the doctor.
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King Mustard III
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Get to the ob-gyn quick.
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jedi0002
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OBGYN NOW!!
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dough23
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first of all, ur in gagged and ur 16?? anyways..you should see a doctor, cause that isnt something u want to play around with.
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little d
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age 16 - sex ., and fiancee! whoa.
not too good
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cindy
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omg fieance,.... anyways if he fingerd you then it means he popped your cherry ..so its ok dont worry wait and the blood should stop
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*~Stressed~*
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Congrats!! you just offically ruined your life. Good job.
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Kratos
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There goes the ol cherry
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YourLastBestFriend
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You're busted. I think its time you told your mom what's up. Besides, your engaged.
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Erin Z
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Your 16 and engaged? Live a little for g0d sakes. Where did he get your ring, a quarter machine?
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Tina T
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Peeing blood has nothing to do with having sex, unless he put it in the wrong place...then you have another problem!
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Terminus N
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Procedure is to go to a doctor and tell them you just had sex and now you're peeing blood.
Doctors are the place for medical answers, not Yahoo Answers.
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Bailey M
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I'm sorry you are having to go though something so scary at such a young age. Legally, you have every right to leave your mother out of this. Once you turn 13 there is a health information privacy act where you are the only one privy to your health information. Go to hospital with your mom but explane to her that you wish to talk with your doctor in private. Inform your doctor with full disclosure what you are going through. It is illegal for your doctor to tell your mother. However, if you will be marrying this person, should you not tell your mother? You will be surprised by the understanding we are capable of. If you do have to have a PAP, clean well. They will not be able to tell if you had sex, they will just be able to see it as an "abnormal" result. My boyfriend and I have had sex before a PAP twice and they have yet to call me and say, "Did you have sex?" Also, urinating blood probably does not have too much to do with sex only 72 hours before. Is there blood in your urine or are you spotting? Spotting is not unusual in women after sex, no matter how many times you have had intercourse. I still have this problem after years of sex. There is something wrong with urinating blood but it probably has nothing to do with sex.
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