No One Loves Me?
well, the title's a bit dramatic. but Never been asked out/crushed on. I have a lot of friends and I have a very friendly and open personality. Do boys not like me because...
well, the title's a bit dramatic. but Never been asked out/crushed on.
I have a lot of friends and I have a very friendly and open personality.
Do boys not like me because I'm ugly?
I'm 14.
http://s182.photobucket.com/albums/x50/Blahboredom123/?action=view¤t=DSC00416-1.jpg
I mean, I know im not gorgeous, but I cant think of another reason why!!!
Do you think this is the reason?? any advice?
please answer honestly.
I have a lot of friends and I have a very friendly and open personality.
Do boys not like me because I'm ugly?
I'm 14.
http://s182.photobucket.com/albums/x50/Blahboredom123/?action=view¤t=DSC00416-1.jpg
I mean, I know im not gorgeous, but I cant think of another reason why!!!
Do you think this is the reason?? any advice?
please answer honestly.
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don't ever doubt yourself. It does not matter what other think. You are beautiful. and no one can tell you other wise. I am not lezbo. i just tell the truth keep it straight edge, xXcarry onXx |
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Audamar |
i'm actually shocked that you think physical attributes equal beautiful. NO it just looks good on paper. now the reason you are not gettin ask out is because of the vibes you give off. look at how you titled your topic "No One Loves Me"? if thats what you wanted then thats what you get. we as humans choose our own fate whether we know it or not. our thoughts are very powerful in the outcome of life. if you bestow in your mind that you are "GOD's Gift" and walk with that confident swag all will follow. I bet in school you walk closer to the walls or lockers....STOP. Walk dircetly in the middle with your head up matter fact do that monday and watch what happens. i'm not even goin to tel you...you will know. when you walk down the hallway in school walk directly in the middle with you r head up high. keep a confident look on your face make eye contact with everyone who passes esspecially the fellas.....watch what happens. its small but i bet you you will notice it!!! hit me back on here when you do it. |
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Moose |
You are in NO WAY ugly at all!!... you look nice,, clean.. just be patient. |
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terry |
You are only 14.You are not ugly. You will meet Mr.Right one day.Focus on your studies and social activities.At this stage its not important to have a boyfriend. |
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hippiechic515 |
You are SUCH a pretty girl. You have beautiful eyes and nice hair. You are only 14, be patient. Teenage boys can be dumb. It takes them awhile to realize what is good. Do not compromise yourself for a boy:) The right one will come!!! |
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MyOhMy |
You look ok, dont worry. :) Maybe it's a blessing in disguise. People will meet their true love when it's unexpected. |
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little.miss.woods*comma*elle❀ |
u r soo pretty!!! ive never dated any1. theres a guy in my class hoo like me but i ttly hate him and, i dont see wut he sees in me. o well, our time will come |
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moexthexmotherxfungxprincces |
your cute u are and guys like u they r afraid to ask u out |
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I love BU |
Learn to Love yourself first then love will come. |
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pantiquay |
no one can answer that for you, you only know the situation. you are cute, don't worry about it. but seriously, tone down the need for acceptance. |
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Mr. Smartypants™ |
Nah, you're a cutie you've got nice eyes. Change up your look every now and then like highlight hair, dress completely different than you normally do. It helps. |
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daredevil |
your no that bad looking i might be your personality or it could just be ur missin out on all the guys |
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princess of happiness |
you're not ugly! you're just too young, to feel that way, dont loose your confidence.. (well that's a normal feeling for a teenager)... enjoy your young life with family and friends... special "LOVE LIFE" will come along... unexpectedly! believe me.. you are a GORGEOUS GAL!.... soon to be a HOT CHICK! goodluck! |
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rashanda p |
I think that you are a beautiful young lady. What I really think your problem is that you have no confidence in yourself.The guys can see this in you although you may not think so. You sated that you have a friendly and open personality;does this meen that you talk loud around guys and try too hard for their attention. Let's try looking in the mirror and sating I am beautiful.And then watch how your whole attitude and look on life changes. |
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blkdiva360 |
just be patient |
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bebop_music |
OMG !!! stop trippin! i think you are beautiful. you have fine features and beautiful eyes and hair. if no one has asked you, its because they are shy and afraid you will say no and their feelings will be hurt. at 14, i wouldnt worry too much. concentrate on doing well in school and being an excellent person and you will attract the kind of person you are..... |
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Me20162 |
Of course not! Don't worry about it. Just you wait, You'll be asked out eventually. |
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Winters child |
I just looked at your photo, you have beautiful eyes and a dark haired beauty for sure. stop putting yourself down your way too young for that ...believe in your self. |
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Julie |
your defiantly NOT ugly but trust me they have liked you you just dont know it |
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Meeto |
You already have so many people who love you. You have an option to pick and choose. |
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Justwondering.. |
lol i just clicked "buy prints" |
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Kimberly R |
no hunny. your not ugly, your just young. and lots of boys ur age are still goign threw puberty. so they are getting more mature and also they are also more shy. so no. your not ugly! ur prince charming will come soon! |
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~*BLONDE*~*AND*~*PROUD*~ |
I am literally worried that you would consider yourself ugly!!! Lol. You def. arent so don't worry bout it. I'm a year younger than you (13). Here's my advice since for a time no one would ask me out either. Dont change who you are for guys to notice you. if you do what you like and you act like yourself the right guy is BOUND to notice you and liek you Be positive. Don't tell yourself 'No one wants to date me cuz of (insert reason here)" instead think "I am myself. When someone likes me for that I'll know they are the right person." (or something along those lines.. Just be positive about it!!) Do good things such as opening the door for strangers or giving up your seat on a bus or whatever. When people are sharing and caring, they smile more and are generally more happy. And if you can name any guy (asides from oscar the grouch..lol...) who duzn't like happy people I will be amazed. Good luck and don't worry. Your prince is out there somewhere! Lol.. Hope i've helped!!! |
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Sarah |
You're only 14!!! Arn't boys still punching girls at that age to show their affection....just wait till your a little older and theyre more mature...they'll be all over you and you'll be wondering why you ever thought that! You're a pretty girl, keep confident, and no matter what happens don't ever let yourself think that way about yourself..ok??! Oh and that boy above who's also 14 and said your not on the top "bangable" list...THATS HOW IMMATURE GUYS ARE AT YOUR AGE. HES A LOSER. most guys at your age have attitudes like that and they don't change until they mature a little bit, so your better off waiting anyway! |
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Jeffrey |
Just live life normally and don't think too much of your love life. Eventually, it'll just come... |
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Thanatos_022 |
Ha! I guess the answer is really the fact that you are 14. Guys your age will take their time before making any advances. And older guys have to be a bit careful on that area. So as said before be patient. Now how do you know you have never been crushed on? I had this crush for a girl in elementary school and i don't think she ever found out. (lovely eyes by the way) |
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Jessica |
No, you're not ugly. And at 14 you really don't need to worry about it. Contrary to popular belief, NOT everyone's hooking up. Enjoy time with your friends and have fun. You have plenty of time to have boyfriends later on. |
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what? |
theres nothing wrong with you. your 14 you got the rest of your life to worry about that stuff. single is the best way to live. you can do what you want when you want with no one to worry about. |
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cute_chica |
First of all you're not ugly, you have very pretty eyes if I might add. Just because no one asks you out does not mean anything!! Keep in mind you're young and still have a lot ahead of you. You'll probably end up meeting fourty guys who want to date you in the future. Good Luck and don't loose hope!! |
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blklacquer |
maybe you aren't approachable, do you smile a lot? or do you have an attitude and look down your nose at boys? You aren't ugly so it has to be something else. And if you know like I know you wouldnt be in a rush to date. I mean 14yr old boys are the same when they are 28 so you wouldn't be missing much by waiting a while. Live Life...Grow up Slow |
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♥ ℓоvе |
I remember yu........task task! taking random pics (prob friends) letting people judge them wow! that's not even you! you asked a question sorta like this a while back and that wasn't yur picture geez! |
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