My stepdad is making me feel very uncomfortable...help!?

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ele	you have to tell your mum. Your her flesh and blood and she'd probably rather you tell her. She'll know that you're prepared to confide in her. Are you 17/18? Are you going to uni anytime soon?Then you can be away from him then. But your mum loves you i'm sure and honesty is the best policy don't you reckon?If you don't for some reason want to tell your mum, then maybe confide in a friends mum-then maybe they can have a word? Good luck x Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

lilpixie527	Talk to your mom about it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Katyy W	i don't think you should say anything to your mom right now i think you should wait and see what else he does. Only because your mom could tell your step dad and that could cause your step dad to pursue it more or make him angry. For now don't stay around him for long or by yourself. You should not have to deal with this.. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

dealmister	i feel exactly the same but unfortionly i dont think there is anyfin we cn du Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Nettles86	confide in your mum or a close family friend or relative good luck x Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Damsel In Distress	No, it's not normal. Get away or do something now before he might do something even more gross. People like that creep up slowly on you, start saying "I just want to rub some lotion on you", and then do something else a few months later. Tell your mom or tell him that you don't feel comfortable when he looks at you like that or offers to put lotion on you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

♔BabyJ™	PLEASE TELL YOUR MOM!!! And if you can move back in with your dad. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

XLT Bowflex	Report these concerns to your mother Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

mokimoto	tell your dad Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Brittany	The uncomfort you are feeling is your intuition telling you something isn't right. Even if you arent sure what his motives are, I would talk to your mom. Either way, at least she will know how you feel. maybe you and your mom should call a family meeting and talk to your step dad. At least that will give him the idea that he needs to back off, innocent or not. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Mine is Bigger Than Yours	He is a looser....too bad your mom married a looser. Too bad you have to be a part of that. It sucks to be you. If you were 10 yrs old in 2001 that means you are about 17 or 18 now so you might start thinking about moving out or something. Or you could strut around the house in your panties and a bra and give him smiles. LOL Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

dalton	beware! he's a wolf dressed a saint! tell him to back off and tell your mother, otherwise if you don't, he'll think you're enjoying his company and he'll surely take advantage of making advances to you! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

kadiss17	Just keep sending him the message that you think he's a gross creep. If this continues, you might want to tell Mom or Dad. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

aestivalbird	Call Child Protective services in your area. This could be dangerous and needs to be stopped before it gets worse. Please stay safe. Email me if you need help finding the number. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Blessed	If this only happens when your mom is not around, then I would say you are on to something. Tell him that you are not interested in him or his help. Tell him that he is making you feel uncomfortable and that you will have to talk to your mom about him. He may say something to make you change your mind, but tell mom anyway. Then check online or at the police station to see if he has any convictions. (without him knowing of course) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

rickyt1016	well, im 15 and I'm a guy. I too have a stepdad but I don't get those vibes :) Anyways. If I were you i would not freak out, but be very carful. It seem's he may be attracted to you in some way... Try talking to your mom about this. See what she says. Try staying away from him. The things you explained i would say are major red flags, resons because he asked you A 18 year old step daughter to put tanning lotion all over you. Message me if u need anymore help Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

cali chic	please talk 2 ur mom!!! he sounds way perverted! my real dad doesn't even ask if he needs 2 but Sunscreen on me! except when i was a little kid! you need 2 let ur mom know! and if she doesn't listen 2 u talk to an adult you trust or a school consular! hope this helps! :) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Flashy Stunna Boy	tell him to back off, tell your mom or something, get some adult help if he keeps it up Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

smith2267	Well, the Sunscreen question was a little out there...tell your mom, maybe. As for mowing the lawn, there could be lots of reasons he changed his mind. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

♥Strength and Perseverance♥	You should tell your mom. He's a creep and he's not someone you can trust or should be alone with. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

afho275402	Wow, I could just imagine the awkwardness... You might just be paranoid like me, or maybe he really is creepy! I'm not sure. :( Good luck! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

qwerty cutie	i think u should start recording all the things that he does and then collect them to show your mom about how bad he is Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Natis	This could be very innocent but you should NEVER feel uncomfortable in your own home. Next time you feel uncomfortable tell him! This may offend him if it is innocent but he will know his place and that he has to backoff. If this behaviour continues explain to your mum that you sometimes feel unfomrtable and you would like her to have a word with him. If all fails then I would advise moving back with your dad if that is a possibility. You should'nt feel this way with any man even if it is family so stand your ground and make it clear that you don't appriciate his actions. Good luck Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Mr. DJ	First off tell your mother, and also your father. It seams to me that your step father is attracted to you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

gingerbread	That sounds really creepy. I wouldnt like it. I think you should tell your mom exactly how you feel. Tell her also that he is not your Dad and that you dont think he should try and pretend that you are just his little girl and that you are going to move out if he doesnt stop. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

hope	tell your mom Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

pooteo1	tell your mum your not comfortable around him alone Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

djaca70	Talk to your mother about it, she is the one who married him, and you are her child. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

dingobluefoot	Tell, tell, tell your mother. If he gets any hinkier, tell anyone who will listen. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Joseph D	Tell him to BACK off and tell your mother. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

KTH	Tell you mom. Even if she doesn't take it seriously now, tell her. Also, avoid the step dad as much as possible. I know it can be hard to do when you live with somebody, but do your best to avoid him, and not be alone with him. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No