Lost virginity to a paedophile?

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Hanna	go to the shop, slap him, throw a glass of water in his face, scream HOW DARE YOU YOU PEAAAADO, and strut off. may i ask how he pushed you into shagging him? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

jet-set	Can you prove any of this? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

could it be magic	How old was he ? If you really cared for him and he really cared for you then its not really abuse !! But if he used you then you should definatelty talk to someone but be careful because mud sticks and you should have all your facts in order first as you could be potentially ruining someones life Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

teddy	Contact the police, note everything down you can remember from that time and give that evidence to them. And let them deal with it. He should be caught otherwise he will do it to others, if he hasn't already. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

dumbo	Report him to the police. Joan Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Sanskia	how old are you now? walk into the shop, smile at him, and flirt with him a bit. If he doesn't flirt back, say, "Oh, I FORGOT, you only fancy teenage schoolgirls." Say it quite loud then ask to speak to the manager. Tell the manager what waste of space that guy is, hopefully the manager will try and sack that guy. If he/she doesn't, don't bother. Go to the Police and make sure to report that guy's crime, and say that you are worried he could be abusing others in his care. Good luck. x Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Valentine Baby on its way!!!	GO TO THE POLICE Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

richard_beckham2001	Have you spoke to the police, this man needs to be put by behind bars before he hurts any more innocent children. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

humor4fms	I have to say that this subject nearly broke my heart. I'm also shocked that this topic don't come up more often! To put it bluntly, you were raped!! This man needs to be put where he belongs. You don't state how long ago this was, but you are the only one who knows what happened. There are rape crisis shelters all over the globe. Please seek advice through one of them and they can advise you on how to go about dealing and coping with what happened, and if any charges can be filed within the time frame. I don't know what region you live or country so this is why I'm stating this. Some countries have a mandatory 7 yr time limit on rape. I've done some volunteer work for an organization called "People Against Rape" in the United States. What rage you feel for this person who violated you is normal and is called Post Traumatic Stress Syndrome aka PTSD. By the way, you didn't Lose your virginity, it was taken away from you and sorely stolen. You can't lose anything that was not voluntarily given up. Please know that my prayers are with you during this difficult time. Email me if you need to talk. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Ina	Stay calm!Inform Police about him....Let the Law punish him...so dat he can never repeat it wid anybody else. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Unknown	Contact the police, and make sure your family know so that they can help look after you. If you really need help it may help to talk to a professional about it Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

finster006	Perhaps you should contact the police and ask to speak to their victim support unit. You can speak to them in confidence about what happened, and let them know you have seen this man recently and that you are concerned. They will be able to help and advise you further as this is an extremely delicate situation which wouldn't be helped by getting yourself into trouble. Take the right steps and speak to people who can deal with this man if he is a danger, and who can also help you with counselling. Good luck, but please don't take matters into your own hands. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

fionarwilkinson	go to the police it may be too late for it to go to court but he should be known to the police. it might happen to someone else. it happened to me and it still affects me I am now 39. get counselling the police will give you the contact details. good luck. you will feel better to get this out in the open and hopefully you wont go doing anything silly. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

chelsea d	may b u shud go 2 the police incsae he does the same thing to anova child may b u should get some 1 to speak 2 to help you deal with this it must b hard xx Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

SCALLY ALI	Tell your family and get his head kicked in the scum bag! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

kat	contact the police ASAP dont mess about just do it, u get sum sick arseholes out there, i got sexual harrassed last year by this lad i was goin out with so i dumped him n told my mum and she sed if he does it again were ringing the police so listen to us lot n do it Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

MONIQUE	go the the police and tell them! go asap you got nothing to loose? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

MAC	Go to the police. This man should not be moving around so freely. Good luck!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

gregg98133	just going with everyone here here go to the poloice and report him and then get some real serious counseling because some where down the road it will affect you with someone you really love and you can't make love to him because of this Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

baby dust for me	you can still get them done today no matter how lomg ago it was go to the police asap and give in name and were he works the police will take it from there goodluck. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

irelandirisheyes	You need to speak to someone.. i suggest talking to childline or phone the police and ask to speak to someone about a sexual incident that has happened to you. You dont have to give them any personal details if you dont want too but you could say that you just want advice on what you should do.. dont do anything that is going to ruin the rest of your life.. he has already tried to do that and you must show him that you will not let him get away with it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

sweetpetal	Go to the police straight away. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Warrington Lass	You must inform the police? how many people will he do this too if u dont report him, especially kids Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Crazy girl	Well firstly and most importantly it wasn't your fault so don't blame yourself for what it has done. Feeling bothered about it now and not then is totally natural it is part of post trauma stress (this could be 20 years after it happened for example). Have you talked to a trained person about what happened? If you haven't i think maybe you should consider it as if your talking about killing him you have issues with it and should be talked through to help you cope with what happened to you. I'm really sorry to hear about this and i hope that you will have a better future good luck. xx Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Well, said Alberto	Tell your family & the police but stay away from him ! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Dr Frank	Best advise contact the police and discuss it with them. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

stef	If you have any way of proving what he has done you could go to the police. Do not kill him or you will be the loser again. Speak to your Doctor to see if you can have some counselling to help you through this difficult time. Do not let this make you into a victim and remember it was not your fault you were too young to know what he was up to. Good luck! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

poetbjc64	I've experiences in this area or troubles. By a few dirrent ment that said they were my dad's friends. I never told my dad as he had a bad heart. I was afraid it would of killed him to hear it. Because I hid it without opening up to any one about it. I closed off to a lot of honest guys that wanted to know me as a good friend, and nothing more , I was afraid to let anyone else in, for fear they would hurt me like others did. I often wished I would of told others about it, But I was afraid they'd call me a liar. That was a long time ago. Now the laws and adults listen to young people about this trouble. Don't hide it like I did. It hurts you more if you do, as it can lay in the back of your mind, and to what if? or why me? and so on. Also how many other kids has this happened to by the same guy.? I saw one of the guys that did that to me, when I was an adult and was walkign somewhere with my own daughter. I was put on high aleart and quick offense when he came up to me, I wouldnt let him even see what my daughter looked like , or even hear anything about mesince he did the harm to me. He acted like nothing ever happened. ( So I wonder and worry about how many others he did that to, including his own daughter " which was my friend" ) I felt hate anger and spiteful for him then, but have finally put it to rest, so I can let my guards down a bit, as I'm in a new place with a husband and faily that gave me a new start. As well as helping me wipe away a lot of those kind of pains. Lean on God and ask Him for the right for directions to you, as how to handle it correctly and who to take it to first. I would make sure first that it is honestly the same person. Take a few deep breaths if it is, gather your feelings up and take it to your parents or law or where ever God leads you to. Just know you arent at fault for what was done to you. This wasnt anything you did by choice. You dont need to hurt the same way I did, as if you do, it can effect everything else in your life. I hope you can go forth with a calm heart and clear head, during this. God Bless, and hold your head up. There are some links here that may help you find answers to a direction and information. As we perosnally cant tell you what to do, as this was a personal attack on you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Charlene	be sure of your facts and then contact the Police. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

mlgable	You need to report this rape and get him put behind bars where he belongs. Please report this so he cannot keep doing to this to young girls. WIthout you reporting it he will keep doing it and you will never get over this. Once you report it they will see to it that you get some help for this. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

bugaboo	Report him to the police.. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No