Is there anyone else here who has never been given an orgasm from a man?

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ktray1275	no honey you just need a man who knows what hes doing my services are availlable for no charge Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Locke	You need more foreplay! The guy needs to orally please you to get your juices flowing and he should play with your body until you let him know that you are ready! You know what you like and you need to teach the guy how to please you! A lot of women don't have orgasm's unless they are on top or it's doggie style! And toy's can help too! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Sullen	I'd like to second what has been said here. You are probably not a lesbian, only need to explore your own body and what you like. Finding a matching sex partner is inevitable. Some girls are more delicate and complicated in these matters than others. For many many years I had the same difficulty. Means my previous partners werent meant for me and also that I hadn't learned the ways to make it enjoyable. for myself. Just explore and everything will be all right. ;) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Ya Tibya Lublyu	actually, a lot of women say they dont climax or experience the "orgasm". i thought something was wrong with me too until i met my fiancee. then i realized it was the men lol! i dont think you're a lesbian, but you can try to see if you like that better! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Tara662	Just because you can't have an orgasm from a man does not mean you're a lesbian. It just means the pleasure spot hasn't been found. To do that, you need to pleasure yourself to orgasm, then show him where to touch you. Most women do not get orgasms for intercourse (due to the angle) and only get it from direct clitoral stimulation. Those are actually more pleasurable and longer lasting. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Iggy	Nope. I've never had a "man" give me one either. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Spartacus!	I've never been given an orgasm from a man...but I'm a straight male. In your case, it could just be that the men in your life haven't been attentive enough to your needs. If you're seeking volunteers willing to change that, please advise. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

d.ramos51	I have only had TWO orgasms provoked by men in my entire life, I am 24 and have had plenty of sex, and good sex too, just not good enough to make me climax, we women are complicated, once I learned how to please myself I have orgasms every day, nothing wrong with that. And NO, you are prob. NOT a lesbian, just a normal woman. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Junior	Hmmm...I havent and I'm a male lesbian...so yes you may be. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

dawn f	im in the same position as you and after 27 years with the same man as well , thing is i cant even do it myself even with vibs etc etc as for being a lesbian only you know the answer to that and it has nothing to do with being able to orgasm or not Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Stardust	you could be.i don't have any problem Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Kali (:	Only 30% of women orgasm from ONLY penetration, Try foreplay before. And, unless you're attracted to women, no, it doesn't make you a lesbian (: Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

drinkpink	no, but have you had an orgasm from a woman? Or on your own? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Joe B	me, i could help you with that. just kidding, maybe you need to explore your self first and find your love spots Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

NIFman	No I don't EVER want one of those from a man that would be gross to me cause I am one yuck, maybe you need to explore your own ergonous areas and tell a guy how to make you happy if your guy can't figure it out.. maybe it takes more time or more touch for you Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Brutally Honest	If either you or he has not discovered the magic of your CLITORIS, you're probably never going to have an orgasm. Most women (roughly 80% or better) NEVER have an orgasm through straight vaginal sex. It's just a fact of life that the vagina is NOT filled with a bunch of nerve endings; the clitoris on the other hand has as many nerve endings in that tiny little bump as a man has in the ENTIRE head of his penis. So if you want to come, then learn to masturbate. Or have sex in positions where your clitoris is getting a LOT of stimulation from his pelvis during thrusting. Oh, and if you have no desire to have sex with another woman, then the lesbian thing is a moot issue. And even if you WERE a lesbian, what difference would it make? Even lesbians can have orgasms with men ... IF their clitoris is manipulated! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

susanlpn2004	I never had an orgasm for the 2 1/2 years i was with my first husband (and he was the first one i was ever with so didn't really know what i was missing). Then, after we split and i got with my current husband.... low and behold! Talk about a surprise! A lot of women have problems with orgasms... especially with no clitoral stimulation. I watched a program on Discovery Channel that had to do with woman who NEVER have had an orgasm.. and a radical treatment they were trying to induce them. I know now that one of my problems is that i think about it too much sometimes.... like thinking "when am i going to..." that's when i have a problem.. As for if your a lesbian because of this.. i can't tell u for sure. Are u attracted to women? Does thinking of women arouse u and help u to climax? Other than that, i'd say u are about as normal as the rest of us! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

aplaya_01	nothings wrong with you just the guys you've been with are probably inexperienced and selfish. If you can have one if you masterbate then it is possible just there not doing it right. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

mimi	Try stimulating yourself while your man is inside you. Some lube will help. And men like that. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

johnny trash	i can honestly say a man has never given me an orgasm...... maybe I'm a lesbian too Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

☼grundle goat☼ wishes for kitty	whoa. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

GoCubsGo ™	Call me! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

brazenone	I have had one in my entire life...its not you Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

pimpster spitty (spitchus)	seriously , that is one thing I have been blessed with no problems here ever.... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Rocky	Oooooh, this is easy. Women who have orgasms from actual intercourse are very slim in numbers. 6 years with my wife and it only happened once. I got her a toy for that... I don't have 3 hours to try anymore. Toy works every time and she is happy!!! To the women who blame us... GET REAL. Many women don't know what an orgasm is because they have never had one. Learn to please yourself and then you can try to teach us how to please you. We don't know if you can't show us. And stop acting like it's Sooo Taboo. It's not. Sex is a normal part of a marriage. For a woman, inability to get orgasms are often mental blocks. Many woman can't tune out the rest of their daily life to really enjoy sex. Stop dumping on men.... Women are more to blame for their inability to enjoy sex than men. Some men are selfish and only care about pleasing themselves but for most of us we would like to please you every time. We just don't have all 3 hours available to try. It gets rather exasperating. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Kevin smells like awesome!	me too, i think we should get together Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Kiss my Del er i ous	no it's normal. some women just have a harder time getting off than others. i have before, but it's not the easiest thing in the world for me, that's for sure. are you on any anti depressants? because i heard that can make it harder for a woman to get off and have sexual drive. but i'm sure it varies from person to person. don't worry though hun you're not alone! i would suggest figuring out what you really like. figure this out yourself or experiment with a partner. and uh...vibrators really do the trick. after you've figured it out, gently instruct a man to your needs. they appreciate it. good luck! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

BOOGAR	yeah.. I have. I think sometimes it normal. Orgasms are hard to find? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

dscottprice	Yes, you are not choosing the right lovers. You are apparently choosing people who don't care whether or not you "get off" Plus, at this point you probably think about that so much that it keeps you from relaxing enough to let your body go. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

♥ღ.Queenie McCain .ღ♥	wow, sweetie I'm so sorry, seriously. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

apigdog2003	Only about 20% of all women can regularly achieve an orgasm from vaginal intercourse. Even if you are one of those lucky 20%, there's always the possibility that it takes you too long to achieve an orgasm for most men to provide you with one - the men can't last that long. The average guy only last about 5 minutes, lots of women take longer. Hey do the numbers! Most women who have orgasms are getting them before or after their partner has one and they are getting them from oral sex. If you are with a man who cares about you, (or even if he just cares about sex ;-) ) you should be able to talk to him and work something out. You might want to start by figuring out how you can give yourself an orgasm and then communicate that information to your partner. Be Gentle* though - men are pretty sensitve about this sort of thing, and you might drastically reduce the amount of sex you are having if he takes it the wrong way. Also, you shouldn't totally discount the possiblity that the problem is physical (unlikely) or psychological on you part. This is less likely, but it does happen. It's a common problem though. At the end of the day you are probably a lesbian (or at least bisexual) if you are commonly sexually aroused by women. The absence of an orgasm while having intercourse with men doesn't really tell us much one way or the other. *Or perhaps digital sex. I've never heard the 'laying on of hands' described this way, but hey, I think it's a pretty cool term. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No