Is it NORMAL for a 12 year old girl to masterbate?

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ali_v	um...she might be watching too many sexual things and possibly have access to porn...so that i would advise you put a cap on. however..her experimenting and exploring herself. best thing is to talk to her..address her on you conceners but also tell her that you understand her or want to ... shes going into puberty and teen years and stuff...so talk to her! BEST WISHES!!! PS: the best advise tho is open up to GOD on what He thinks you should do...Just tell Him that you will leave the matters in His hands and from there HAVE FAITH. GOD BLESS Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

gsdgirl	I think it is normal for girls and boys to experiment like that at around 13 years of age. What bothers me is that she has video taped it now this may be harmless and just for her to look at to settle her curiosity but with all the new technology and my space etc be careful that she is not showing it to others/putting it on the internet as young children can be conned into things like this by paedaphilles. Just be careful her grades don't slip as this could indicate a problem. It could be innocent and her emerging into a teenager but be wary incase it's more sinister. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

erin m	its absulutely normal. but i dont know about the taping part thats a little weird. cuz those things should be private. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Geoff	Talk to her about it. it's very normal for males/females to masturbate at any age I didn't start until I was 14 some do it at 3 or 4 basically any age is normal. most of us are curios about our own bodies. Any one who thinks otherwise is an idiot. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

SkiP ToO My LoU	ive been doing it since i was 10. im a guy though thats different. im still doing good in school. idk if that helps. but ive never taped it. she could have been trying to show it to somebody. which wouldnt be a good sign.. that could mean shes having sex.. does she have a boyfriend? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Indiana	doing it at 12 is not uncommon, but taping it is a bit odd. you need to ask her about it Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

BONGS not BOMBS	she might have an online "friend"...talk to her Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

L B	Fetuses touch themselves in utero. That part's normal. The taping is not ok. It's possible someone's victimizing her. You need to ask calmly and find out why she taped it. Also, understand what you have, regardless of how it was made, is child pornography in the eyes of the law. Delete it. If you want a therapist to know about it, you can mention it, but the content is not important and should be destroyed. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Amanda	It's normal for her to do it but I have no idea why she would tape it Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Soccer Star	its normal but the video taping is weird Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

GirlyReader08	thats what i did once but then deleted it...if you tape yourself doing that then the next time it makes it easier and faster to get an orgy..as long as shes not sending it to someone that's fine. I'd check the history of youtube & such on your computer just in case though. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

treeoflife627	Wow thats kind of creepy to see your daughter masterbating. You can look in google, yahoo and see various doctors - but its technically normal. Its just pleasure. If you don't know her well - may want to make sure everything is emotionally okay (as some will turn to this due to issues at home / rape, etc). It's weird that she has taped it though. I hope she doesn't put it on the net or anything. Bye now x Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

smartblond48	Masterbating = normal. Taping it, however, raises a few concerns. You might want to talk to her about that. It could be perfectly innocent; but I would find out now. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

just-a-girl	normal..she probs just wanted to see what she looked like having an orgasm/doing it that's all..... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

kristie	thats weird that she would tape it maybe ask her about it, but it may be awkward : Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

$$$V3N0M$$$	she is just growing up thats all maybe she wanted to see her self masterbating but im not sure. it could be 4 someone she knows .. where did u find it? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Carly	did you watch the hole thing? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

SoulEaterKurizu	Well i dont think it would be that weird. Around that age kids are curious and all, and stuff like this might happen. It is only human nature. But like others say i would check to see if its on the net 'cause that would be bad and that might leed to trouble. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

shortieJR.	dont worry its normal Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Jordan P	haha its VERY normal she has to get those erges out it deosnt matter if she gets straight as alot of kids do it so dont worry Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Julie =]	that is soooo awkward!! and ya its normal in the 12-13ish area. idk girls dont really think when they're doing stuff. i used to take pictures of myself naked for no reason at all and i turned out fine. u dont have anything to worry about Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Charlotte D	Totally normal, if she is a for example a leo star sign, they like to see and get turned on by watching. Even at that age of exploring things. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

erin	i would think it may be normal for her to experiment with herself but WHY is she taping it? if someone videoed her how old are they? that is criminal. even if she did tape it for a boyfriend close to her age she is still way too young to be exploring sex! if she's already doing this at 12 just imagine what she will be doing at 18 and then at 25. if she doesn't get pregnant by then. and making these kind of tapes is attracting the very wrong kind of attention for her. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

mike s	i wouldnt say its normal she might of just wanted to try it when i was younger i use to tell girls that were curious to at least try it most start in there later teens .. the ones that dont get pregnant cause they're curious talk to her tell her about sex and also if shes going to do it dont video tape it... and dont let anyone see her... and dont give anyone her virginity till shes at least 18+ cause shes not a adault till then and she will more than likely regret it. so its just a little early ? only be allarmed if she said she taped it for someone or was forced on camera by someone around her. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

cause stone cold said so	perfectly normal its part of growing Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

angel	it is normal, i started when i was younger (when i was younger i didnt know what i was doing though, until i turned about 15 or so did i realse what i had been doing) ... pretty much its probably that she was just curious and liked watching herself, and thats why she taped it. i wouldnt look too much into this, unless you start seeing a difference around boys. try and remember back to when you were her age. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

MHnurseC	Means she is masturbating and either she likes to watch herself do it, or she thinks that someone else may enjoy it. There is really no good way of approaching her without some degree of embarrassment. So, a delicate and concerned approach peppered with an understanding that this behavior is natural and ok . Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Melissa	I did but didnt tape it lol I grew up ok! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Gracii	its normal! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

alfred j	maybe u should spend time with her and explain things. teach her to use her time more productively Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

jewel5787	its definitely normal for a 12 year old girl to masturbate...totally natural. however, the thing that is disturbing is that she is video taping herself. i would be concerned that she is posting it on the internet or sending it to someone...which is just a bad bad idea. i would definitely talk to her about the video, and ask her why she did it. and talk to her about why its not such a good idea to videotape that sort of thing, especially if she's planning on giving it to someone or putting it on the internet...that can absolutely come back to haunt her. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No