Im scared of the gonacologist??

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Cheryl M	Awww, Honey dont worry. Its nothing to be scared about. I will admit, I'm 26 years old and its still uncomfortable but its over in a second. The doctor wont say anything about your grooming habits. The most uncomfortable part is when the speculum is inserted. Its a tool that pretty much holds you open so the doc can scrape some cells out (you'll feel that a bit and sometimes might bleed a tiny bit afterwards, but it doesnt hurt). The doc will also insert a finger and feel your ovaries by pushing down on your tummy. Believe me, its a very important thing to have done.It checks for precancerous cells as well as anything unusual going on down there. And dont be scared to ask any questions!!!! Oh, The doc will probably also give you a breast exam- just to feel for any lumps. You should do a montly breast exam yourself too. The doc will show you how. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

pplz1st	it may be a nice gesture for you to carefully trim the area and be clean for the visit, but they have no right to make any comments.It will not hurt too much for you to stand, unless you were to have any abnormal cells- if you had a pap test and had to get a biopsy, which would come at a different appointment ,but would not be likely at your age,,, but if they ever do order a biopsy have someone go with you to help you with the pain by holding your hand ...i had one at 25. poor health is to be feared much worse. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Jessica	If your scared ask for a girl docter, and she shouldn't say anything about your shaving but she might say something if you have razor burn. Does it hurt? You mean a pap-smear? No it just uncomfortable because sometimes you can feel pokes and pricks. You will be perfectly fine, if you want take a low dose pain Reliever. Talk to the doc when you go in and tell her how you feel ask her questions that are concerning you. It is a lot easier to go to the same doc for women reasons. It eases tension knowing that she knows you and that you can trust her, than to just have some stranger down there. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

LindyN	Its nothing that you should be shy about. We hate going b/c its never comfortable but you have nothing that he/or she has never seen before. You might feel more comfortable with a female doctor since you have never been before. Since this is your first visit and if you are a virgin, you may experience some discomfort when they do the papsmear and other testing, but you will be fine. Its usually goes pretty quickly. She probably wont say anything about shaving - its not a big deal if you do. Good Luck!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

regina falange	Don't worry. The most uncomfortable part literally only takes about 15 seconds. And she won't say anything about you shaving, because she's probably seen about a thousand before you just like that. Just relax and remember that it's a very quick process. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

vstigger19	Honestly it's important to get looked at by your gynecologist know matter how scary you might think it is. I also shave and no one has ever made a comment about that to me. When you go, because it's necessary as a female, relax. If you don't it can be very uncomfortable. All you'll receive is a breast check, a pap smear, and some questions about your sexual history if any. Don't let fear get the best of you. It's very important that you get regular check-ups. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

atlanta219	There is nothing to be afraid of. It is better to go than not go. I've been many times for checkups and nothing has ever hurt. The first time made me nervous but all went well. The doctors have seen it all before & body parts are nothing new to them, so don't be embarrassed. :) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Sara B	I remember the first visit to the OB/GYN's office. You are not alone when you say you're scared. Do not be shy, these Dr's see "parts" all the time. They will not say anything about you shaving, they did not to me! They are not there to judge you in any way. The process does not hurt, but like most procedures it can be a LITTLE uncomfortable. Mine tells me each step along the way so I know what is coming up next, this really helped the first time. Make sure you have a Dr. that you trust, or someone that your mom of other family member knows. Good luck. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Chris	It's okay to be nervous. When you go in , just close your eyes and think of something else. It doesn't hurt, but it is a little uncomfortable. It will be better if you try to relax and think about something else. Just think that you only have to do it once a year and every woman has to go through it. You are not alone and it's not really that bad, it's just a little embarrassing. But also remember, your doctor does the same thing everyday and he won't judge you or laugh if you didn't shave. You will be fine, don't worry about it!!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Stacie	Going to the gynecologist is really no big deal. If you're uncomforable with a male doc, you can always go to a female. They will not comment about you shaving or anything else that isn't medically related. I have never had a visit actually hurt, but it can be fairly uncomfortable. If you're really nervous it's perfectly ok to bring your mom or a friend with you to hold your hand - I usually end up holding hands with the nurse :) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Svengali	Gynecologists are not to be afraid of. They are there to help you get comfortable and be aware if you have something that might affect you negatively. They are truly life savers. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

_mamaj	Have you asked around for a good one? Don't be scared. and a woman one is so much better than a man.. they understand when you say you have "cramps" and your left ovary hurts or your breast hurts... it makes a lot of sense.. and no , she won't say anything "wrong " about your shaving... lots of women do that.. good luck.. and pelvic exams do not "hurt" just breath and relax.. it will be fine and tell her if you have never had a pelvic before.. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

chatsplas	No. It's gynecologist. TAke a look at the book Our Bodies Ourselves or something like it--it's at library. It can be a little embarrassing, but not painful. If you take deep breaths and relax, it's less painful. Tell the nurse and your doc that it's your first time and you're nervous and embarrassed. Shaving is irrelevant unless you're doing it poorly and getting cuts and/or infections. Tell the doc the truth about your sexual experience, and talk about birth control and STDs. You're making a wise move to go to the doc, take advantage of the visit to learn about birth control and STDs and protect yourself. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Fifi L'amour	Unfortunately, gynaecologists are a fact of life and as a woman it is something you will have to get used to. For a start, gynae docs are usually women, but I'm sure you can ask for a woman doc just to make sure. Also, they see hundreds and thousands of lady-parts, so there will be nothing in your pants that they haven't seen before. Don't worry about shaving. I often shave, or at least trim, before I go just so I feel a bit more presentable. Does it hurt? Well, it's not an enjoyable experience but it's not as bad as they make out. If you are having an internal exam, they will use a speculum which holds you open while they do their stuff. If you are tense it will be uncomfortable so breathe deeply and try to relax. If you feel pain at any time, just tell the doctor. She will understand, I promise. Don't worry about it. Just put it out of your mind then turn up on the day and just get it over and done with. Best of luck. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Erin G	Well, if you are shy, make sure that you choose a female doctor instead of a man. She will not say anything about your shaving unless there is something wrong (a hygiene issue). Also, make sure you answer all her questions honestly because things like whether you are a virgin or not will affect the way that she does the exam. If anything hurts, make sure to speak up because it shouldn't be more than a little uncomfortable. Where are you making your appointment? If you check the web, many places (like planned parenthood or kaiser) will have a description of exactly what will happen when you get a pelvic exam there. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

giggle_queen2005	honey its okay! i was freaked out too, and the first time i went was when i found out i was pregnant. i was uncomfortable at first but then i realized how bad it actually wasnt. and no they wont care about if you shave or not hehe. its okay! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

M.A. Diamonds baby	...first of all its ..."gynecologist"..... ..and no, its nothing to worry about, it does not hurt, ...its uncomfortable, ONLY if you're all tense and nervous....Just remember ,...your doctor does this all day long on, day after day, so you have NOTHING to be shy about or anything. and no, she's not going to say anything about your shaving, lol........though at 16, not sure why you're doing that, .... ....so, dont worry about it, ....just go and get it over with. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

kitttkat2001	i took my daughter to her 1st one... yes they will look. no they wont say anything about ushaving. and everyone is scared ... they will have u get undress. put u in stir ups. tell u to relax ( the more relax u are the easier it is) check u out down below, they have a clamp thing they slide into u and open u up some. it makes a loud click noise but it dont hurt just scares u. she will use a swab and then thats done. she will push on ur tummy, they will do a breast exam. ask u about ur monthly, if u have sex stuff like that. tell her its ur 1st time when u go in and that ur nerves and she will talk u through it all. just relax . thats the best thing to do. and ur very smart to do this... good luck they will ask u about getting the hpv shot. thats ur choice. my daughter got hers. its 3 shots in a 6month time. so u might want to look up hpv shot before u go and read on it. no she gives u a gown or a paper blanket to cover up with. gown ties in front though. and leaves the room and comes back a few minutes later. she will leave for u to get dressed too. hpv shot u get 1 then a month u get another then u get last one at 6 months from 1st one... ur being very smart to go since u are having sex. smart move Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

cecielscott	your gynecologist is there to provide you medical advice/treatment ... not to judge you. Getting a pap test involves having a device inserted into your vagina so cells can be taken for cultures (to be sure everything is ok, etc). This procedure can be a bit uncomfortable, and this should make it easier to tolerate: --- if you need to give a urine sample, give it --- at this point completely empty your bladder (this will help you with the next steps) --- tell the doctor to be very careful because you're afraid it will hurt ...... and ..... --- totally relax as much of your vaginal/pelvic area as you possibly can (this is why you need to have an empty bladder) --- do NOT tighten your vaginal/pelvic muscles because they will close in on the device that's been inserted, and that will cause the procedure to be more painful If you are not currently on birth control, I highly advise you to get on it...... NEVER, ever trust a guy to do it, unless you want to end up pregnant. Also, make the guy use a condom ALWAYS because you can still get an STD if you're on the pill. Take care of yourself... you're the only YOU you have! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

jamsterette@sbcglobal.net	I am 67 years and still hate going to mine. But you have to overcome it for about 10-15 minutes and it will be over. There is always a nurse in the room with you and if it makes you feel better, squeeze her hand and shut your eyes. Besides that, it is important to get your exam. Good luck! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

I'm with Stupid.	There is no need to be afraid of the GYNECOLOGIST. There, like other Dr's are there to help. If you still feel that way when you go, ask the DR to explain everything that they are doing while they do it. It calms you when you know what's going on. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

michelle_d_cna	No they won't say anything about you shaving..people have different preferences..your not the only one to shave. I had my first visit last year. It's not as bad as I though I was scared to death too. It does not hurt it's just a little uncomfortable..The doctor will tell you step by step what they are going to do and why. It takes a max of 10minutes. good luck. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Amanda T	Every time at the gynecologist is uncomfortable. No one will ever tell you that it's a good time. Most gyno's are very compassionate and try to make you feel comfortable. She will definitely not say anything about you shaving, they see all kind of things, that will not phase her in the least. I wouldn't say that it necessarily hurts, but it's not pleasant. The good thing though is that it only takes a matter of seconds. Try to relax and good luck! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

HONEY	It doesn't hurt, They could care less if you shave or not and it will probably take less than 5 min. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

dino	No, they don't comment on you shaving Some hurt, some don't, they never mean too Don't be shy - millions of women go every day, it's part of your responsibility to yourself to stay healthy Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

iiN ♥	It dosent hurt hunnie. And let me tell you. From personal experience i wish i went to the gyno at your age. The first time i went i was 19. By then i found out that i had HPV. It could have been treated sooner- but since i found out so late i had the worst part of it and went through a lot of stress and surgery. Now i didnt mean to freak you out. But its only beneficial to you to get yourself check when you can. Now would be perfect. So be a woman and get check up. ♥ KC Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

bestadvicechick	It's ok sweetie. It's a little uncomfortable and yes, the first time might be a LITTLE painful but not much. Doctors are used to seeing people's private areas so it's nothing personal with them. They don't look and think "oh, she's shaving" or something. They don't care. All they are thinking about is the medical aspect of it all. They are looking for any abnomalities. You will go in, sit on a table, the dr will come in, make small talk, ask you about your period, any cramps, pain, etc...then they will give you 2 cotton garments to put on (1 for your top and 1 to cover your bottom area). They'll ask you to take off your clothes (including your bra and panties) and you'll put on the paper garments. Your parents should stay in there with you at all times. Then, in about 5 minutes the dr will knock on the door to make sure it's ok to come in and then the exam will start. A nurse will be present during the exam at all times to make you feel more comfortable. You lay back, put your feet in stir ups that separate your legs, and the dr examines your private area. He may also feel around both breasts to make sure you don't have any lumps that could be breast cancer. This is perfectly normal. These exams are very routine. I know it's scary the first time but you'll be fine! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

mommybaby295	Are you going by yourself or your mom? I don't think she'll mention shaving unless there is a weird hygeine issue. It can be uncomfortable when they do the Pap, but it's over fast. Good luck! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Frisco	I was your age when I went to my first appt. It's not comfortable, but I wouldn't describe it as "hurting." It's a bit of pressure that we're just not expecting there. No, she shouldn't make any comments about shaving unless there's a problem resulting from it, which I understand is rare. Have faith - this is a big step in taking care of yourself. As you get older, find a gynecologist you're comfortable with and stick with her; it makes asking questions and discussing personal issues much easier. Good luck! It's going to be okay. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Christina W	It does not hurt. They will most likely talk to you about a movie, or your work, or school or whatever it is that will keep your mind off of it. She will not say anything about your shaving... and she will most likely explain what she is doing while she is doing it. Don't be scared, remember, all girls have to go.... its nothing they haven't seen before. :) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

FaZizzle	You'll be fine! :-) She'll just ask you some questions--whether you're having sex, if you're using protection, what is your period like, etc. Unless you're having sex, she shouldn't have to do a pelvic exam. If she does, it's not painful and lasts maybe 30-45 seconds. Just be sure to be honest with her--if you're having sex, tell her. You'll also get a breast exam--painless. She won't say anything about your shaving. They see so many different vaginas each day that it won't matter. You will have to get naked, but you'll also have a gown on. It'll feel weird, but the whole appointment will take a total of 5-10 minutes. You'll be asked to return for your annual exam--so once a year unless there is something that doesn't feel right. Also, you may want to talk about the pill. As for the HPV shot--most insurance doesn't cover it yet, so while she may talk to you about it, they won't just give it to you without you knowing first. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No