setter505
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go talk to the nurse at the doctors office they will help you and if you cant take care of the baby have you considered adoption ? don't be embarrassed that you have waited four months no big deal. many others have been or are where you are your not the only one.
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SharonLeigh
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Go to a doctor right now. If you don't want to tell anyone, go to a clinic like Planned Parenthood. Planned Parenthood offers a wide range of pregnancy services, not just abortions. Then calm down. If you haven't been drinking or doing drugs, the odds are very good that you and your baby are healthy. But you can't just keep pretending that the pregnancy isn't happening. If you keep the baby, you're going to need advice on supporting yourself and your child. If you plan to give the baby up for adoption, you'll want time to interview prospective parents and find the right family for your son or daughter. Good luck, sweetie.
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snookumz24
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you are going to need to tell someone sooner or later as you can't go thru this alone. Unfortunatley you had sex , now you are pregnant and theres no changing that. Give your baby a chance at life. My mom was 15 when she had me and wanted to abort and im glad she never but she did give me up for adoption and it was the best thing for me. I have also recently adopted a baby boy from a young mother who was scared and didn't want to tell anyone. Don't be the type of person that is going to mess this child up forever take care of yourself go to the doctor immediatley get help and check ups and finish what is already started. You will be ok ! Be brave and be strong and keep holding on.
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CherryRed
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for your health and your baby's you NEED to get to a doctor. You need to talk to someone immediatley. I was 16 when I got pregnant you need to see someone. Please go to the DR
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Heather C
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you should definately go see a doctor even if you are young it is very understandable to be scared but you not getting prenatal care could be very bad for ur self. If something is wrong with your baby its better to know before hand. Lets face it your already 4 months you cant hide it much longer people will be able to tell and may be hurt that you didnt tell them they could of helped you earlier on if you would have told someone. Once you get it out in the open you will feel so much better. good luck.
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spoofred
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babe go to the doctor please and please tell someone u trust so that its not all wieghing on ur shoulders coz stress isent good for u now, u still have 5 months to decide whether u feel able to keep the baby or not and maybe ur mum or an aunt can help u decide whether keeping the baby or considering adoption is the best thing for u, but please get urself checked by a doctor for ur own sake, doctors can help u tell ur family but they wont do it withour ur permission coz they can lose theyre job, email me if u want to chat hon (spoofred23@yahoo.co.uk) best of luck xxx
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jane c
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dont be worried - i think every woman goes thru it
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HOTTMOMMIE
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SWEETIE I'M ABOUT 5 MONTHS PREGNANT NOW AND I WAS SUPER SCARED TOO. I'M GOING TO BE A SINGLE MOM NOW. YOU DID A GOOD THING BY KEEPING YOUR CHILD, EVEN IF THINGS DON'T WORK OUT FOR YOU, WHICH I HOPE THEY DO, YOU HAVE ADOPTION TO FALL BACK ON. I STRONGLY SUGGEST YOU SEE A DOCTOR THOUGH. IF NO INSURANCE THEN GO TO YOUR CLOSEST FREE CLINIC. IT REALLY IS IMPORTANT. IN THE MEANTIME YOU SHOULD BE TAKING prenatal VITAMINS. THEY CAN BE PURCHASED AT ANY GROCERY STORE. GOOD LUCK SWEETIE. THINGS WILL WORK OUT GREAT! FEEL FREE TO IM ME IF YOU EVER WANT TO TALK.
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Janst
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One thing is obvious. This is something you can't hide for long. You need to see a Doctor. They will prescribe you Pre-natal vitamin. You need these to help have a healthy baby. They will also check for a heart beat. This you will be able to hear. This can be a wonderful experience for you if you take care of yourself
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XxXxPinkPrincessxXxX
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Hi hun i can understand this is very hard i have been there before have you got a close friend you go with to your local family planing clinic or your doctor?
if you want more support or advice feel free to email me x
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Samantha Siddall
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I think its time to explain to everyone im sure they may be a bit mad at first but then once they have calmed down they will support you and after all parents and friends are there to support you!Dont be afraid im sure things will go great and you will be a great mummy!Jus think abt the positives as you will see there is more of them than negatives! so good luck and remember better late than never!and i dunno if i am allowed to do this but do u kno me im sam siddall?if u dont im sorry!if it is who i think it is dont worry babe!we are here for u
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domainguy
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see a doctor..This secret will not be a secret for long regardless. If there are complications the sooner you know the better.
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Talk to your mum hun ,it wont be nearly as bad as you think,im a mum i know.
We rant and rave a bit ,but at the end of the day our kids are more precious than anything in the world.
She will stand by you,I promise.
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carebear
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well i was four months pregnant brfore i finally went to the doctor and everything was ok i was very scared to tell my family but once you decided to keep that baby you became that baby's mother now you need to tell your mother if you have one and you mb suprised to find out a mother's love go beyond dissapointment. get to the doctors and get to your mother or father. my daughter is now ten and the only thing in the world that i do not regret. you will not regret having a baby either your life will not end simplily opening a new chapter of life. wish you all the best and just take it day by day and never regret it.
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Accept that you can't hide it forever. Either the pregnancy will show, or the baby arrives. My best friend was in the same position at 15 and went into panic mode followed by denial. But of course the baby keeps growing whether you like it or not. See a doctor - in the UK I know you're entitled to do so without your parents/carers finding out. There could be possible health complications for you and/or the baby that you need to deal with. Find the courage to tell someone - a friend perhaps, then another, then a favourite teacher, aunt, trusted adult. Everyone will want to help and support you even if they do get mad first. But first things first, go along to a doctor or clinic - doesn't have to be your family GP - make sure you're safe
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~Pookie~
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umm, call the local heath department and get a checkup!
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me2
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You won't be able to hide for much longer. Go see a doctor
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Harry W
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run, do not walk to the doctor. eventually you ll have to tell, so why not tell with a healthy baby? good luck, you ll be o k
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☆BTriX☆
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Well they're gonna find out soon. 4 months is way too late to get an abortion. You need to tell your family immidiatley so they will know and can take you to a doctor.
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sticky
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You need to see the doctor so you can look after yourself and your unborn child properly. The stress of hiding it could be harming you both. it will be okay hun. There is the option of adoption but your doc can talk to you about that if it is what you want. I know you are afraid but it is not a situation that you can get yourself out of so you have to face up to it. The doctor can not tell anyone but people will start to notice soon enough. Go see one, it is very important. Good Luck.
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ginluvsrob06
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Go to Planned Parenthood, if you don't have insurance. If you want a healthy baby, you gotta go to the doctors.
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Jamie G
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you need to talk to a good friend or family member that can help you. You have to see a doctor so that you will know if the child is healthy or not. If you are struggling financially, there is help. Contact your local health department and Department of Human Services. The check-ups are very important.
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lothespiritalker
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Go! Tell! You are not the first young girl to make a mistake. You deserve good prenatal care. If you don't get it, you might have a baby with problems that could have been corrected in the womb, had you seen a doctor.
You are understandably frightened. This is a new experience for you and you are not ready to handle it. if you are still in school, see a female counselor of a trusted female teacher, if you are afraid to tell your parents. They can stand by you and help you get the courage to let your parents know they are about to be come grandparents.
You say you had contemplated abortion. Good for you that you didn't do it. There are options available to you if you want to adopt the baby out. It is not a sin to love your baby enough to give it life and give it up. If you decide to keep it, you will face some rough going. Being a single Mom is very difficult. But it can also be very rewarding. Whatever you decide, there are people who love you and will stand by you.
If you get along well with your parents, tell them right away. They will love you anyway and you'll have someone to comfort you. if, like me, you don't get along with your parents, tell a trusted friend.
Your parents will have to be told soon, as you are getting ready to show.
When they do the check up....... the Doctor will have a nurse in the room with you if the DR. is male. He will have you undress, put on a gown and lie on a table. You'll put your heels into the stirrups which support your feet and help you to open your knees so the Dr. can use a gloved hand to gently check your uterus. Tell the nurse you are frightened. She will help you through the procedure. It will be a little uncomfortable but not painful. The whole exam down there takes at the most, 10 minutes.
I'm sending you many hugs to comfort you.
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Shar
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You are going to have to talk to an adult sooner or later and sooner would be better.
If you don't feel comfortable talking to your parents, how about an aunt or your grandmother, a friend's mother, a teacher, counselor or someone else.
It's important to get pre-natal care and you will have to go to a doctor to do that. Females have been having babies forever, so it's normal but you do need to be checked and watched.
Depending on how young you are, the younger need to really be monitored due to other risks.
I don't want to scare you here, but I can't stress how important it is for you to have someone to confide in and share your concerns.
Good luck and talking to someone won't be near as bad as you think it will be.
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donnabellekc
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Seeing the doctor will calm a lot of those fears. You need to do this for your health AND your babies. If you don't have a parent to go with you, find another adult you can tell, and have them go with you AND help you tell your parents. Good luck.
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lmw
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you have taken a big step. now it is time to step up and take responsibilty. you need to get to a doctor. everyone is going to find out soon enough. good luck. talk to your family now.
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lilpinkpaws
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That was a good choice not to have an abortion. You will be fine. Good luck.
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Dr. Cornwallis
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Just go, obviously the truth will come out soon or later, no sense of killing your baby over it.
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ruthiecrue2
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go see a doctor. If you feel uncomfortable see a female doctor. prenatal care is very important. Make and appointment to see one as soon as possible.
Thank you for choosing life over abortion.
Don't be scared. Doctors see hundreds of patients that are of different ages.
You should also be on prenatal vitamins as well.
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Blunt Honesty
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GO TO THE DOCTOR.
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