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lil' moosey_giggle bear_ :)	Of course not! You are probably having some really emotionally challenging time right now but you do have friends, maybe ones that you don't even know about. It was his choice to rape you and it was his choice to end his life. And I'm sorry but if he raped you then maybe it's a good thing that he isn't still alive to hurt more people. If you ever need a friend you can email me. I don't ever give out that choice but you sound like you need a friend. Don't worry, he's out of your life now, and you had nothing to do with him killing himself. Remember it was his choice. Chin up and good luck! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

!!!	no it is not your fault that ke killed himself. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

busty bertha	don't blame yourself he did wrong in the first place in what he done to you maybe he couldnt live with the guilt of what he done he will be in hell now for raping you and he took the cowards way out hope your feeling ok please don't blame yourself. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

kuta	Hun, first I hope you had reported the rape so the right people know. Second, I agree with Vivalveg, this isn't the righ place to share this much hurt with. You really don't need to see any negative or hurtful responses this site might leave you open too. You've been through a terrible, traumatic event, the person who committed this crime was likely to have unstable himself, so no you can't blame yourself but I can see how you are going to feeling so bad. Please seek help from someone, preferrable with expertise in these situations,e.g. via the police force who I am sure offer support to victims of rape like yourself. Failing that the Samaritans aren't just for the suicidal, they are anonymous and am sure they would be better able to listen without judging, and you can retain your anonymity. With best wishes, please don't bother rating these answers, just get the help you need. Kuta. x Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

L.K. S	uhh...no u didnt kill him.... its his fault he raped u...isnt it? did u ask 2 b raped? did u say "can sum1 just rape me?!" or anything like that sending subliminal messages? i doubt it...so u didnt kill him it was suidcide! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

horselover	no ofcourse not that man hurt you and he couldn't live with himself he hurt and inocent woman don't be hard on yourself Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Tickle me pink	NO it is not your fault in any way shape or form. he chose to do that, you did NOT murder him. it was his fault, it was HIS fault you got raped and it was HIS fault he killed himself, NOT YOURS! have you reported what happened to the police? can you get counselling for what happened? see your GP and ask to see a councellor. this was not your fault. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

chazio	babe there is no way in hell is it ur fault, he deserved what happened to him, he is disgusting wether he had killed himself or not still he ruined ur life so he took the easy way out!! he has gone get some help and move on with ur life dont live in fear babe like i did x takecare x Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

dom c	NO YOU HAVE NOT!!! the fact that the beast couldnt handle what little conscious he had left was his problem! Listen love you cannot blame yourself for any of this, AT ALL! dont let him ruin any part of your life because he had no right to rape you, he has no right to upset you and he had no right to die because he should have been arrested and sent to prison! that was all he deserved! you had no control over him, just like the fact that you had no control over the fact that he raped you! a rapist likes to be in control love, thats what they like, its why they do it, and by killing himself he remains in control because it meant that the police could not catch him and put him in prison and punish him! i strongly suggest you go see a councillor and work through this but please please please dont think that it is your fault or else he wins again, because that means he can even control your life when he is dead!!! dont give him the satisfaction as he rots in hell! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

♥April♥	umm no... if he really did hang himself becuz of u u saved many other women from being raped... by him Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

rambler62	You cannot and must not blame yourself,he did it as he could not live with what he had done to you,his fault NOT YOURS. THEREIS ONLY ONE WAY TO HAPPINESS AND THAT IS TO CEASE WORRYING ABOUT THINGS WHICH ARE BEYOND THE POWER OF OUR WILL.X Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

No_Imagination	No, far from it. He killed himself because he felt guilty. Dictionary explaination for Guilty: 1. having committed an offense, crime, violation, or wrong, esp. against moral or penal law; justly subject to a certain accusation or penalty; culpable: The jury found her guilty of murder. 2. characterized by, connected with, or involving guilt: guilty intent. 3. having or showing a sense of guilt, whether real or imagined: a guilty conscience. HE WAS IN THE WRONG NOT YOU, PLEASE DONT BLAME YOURSELF YOUR THE VICTIM. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

bringmesunshine is back!!!	Please pet, get some counselling. It sounds as if you are still in shock over this. I will be thinking of you for the rest of the day. It's sad that things like this happen but at least the world will be a better place without the man that raped you. Please take care. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

gingerlatic	no, he was clearly a coward who couldn't face up to the consequences of his actions....so unless you made false allegations against him then you are in no way to blame xx Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

cottagemama	Woah! Of course not! He's the complete criminal here, not you! You're innocent. If this is how you feel, then I suggest asking your doctor about seeing a counselor because you are NOT responsible for this man's actions. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

jellybabe	OK listen to me, he made the decision to attack you this way and then when his conscience got the better of him, he killed himself. None of this was your fault. He was a weak, cowardly individual who took his badness out on you, you did not ask to be a part of this, and you could no more control his actions than you could control the tides. Do not feel guilty, lets face it, the world is a better place without him in it. Go on with your life, thats the best thing you could do. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

jason g	No , you are not a Murderer . YOU are the victim. And he's paid the price for his evil. You have to move on and enjoy your life. and the guy that hung himself chose the easy way out , it proves he was a coward. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

chicago23	Absolutely not! Sorry to say, but if he raped you, he deserved it! He must of knew his life was pretty much over & he must of felt very guilty in his own mind state! That is a bad thing to do to anybody! He would of got prison time anyway! dont feel bad! thank god your okay! hang in there & be strong! [GOD BLESS YOU] Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

rpetch007	no way .. your not the prob/ he is .sorry this has been done to you.. see your doctor please .as he can help or a teacher or a friend.. anybody.. please . i. wish . .you did not commit. the crime he did .. not you... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

stardu5t7	No you havent because he has taken his own life you havent tied him up there have you? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

big dave	im glad hes dead and so should you be forget about it if you can Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Harriet	No Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

mixedboy100	no u did not. he murdered his self do not eve take the blame for that Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

paulie	Not your fault he had no right to do that to you Dont blame yourself Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Ollie	No his guilty conscience made him do that & it has nothing to do with you.Have you been & got help. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

wcanoodle	No. You should try to get counseling about this. He was angry at himself and taking it out on others. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

debrawashburn	You are only responsible for your actions/behaviors. It is not your fault that he chose to rape you and certainly is not your fault he decided to take his life. Rape is not sex it is a crime of violence. Suicide is violent as well. I encourage to get rape counseling from someone that understands the dynamics of rape and how it affects your thinking processes. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

KEZ	No. The worlds just a slightly better place now. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

jonnyneedshelp	No and it's just a shame he didn't hang himself before he ruined your life!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

vivalvegas1	no, he chose to do it to himself its not your fault at all. Can I just say in all seriousness though, I dont think y/a is the best place to be trying to resolve this, I think you should talk to a counsellor Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

zamblast	Absolutely not!!. He should have hung himself BEFORE he raped you. You need to talk with someone about this to help you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No