I want to wear a bra so bad! im 13 years old!?

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SHANOR A	Just do what your's grandma said and think the better... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

♫ ♪ ♫ ♪	Try going to a dollar store. They have bras in really small sizes- try a AAA. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

nina	if you really want it, then get it. whats the problem? i dont get it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

lesley w	if you dont need one , what are you going to full it up with Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Becca	bras are annoying and stupid. I wish I didnt have to wear one. But I know how you feel, my friends always ragged on me in the 5th grade cuz i didn't have one. just tell your grandma that you think you're ready. Because 13 is old enough. She'll understand. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

ShannonMarie	i dont blame you, we have all been there. but no rush they will come and you will probably hate them...but perhaps go to the store and get a little training bra. they have cuter ones then they did when i was at that age. enjoy your life. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

roohie	hmmm...I guess u can start wearing one....ask a person u can easily talk with(mayb ur sis or grandma)to go and buy you the right kind of bra u cud wear. Tk it easy...wearing a bra isn't a big deal...u wud realise it soon :) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Tracy Paige	I remember feeling the same way- it's such an exciting time. My mother got me a "training bra". They look like the real thing only they're flat. I was very proud of mine. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

♥pink sugar♥	Well im flat as well and 13 but i only wear sports bras and i used to wear training bras when i was 11 and even 12 so i would suggest you start with training bras or sports bras. Talk to your mom about what is more comfortable and best for YOU, not for everyone in your gym class! Best of luck! =) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

♥Lil Mama♥	Then wear one! do what you want! =] you could get a padded bra so they look bigger if you want? it's all up to you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

bloodducky999	if u dont need one then u shouldent wear one it will just cause u to get hot in gym but if u really are desperate to fit in then see if ur sister have any old ones or if u have a friend who is a lil bigger if she has any old ones.. worst case senerio go and buy one urself. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

O'Neil	well sounds like your grandma can take you to get one, what size are you, if u r flat then get lik ea tank top thing or a trainers bra, actually even if u are a small A i would get a trainers bra they r more comfortable, im a small A cup and i wear a non padded trainers bra! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

i_love_candy	you shouldnt have to go bare just cuz youre flat!! no one needs to see it. just get a training bra so it'll cover, and by the time you need it, you can buy a reg bra. till then, talk to yer mom or another female in your life to take you shopping for one. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Pook	Talk to Grandma she sounds cool with it. Got any babysitting $$. Buy one. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

julie b	well ask ur sister or tell ur grama u want to buy a new one or if i u have any money of ur own go buy one Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

ang	yeah well i think you should go with, yourworstnightmare, she right enjoy it while you don't need it because it isn't that great but if you want i think you should go to Dillard's and get fitted or other stores that let you get fitted because it not good using other peoples bras, and if you don't need bras you should get a non padded bra or sport bras. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

medea l	I'm 15male,i see what u mean about how your not fitting in well with others,i was the smallest "male" in my gym class also,if u want one so bad u sould git one! I'm not a girl so i shouldn't know much but i had a sister who had these problems,sense my ma passed away and my dad worked. i gave her a few $ and took her to a jcpenny and a "worker" found her a sports bra.. anyway when the day was done it all worked out well. FYI I'm sure u'll git your goodie gifts soon, Good Luck!!! -Medea Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Susan	you should get one. even if its just a sports bra. many places have people in the womens department who will measure you and help you find a size if no one is willing to go with you. or find one thats still really subtle if you dont really neeeed one. like one with soft cups, and not much padding. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

CAST ME!!!!!!!!!!!ACTING	enjoy it while you don't have to wear one when i was 12 i wanted one so bad now in 13 and where one since im size B but if you want one wear a sports bra or a tranning one to begin with don't worry you'll catch up it just a matter of time Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

ms.mom	tell you mom the same thing you wrote here.....everyone in gym class has one, grandmaw said maybe you should wear a .... even the flat girls wear one........i want one so bad......etc.... if your mom won't buy you one, then she is unreasonable. but i am hoping she will buy you one. cuz boobs or no boobs, i agree with you that at 13 yrs of age you NEED and WANT one regardless. it is my obserbvation that girls begin wearing little training bras or sports type bras in the 3rd grade usually. good luck Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Georgia Girl	Get you a sports bra or a "trainer" we used to call them. But they aren't all that glamerous really. They are hot and itchy and ride up and the straps fall down...fun fun!!! Enjoy your freedom while you can!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

*Dancer*	I've had a bra since I was 10!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Right now I'm twelve and I am NOT flat. I don't really know how to help you so I'm sorry. It's kinda funny actually we're complete opposites. Sorry I couldn't help. If you need a bra get one! If you don't need one than enjoy the time you have without one!!!!!!!!!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

lovelykay_17	i am 13 too!!! just ask your mom and im sure she'll understand....bras from ur sis is kinda weird tho...bras arent THAT expensive if u go to target or jcpenney....untill u get 1 just wear a cami with a built in bra even tho they dont work that great....i am flat 2 and i think it is funny wen i see ppl about half my size wearin a bra...ask an aunt or your grandma or mom to take u shoppin 4 1......or ur sisters....i think its time to get 1...5th grad was awful not havin 1...wen summer came i noticed in pics that u could see thru my tanks...i wish i had a bra then even tho i was smaller than i am now and i am STILL an A...i totally understand...if talkin dont work then take matters out of ur own wallet. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

angel	Lol! Wow i find it funny you say that before you know it your going to be wanting your period if you havent had it yet and your going to hate it lol. It sucks!! Enjoy not wearing one! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Erick	Just use, who cares if you don't need one, i mean i don't see anything wrong with wearing one. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Terri	So go out and get one! Find out if your sister has any old ones first that fit. If not get your mom or other older female mentor out to go get you sized and buy one. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Steven's Love	You are 13 you're mom/gma should have gotten you one by now, even if it is just a training bra. Go talk to you Mom/gma and ask her to take you bra shopping. Tell her that you really want to start wearing one. Tell her that you'd feel more comfortable with one. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

♪♫viva la vida♫♪	enjoy life while you dont have to wear one Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Мəəĸά	SO express these feelings to the adult in your life. Talking is the key to getting things and learning things. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Lisa	of course you want to fit in . maybe you could tell your grandma that it's important to you to start wearing one...like when you change in gym and stuff you are embarrased. give her a big hug : ) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Cecilie	Tell your mom or trusting adult about it. I'm sure they will gladly take you shopping for one. It might be embarrassing with the "Aww my sweet babys growing up" But it is well worth it. At 13 you should definately start wearing a bra, no matter now flat chested you are. Even a training bra will do. It will help you fit in and feel better about your chest. If your parents say no though, (this is horrible advice but its what i would do, im 14) Just go to the mall alone (or with friends) and buy one. If they find out just explain how much you really want one and that your not a little girl anymore. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No