I want to loose my virginity, but im scared because it might hurt??

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kaylee<3justin	how old are you if you like 15 you shouldn't be having sex in the first place so ha Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

James	ok it only hurts when u r being raped.. just have him wear protection ive bnenn learning in school. he might have some type of well you get the picture Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

knowssignlanguage	WAIT TILL YOU ARE OLD ENOUGH you are obvisouly not old enough wait till you move out go to college graduate at least from highschool first before you make that big move. You do not want on your consious having to deal with should i get a an abortion or should i keep it because either way it will change your life forever! So your best bet is to wait until you have a job moved out and experiance life for yourself before you make such a big desions because once that is done it is done no turning back and besides he might not even be the right boy man. So wait till you are awomen and you find a right man for you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

<Me>	Girl, I'm young too and even i know this!! To boys, sex is sex and if this situation is real, then u should know, he won't care about your body. But don't do it. Esp for ninth grade on up, all he wants to do is tell his friends. Use your mind. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

smiles101:-)	It is your choice the other people are being mean to you so I'd pick a best answer soon, I don't think it hurts that much, not a lot of blood either. I hope this helps! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Goth Girl	loosing your virginity does hurt a bit, and there is a little blood afterwards but it`s not that much, and as for your body i`m sure you don`t have to worry, I think if this guy likes you or loves you,the way you shave or how you body looks isn`t going to matter a whole lot, and I`ll tell you this, that we worry more about our figures and looks then men do.GOOD LUCK!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Mark F	How old are you? Is he a virgin too? If you both are teens...he won't care about your body, all he is caring about is his orgasm. He doesn't care if you shave down there, all he is caring about is his orgasm. There will not be a lot of blood maybe a little bit, but he won't care because all he will care about is his orgasm. If he is a virgin.....then the whole thing is going to last maybe 2 minutes. Think long and hard about what you are getting into. Do you really want to sleep with a guy who you are afraid that he may or may not like your body. Sounds like a pretty shallow relationship. Wait until you are older. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

he luvs you	This is one thing that you really need to be serious with if your not ready dont do it even if he wants to and if you tell him your not ready and he cant respect that then maby he dosnt really love you Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Benjamin	he will like your body....and the sex will hurt Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

the quiet one	based on your questions you are far too young to be thinking about this. how old are you? how old is he? are you using birth control, and protection against aids? and yes if you are a virgin you will have some blood and it will be uncomfortable. please really think about this before you go ahead with it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

mishkawytch	ok you're not ready to have $ex... first, if you can't spell lose instead of loose ... second, if you have to say "down there" instead of v@gina then sorry you aren't ready to use it! WAIT Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

THREE RIVERS	Why? Most girls are sorry after the first time . It is true you'll never forget the first guy, you also will never see him after a while. If you were filled with unbridled passion , at least I could understand. But just to please some jock. I saw one girl write that the sperm breaks the hymen. Not on this planet at least. The hymen is broken by the penis thrust. On some occasions , it takes more than one times. Hymens differ greatly , the thicker the hymen , the most the pain. Some are thin and look like bubble gum when blown into a bubble and lighter in color. Premature sex is like smoking. you tell yourself that you like it. Most guys 99.9 % couldn't tell if you were a virgin or not. One day you may meet a guy who is everything to you. In his presence your toes will curl. He will offer you the world and you will be the world to him. What will you offer him? At tender ages guys collect girls innocents like coin collecting. Don't be a notch on someones belt. Offer that gift in love. The rewards are great and the act becomes much greater at the right time. There are those here that don't care , because theirs is gone. Hang on a little longer. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Tonka	PLEASE tell me your joking. Hes not going to care what you look like if you have told him that you shave then you have all ready talked about sex. The blood is not bad its something that went unnoticed for my fiances first time. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Tina W	There should not be a lot of blood, though there may be a little. It will hurt, no if, ands, or buts about it. But if the guy is caring and considerate to your needs, then it should not be that bad. BE SAFE. Use condoms AND birth control! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

♥JAZMiNE	for some people it hurts the first time and some it don't. I say you wait until your older unless you are already. But just got lose your virginity just because you want to. Let it just happen do it to someone that you really care for Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Vanessa	Please used a condom and birth control because you can get pregnant on your first time. It sounds to me that you are self conscience on how you look so maybe you are not ready to have sex, because is going to hurt the first time and the next your going to have sex you are going to be thinking on how your are looking to him. and you are not going to enjoy it . If he loves you it shouldn't matter how you look underneath he would love you no matter what. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

♥ Issy ♥	It will be painfull the first time most probably But not anything horrendus!!! Wait untill you 100% sure :D Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

jaysangel040106	most girls have sum spoting because when u lose ur virginity ur hymen breaks but u may not have any...just use a condom and BE SURE U R READY..this is an important thing in a girls life!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Melissa D	be prepared, it will HURT. Your hymen will be broken and it will be bleeding. Not like a stuck pig but enough to cause alarm. I suggest if you don't 100% love and trust the guy, then dont do it. However if you do, USE A LUBRICATED CONDOM then make sure he takes his time. After all he is entering you, and you are not just a ride at Six Flags. Be safe sweetie, and be prepared, you are leaving the world of girl and entering the universe of woman. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

alex s	if you are so worried about all of those thimgs then that probably means you are not ready, and he is not the one. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Tabitha E	There's probably going to be blood. And it will hurt. But you shouldn't have sex with anyone unless you're confident enough in your body and yourself. You only lose your virginity once so make sure that you're ready when you do it. Otherwise, you might regret it for a long time. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

thedavecorp	Most likely, yes, it will hurt the first few times. First, there's the hymen - not every girl has one, but if you do, it will break, bleed, and hurt. Second, nothing (I assume) has been up there before - at least nothing substantial, and that will hurt as it will stretch things. Third, if you use a condom (and please do) with spermicide (again, please do), the chemicals will burn a little as you will not be used to it. It has been described to me as "a good hurt" and it goes away after about three or four times, then feels good. Regarding losing your virginity in general, go to my blog at www.myspace.com/thedavezone - it is under "Things that piss me the F off (get comfortable)." Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

manatee	Trust me, he's going to be so thrilled that a naked girl is letting him touch her that he's not going to be hung up on all of the little things that you think are wrong with your body (but are really perfectly fine). You may bleed and you may not, and it will probably hurt a bit, but it's not that bad. Just make sure you use condoms to protect against STDs and pregnancy. And, I hope you're doing this because you truly want to and feel ready, because if you're unsure, it's perfectly okay to wait. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Chula	Hi honey, don't do anything until you know for sure that you are ready and don't let anyone pressure you either. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

ivygreenpearl	Um.. since you are second guessing yourself, you probably should not do it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

vanamont7	I don't believe you. I don't believe your avatar. This is a profoundly silly question. I don't even think you're a girl. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Ponyboy99	If you are so young as to question it, you are too young to do it. Keep your pants on, child. p.s. Do not listen to Tisdale, up there, the sperm does not break the hymen. God, what has become of this world? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

KEwl	its different for all women, my first time i didn't even bleed, i bled the second time a little and it was after we were done so it wasn't embarrassing, if he loves you, hell like everything about you, but make sure that he is the one, dont just give it out to anyone, you have to truly love this person. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

grumpy	if you have any doubt dont do it, why waste your first time Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

ford_rebel89	if you are doing this for him then you are doing it for the wrong reasons. dont shave because HE likes it, shave because hair is annoying. dont put out because HE wants you to, put out because you are ready. which to me, it sounds like you are not. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Tammy	I am wondering how old you are. The reason I ask is because you sound super young. Maybe you should wait a little longer. Will it hurt? Maybe. Some girls it does hurt, and some girls, it does not. Does he know you are a virgin? If so, make sure he is careful, and goes slow until you are comfortable. As for how much blood there will be...the odds are great there won't be a whole lot. But, there might be some. Everyone is different when it comes to taht, and some girls don't bleed at all. I just hope you are not doing this too young. You dont' want to regret this. Good luck. BesT WisheS! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No