I havent had sex in about one year and i no longer even think about sex, is this normal?

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nandina221	Not at all. You may need some hormone replacement therapy to jump-start your libido. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

sabrinaelder	Yes, It's normal, honey. Everybody are difference what ever, they feel like it or not. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Adam S.	Your sex drive correlates to your sexual activity. If you frequently masturbate and/or have sex, you will continue want that pleasure on a steady and more normal functional basis. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Kiel	It's not normal and I don't think you can just not think about it...youre a sexual being like all of us. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Garion_BlueCrystal	In all honesty it probably has a lot to do with a situation. You said it hasn't been a year - did something happen that made you stop? A long term bf that broke up? Or a bad incident? Regardless, it could be caused by such an incident. If absolutely nothing happened, and the sex was great, and you just simply don't want to anymore, then maybe you just aren't into sex all that much. Or maybe not right now at this time in your life. What mainly is important is how you feel about it. If it bothers you, then perhaps you should talk to a professional about it. Otherwise, perhaps it is best just to 'go with the flow.' If someone out there reawakens your desire, then so be it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Eric C	I took a "break" for a while after a really bad break up in college - I thought about sex constantly for about two or three months... then it became less & less of a priority in my life as I concentrated on other things. Eventually, yes - I just about stopped thinking about it altogether. (I later started up again & was boinking like a mad-man for quite a few years when I got back "into the game") Hard to say if it's "normal" or not - but I don't think it's uncommon. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Lady Domina	It's quite common for us girls to forget about sex for a long time esp when young. (like you). For me, when I hit my late 30's I went into a crazy horniness that would just not stop. <g> Most women go through that. I wore out the hubby and dozens of vibrators and even attacked a few men while my hubby watched. (he loves watching). LD Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Aisha WhiteField	yes its normal Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

willzz	'Normal' what is normal? everyone of us is different. i didn't have sex for over 2 years and yes at first i kept thinking about sex, then after a while i stopped thinking about it. As far as not wanting it is concerned, well, i think that you will meet someone and suddenly either he or you will start thinking about sex. what you don't have you won't miss, but you will have it back and if i am anything to go by then you will probably enjoy it an awful lot more after your period of going without. take care and good luck. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

manuela c	if you are happy than it is normal for you, everybody is different ! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

uncle_buck71	I have known a few people that had this happen to them. Chances are when you next have sex you will want to make up for lost time. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Atam N	It is perfectly normal, take for example I personally have not had sex for two years and I 'm feeling even better. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

matakovich602	yes it can be Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

kurt.biewald	hey, good for you if you did think of it still , maybe you would go crazy Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Solusia	Maybe you are not very highly sexed - or maybe you have not seen/met a person to turn you on & give you desire of sex. Perhaps you need to meet people that are attractive to you - then desire may be stirred! good luck. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Serg A	This is normal! Sex will meet when a loved one. ____________________________________ http://buypillseasy.com/blog/ - Women's Health Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

uhhhhh....no!	Nope it is not normal, at that age I had an insatiable sexual appetite which has continued to this day 4 years later.... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

lily	unless you trying to practice abstinece than no Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

jenfleur	Eh don't worry about what's "normal"...what is that anyway? My opinion, is if you're comfortable with the amount of sex you're having, that's all that matters. Sounds like that's the case, so no worries. :) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Answer Fairy	Perfectly normal. I'm 26 now, and I went through that, too. It is normal for a woman to go through periods where she doesn't really care much about sex. She can take it or leave it. At other times, it is normal to want it so bad you think you are going to scream. It's just hormones. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Gene H	Welcome to the club. Women can live without it. Women can also make men live without it. Nah, it's not abnormal. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

*.·:RENE:·.*	Yes, it is normal. Your body's hormones change about every 7 years. So your lack of interest in sex may simply be caused by this. This happens to many women, especially after pregnancy, menopause, etc... anytime your hormone levels change. You may discover that you only desire sex while you are ovulating. Again, this is because of hormones. If you are genuinely concerned that you may have a problem you can have your hormone levels checked by a doctor. They may prescribe hormone replacement drugs to balance out your hormones. Outside factors can also determine how much you feel like having sex. Do you have a lot of stress, busy schedule, other things on your mind? Maybe you simply haven't found a person who arrouses you, or your relationship is missing "something"... happiness, security, etc... I've seen many women who don't enjoy sex, or have no desire for sex, until after they have found "Mr. Right". Once they are married to their "perfect man" everything changes and they become a sex goddess! ;) Which is totally understandable... since they are now in a secure relationship with someone they love, and who loves them back. They are no longer inhibited or worried about trust, commitment, etc. I wouldn't be too worried about it. There is a saying that goes, "Everything in its own time". When its time... whether it is finding Mr. Right, or you're less distracted by outside factors... I'm sure you will get that desire for sex back. When that time comes, enjoy! ;) Until then, focus on other important things... spending time with friends, family, doing something you've always wanted to try, or traveling... whatever your heart desires to do now! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

GreenEyes	I think it all depends. If you don't have a serious relationship, I guess for a woman it is OK not to have sex present in her mind. If you do have a boyfriend, than it is not OK, since sex is a fundamental part of love and intimacy. Once you have a steady partner I am sure this will thrill you again and you will become sexually active. On the other hand if you do have a partner, than maybe you have depression or issues with him. good luck and I hope you will feel sexual again soon... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

lilbit1416	Well I have gone though that plenty of times. Just remember to survive you need food, shelter and water. It does not say anything about sex in there. And this is advice from a 26f, so relax!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Misty N	Very normal. The less you do things....the less they are thought about. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

quatt47	By asking such a question it tells me that you are missing it even if it's subconsciously. Remember that to be interested in sex is quite normal but it doesn't have to occupy every waking moment. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

cluckincom	everyone is different- if your happy great ! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

blakforst	Yea sure why not. It probably means your hormones aren't going crazy anymore. No one said you had to constantly think of sex to be normal. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Sally D	Yes a womans lidibo actually drops and becomes almost non existant if we stop having sex. Our drive is emotionally based, if we like someone we begin to lust them. Remove that and the drive dies. Don’t worry its normal. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Bill	You're thinking about it now. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Chick-A- Deedle	Most definitely. Your hormones are starting to taper and you'll go through a phase where sex just isn't that interesting. Don't worry though, once you hit about 32 or 33 your hormones will surge and sex is all you'll think about. HAHA!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No