Jo M
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Please pick up the courage to speak to her, she will be able to help you remember she was once were you are at now.
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mary j
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you can tell your mom,she has been through it too.If you don't tell her she'll still find out and then you will feel uncomfortable to talk to her .having your period is natural
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→Loony Lovegood™
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just do it,
she's a girl too!
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Miss
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Firstly, you need her to buy her pads. Do you want blood to soak through your clothes? She'd notice if there was blood on your pants or underwear when she washed them so I'm sure she already realizes you're having your period. Also, if you're using HER pads or tampons she'll notice they're missing.
You need her, if not for emotional support or to welcome you into womanhood, than for her to buy you some sanitary napkins and to wash your bloody clothes.
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Peter K
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Just tell your mom. She will be glad that her little girl is turning into a woman.
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gibson_smark
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Just sit down with her-remember she was there before-she will
under stand and will tell you all you need to know-by the way
Im I guy and I have 2 sister's-be brave you'll be ok-let me know how it went if you feel ok talking to a guy about this -good luck...Mark
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cykotica78
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I had the same problem when I first started. I waited almost a year to tell my mom. Trust me, it gets easier. Soon enough you'll be blabbing to everyone when aunty flow visits. If it's really that hard, write her a note. "Dear Mom, I really want to talk to you because I could use your advice now that I've started my period, but I am finding it hard to vocalize these thoughts. Can we sit down and talk about it?"
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Obscure N
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Write it on a paper and give it to her. It's easier than actually saying it. Though there's nothing to be embarrassed about.
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Jo
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I had the same problem when I got mine. I just told my older sister. I was even nervous telling her. Then she told my mom and it was embarassing, akward and uncomfortable for me, but u should just tell her. If u have an older sister, maybe u could tell her. Good luck!
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killedheart101
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Slip it into a conversation. Example - " Hey mom....i need some tampons....so how was work. or just ask her, i mean no matter the situation she is your mom.....she will understand.
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Marty W
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I'm not a female, but trust me your mother will be excited. She won't be angry or mad at you. It's just a part of growing up, she knows its bound to happen sooner or later. I think she would rather have you tell her than you telling strangers on the internet TBH.
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emfkelmhurst
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It's natural. Your mom went through it too. Just mention, and she'll be glad you told her.
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Lay
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All i have to say, is just do it! my mom and i were the best of friends and i felt really uncomfortable doing the same thing. once you do it, trust me your mom will make you feel like you should have done it a long time ago!
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sunsetbabe215
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You should just tell her. She has been through this herself with all the pain and fact of facing her mother and I'm sure she will be very proud and happy to hear that you got it! Good Luck sweetie!
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JustMe
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write a little note and hand it to her if you have to its nothing to be embarassed about at all :) As others have said, you are becoming a woman.
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Nvr2soon
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You have a hang up that sounds like it's not based on reason.
You and your mom are close. She should also, be your best friend and confidant. You will feel so good after telling her. I'm sure she'll be very understanding, it's not like you've done anything wrong.
Believe me, there will be issues coming as you grow older that you'll need to have a good relationship with mom to discuss.
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itsme
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Leave her a note where she'll see it or write pads on a shopping list.
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breez222000
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Just tell her,shes a woman as well,maybe went through the same thing as urs.Dont be scared,if u dont want to tell her straight u got ur period,just tell her u saw some blood down there,and then she will get the meaning and im sure shes gonna be happy.Some ppl they just make a party out of it,cuz they r hitting puberty and they become a woman.lol
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heathermz25
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As a parent myself I can tell you that your mother would appreciate you coming to her to tell her, especially if you guys are close. Parents always want their kids to come to them about anything they never want their kids to feel embarrassed or ashamed to talk to them. Most likely after you tell her you will feel so relieved one, because she is a woman and can totally relate to your situation and two you will be able to get the supplies you need which will make you more comfortable.Just pull your mom aside and tell her theres something you need to discuss with her. Im sure things will be just fine.
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Jan
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I was just like you when I first got my period, except for instead of waiting three months, I only waited two. I couldn't tell my mom in person, I was extremely embarrased and shy, so what I did was to write her a note, I approached her (she was in the kitchen), I got close to her, put the note on the counter and slid it towards her, and left. Later that day, she was really cute about it and told me that if I wanted to talk about it I could, if I didn't she was not going to force me, and then she told me she had put a brand new package of pads in the bathroom for me. She bought me pads like that for about six months because I started asking instead of waiting for her to get them :o)
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jackie_jabar
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Your mom will understand and she knows exactly what you are going through with your periods. Just tell her quickly and explain things like you did here and you will be fine. There is nothing to be embarrassed about because your mom when through the same thing.
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Spot
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If ur as close to ur mom as u say...than talking to her about this shouldn't be a problem. Mother's are not dumb...chances are, if she's the one doing ur laundry she already knows.
Now.......go talk to her!!!!
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Misty
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Trust me..I am a mom and it is just as hard for us as it is for you...blurt it and get it over with. What is the worst thats going to happen? My mom cried that her little girl was growing up and I wanted to melt into the floor but I lived and so did she and now I have a little girl and she'll tell me one day and thus the process will start all over again. IT WILL BE OK!!!
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••kicky• •chicky••
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by freaking out so much, you're making this seem like a bigger deal than it is. if you really can't bring yourself to say "mom, i just got my period" then casually ask her to buy you some pads/tampons/whatever the next time she goes to the store. or if you can, just go to the store yourself, get your stuff, start doing your own laundry and assume that if by the time you're 20 and you still haven't told her, she'll figure it out anyway. but i swear, she knows what its like, she's been through that before, and she'll be so excited that her little girl's growing up.
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Answer Fairy
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First of all, think about how you came into this world.... that's right. You came out of your mother's vagina. Your mother changed your diapers for several years of your life. It's safe to assume that she has seen your vagina. It's nothing to be embarrassed about.
Also, your mother probably already knows. Unless you are hiding all the tampons, pads, wrappers, etc? Taking out all your own trash and sneaking around? Dude. She already knows. She's just waiting for you to confide in her.
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Lady Alyk
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I remember tellin my mom. It was embarrasing but I felt glad to have told. My advise is to breath and tell her you have something important to talk to her about later in private. Just plain out tell her and tell her all your feelings about it. Trust me, you'll feel better after telling all.
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Heidi S
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I was embarrased too, but it's better when they know. But if ever she is out then call her on her cell and say "I started my period" I promise she will be glad you told her.
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Im a Male
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Brittany You Have to this could be a serious thing.
It shouldnt be Embaressing, you have a mother that cares Trust me! Good Luck
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Lucy Lu
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dont worry ur mam wont mind, she will b there for u, dont b embarrest every girl gets it! even ur mam so she knows exactly what ur going through, i know it is embarresing at first but u cant talk to us about it so go and tel ur mam.
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brookbabe90
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omg phew! i thought i was the only one who went through that!!! you are not alone!!
when i first got my period my mom sensed it and was like "did you get your period?" (very casually) - this upset me and i denied having it! i didnt know why.. but i was embarased and didn't feel like it was something that you just talk about so out in the open.
finally after like 5 months (5 periods) i went to my mom and im just like "i got my period" - she thought it was for the first time, and i'm okay with that. she doesnt have to know that i got it 5 times beforehand. i just said it straight out.
i think that when you're ready you'll be able to say it too. but the fact that you're asking this Q means that you're ready to discuss it and you just need that little push.
so..
*push*
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natrub
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Don't worry about it - once you have told her you will feel so much better and relieved. Your mum will understand, she's been there too - it's just a normal fact of life. Just be brave, you can do it! The thought of it is worse, and the more you build it up in your head as a scary thing the worse it will get - go on, do it now!
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