I am having trouble reaching orgasm during intercourse. What can I do?

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mattinhoustontx	Try different positions. Maybe because of the stress, you are not getting into it as much as you should. Maybe you could have a drink or too before getting busy. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Del	Just be glad that you know you can. I never have during intercourse. Ever. Not even close. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Uncle Tim	have the new bf give you more attention before jumping right in there... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

DJ_Netmen	Try drugs like: Ecstasy or Weed with liquor Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

green is clean	you're a woman...that happens! Use toys! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Kaylaaa	Try a lot of forplay. It takes awhile stress doesn't help im always under stress. I am sorry about your mother best wishes Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

kdog	Many women never experience an orgasm. Probably cause I wasn't there. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

webboffin	Get married Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

sa-da-tay	play with you clitoris while in the missionary position Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

pulchritudinous	Introduce "toys" into the bedroom with your new beau. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

CollegeDropIN	well have u tried anal from the right angle he can hit your G-spot. got the from my human sexuality prof. have him take a trip downtown; just make sure you don't have any closed for construction signs up. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Tuan V	You just need to call me. I'm the answer. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

justnae	get a better lover or tell him wut u want and need Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Jules	Well the stress has alot to do with it. Try to relax and not think about having an orgasm. I have noticed through my own experience that if I think about it it usually doesn't happen. Just go with the flow if it happens then great if not better luck next time... You can always try being on top that works great for a woman to have an orgasm. I know it sucks but unfortunatley this is what us women have to deal with. Good luck! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Deadpool	relax. that's all you need. If your having sex without the pleasure what's the point? You just need to calm down, breathe, relax and let things flow. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

onehand_wonder	try me i have solve that problem plintty of times Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Hiam B	call me. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

raidersgirljk	honestly get on top you will be more in control that way so you can do more of what you like and less of what you don't Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Eagleflyer	Well, you kind of answered your own question. You make love with your head, your body just responds to your thoughts. If it helps, maybe you could wait until you really, really need some. I am sorry about your mom. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

All I Hear Is Blah Blah Blah...	It's hard enough for women to acheive orgasm thourgh intercourse without added stress. Maybe you are trying to hard. Relax..Stop thinking of sex as an orgasm contest. You may need more clitoral stimulation, or different positons. Maybe you need to take more time with foreplay, or maybe you just need to take a break and focus more on your outside stresses. The more you worry about getting an orgasm the less likely you are to actually get one. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

etngapech	Find a better lover Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Jason D H	let your sensors come back...you rub it to much you dull your sences...seriously... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Frank	its normal, nothin to be worried about... but even then if u want vivit a doc... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

baby.hooligan	you'll need to concentrate when doing it. it happened to me sometimes, ejaculated but didn't feel anything. don't think it never happened to men... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

David A	more foreplay Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

RJ	find a VAGitarian who knows the female anatomy... Call me, you'll be gushin all over and see fireworks Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

janvitos	Being a guy with a girlfriend who has this kind of problem all the time, first thing to do is don't think about it while you're doing it. Worst thing ever to be thinking about not being able to have an orgasm. Don't stress over it. Once that part is over, get relaxed. If you like foreplay, he's gonna have to do some if he wants you to get to paradise. Foreplay is most important because you girls need it. You have to get high on your hormones before you can get "there". Before, i would go right at it with my girlfriend and it would rarely work. Now, we caress ourselves 10-20 mins without rushing anything and after a while everything sits in place and the fun reaches it's peak. Patience is important for both of you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

jus.kiddn	With your mom in such distress you may feel that you enjoying yourself is unfair, or maybe you feel like you're cheating on your Ex as well since you were with him for so long. But just quit worrying about it, you're putting way to much pressure on yourself, just relax and if it happens then it happens, if it doesn't it doesn't. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

julesl68	It may be hard during this time. I'm wondering if your new boyfriend is giving you the emotional support you need right now, or is that too heavy for him since the relationship is new? You may need to plan a day/night where you get totally relaxed (workout, massage, nap, a nice long bath, a glass of wine) and then ease into intercourse with him. Jumping into intercourse with current circumstances as they are may simply not work right now... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

rm2kdark_lord	Get a ZetaCreations.com Horse or Orca dildo....o.o Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Genivieve G	Take the night off. Turn the phones off. A quiet relaxing dinner with wine. Enjoy a long walk hand in hand. Then if the issue of sex comes up try it. Your forcing to try to have an orgasm now because you cant. Clear your mind and it will come. A long hot bath together is nice too! I will keep your mom in my prayers. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No