I am a African American male and should I be ashame of only having sexual fantasies about pretty white girls?

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Hugh Jass	what's wrong with that, i see nothing. if you want to have a SERIOUS relationship with a white girl, i suggest becoming a jock at your school. Happy Holidays Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Who?	No, everyone have different taste in woman as for myself I date only African American chicks because I am not attracted to any other women. It's your fantasy and do what please you. Good Luck! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

short 'n sweet	That's completely understandable. When you're surrounded by something, you develop a taste for it. I've seen a lot of cute guys of all colors, but love white boys too. I think they're adorable. Don't let what your cousin says upset you. That's messed up on her part, racist even, just because you like the white girls. She seems to have race issues. Don't be ashamed. Vanilla just happens to be your flavor!!!! Besides, interracial relationships are good because they break down berriers and misconceptions. And, mixing races is good for the gene pool. Every race seems to have its inherent health problems from people "sticking to their own kind." If you mix it up, people will be less susceptible to those problems than if they were full-blooded anything. Think about it: research has shown that caucasians are the least susceptible to Lactose Intolerance. If I, a Mexican/Native American have children with my caucasian bf, our kids will be able to handle lactose better than I do. Lucky! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

U Luv It	It's statements like this guys' that makes me realize why the black race is considered "secondary" Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

♥SpicyG	2 Things to you: 1- Too much information! 2- Yeah right! Like I'm going to believe you! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Myself	Aye watch beach vollyball those white girls are sick. Also don't trip when black girls hate they just bitter cause nobody likes a bad attitude. Word up! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

twowords	Nope. . Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

krazy_libra_from_ac	You like what you like, and there is no shame in that. I don't have a problem with interacial dating or fantasies people may have. I have a problem with your cousin calling you a "sell out" just because you're black and you seem to like white women. So what! It's not like you hate black people or hate being black. I'm black myself, and I am really attracted to Pakistani and Indian guys, and which a lot of black people including some of my family members think is weird. Be yourself bro, it's good to stand out anyway. I still love black people and other races regardless to the few ignorant people who make race an issue! Do what you want, it's your life! krazy Libra Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

TNL	wow....that is very different! I am not sure that I have ever heard of someone admitting to mastubating SO much! But I think that if that is the kinof girl that you like then find one that likes you back....don't worry about what someone else says. It's your life. But if a white girl doesn't want to date you, don't take it personal...it's just a preference just like blonde hair or dark hair. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

looking for love this time	no u shouldnt be ashamed. it is human nature to be attracted to others reguardless of ur race or gender. im sure everyone has had a sexual fantasy about someone that wasnt the exact same ethnicity of them but it doesnt make it wrong. u are who u are and that doesnt change. good luck with the girls and remember if someone doesnt like u because of ur race, theyre not worth it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Piglet	there is nothing wrong with that..everybody has different fantasies about different things Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

-doozer-	I thought ive heard it all!!!!!!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

mmw	i see nothing wrong with it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

anny c	NO,i think it is perfectly fine.You should not feal left out because of yuor cousin.No one is perfect just because your white or black. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Big Jimi	No,it's pretty common ! Can you say,"Where da whit women?" Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Mike A	Don't feel ashamed. Many white men fantasize about such things with black women. They may go much farther than that. Your are not cheating your race, but merely wanting sexual fulfillment. That is not to be ashamed of. Each has there own desires and preferences. Just remember not to be too judgmental on yourself or others for their desires. You are only human and subject to human behavior. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

john e russo md	Inter-racial couples are more common in other countries but the number of such couples are increasing in the United States. There is nothing wrong with your fantasies and nothing wrong with dating or marrying an Anglo. Indeed there are 'white' women who are only interested in 'black' men. Tell your cousin Tamika that this is the 21st Century. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

IMHO	you're normal Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

sarabmw	Race shouldn't matter when it comes to love, relationships, and friendships, follow your heart. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

PK	It's your fantasy. Does it really matter to you what race the person is? If it does then you are probably letting someone with a slightly racist attitude affect your thinking. Decide for yourself who you want to think about, be with and fantasize about. Your life, your choice. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

emp t	I too only have sexual fantasies about pretty white girls. I dont blame you, white girls are beautiful. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Esq.	I think that you are a fraud, my friend. Your first question you posed as being in college as a frat boy. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

blodgettboy24	What does it matter if you like women or black or any color women of that nature. But masturbating to a picture is pretty sick man. But why does skin complexion even matter you should go after what you like. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Bi_n_ks	i have fantasies about pretty white girls to and i am not ashamed. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

the one	dont stress that...you are gonna like what you are exposed to...and place choosing a girl based on race is kinda of stupid....but stop masterbating so much now THATS WEIRD!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

smartypants	Different strokes for different folks. No pun. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

sweetangel	sounds to me you are a normal teenager however your cousins remarks makes me think that she or some of your family are racist. in my opinion it does not matter what color you are as long as you like what you see and can be happy with whomever it is you are with. racism will never stop with comments like that and that is why we are still a split country...we need to unite and not put the color of our skin in every damn conversation. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

ashleyluvsdamon	I'm a white girl my boyfriend is black. I don't see nothing wrong with it, I think its perfectly fine, because I only like black men, my man. It's your preference and you aren't no sell out. It's what you prefer not n e one else. Yes you have a chance but maybe not them stuck up girls but yeah you have a chance with cute white girls with cute butts. lol. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

pimpdee976	hey dude i love sexy white women and my black women too Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Reverend Jank	So, what. What does race have to do with anything. By the way, why the hell would you tell your cousin about your masterbating habits? Bad move. Rev Jank Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

loser	it's okay bud when white girls look at me they just laugh in my face- I'm a loser though maybe that's why? just think long and hard about this one though O.J was in the same situation and look what he did- you know with his white devil cheating wife she was cheating with a white guy . I guesse what I'm trying to say is dont set yourself up for failure, if you end up with a white girl you'll probably wanna k*ll her and the white guy she leaves you for and then spend all of your money on some stupid legalities and black girls are alot of trouble too she will take you on Maury or mantel show and tell you in front of the nation that the kid is not yours and break your heart or tell you the kid is yours and destroy your life. If you ask me you should sex Tamika because you feel comfortable enough to talk to her about your spanking and because shes your cousin she wont try to embarrass you by telling the whole world u 2 sexed. As for me the $20 prostitute down the street is good enough, gets the job done, and trys not to laugh in my face when I'm present.Anyways dude e-mail me and let me know what happens hope I helped Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No