cattdaddy1216
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absolutely you did the right thing! She can get help with the hospital bill from insurance or if she hasn't any see might qualify for Medicaid or in some states it is called primary care for people that are without insurance. Have her talk to
a person in the health dept.
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madkins007
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You made one BIG mistake- when you do CPR or another lifesaving technique, you CALL 911 for help- you DO NOT transport them yourself.
This is better for the victim- better chance of recovery, etc.
It also would have been better for you- that way, YOU did not force her to rack up a big bill- the EMTs would have been the bad guys.
Some people are more concerned about the wrong things. I responded (as a layperson) to a guy who crashed his motorcycle. He fought me off and was only concerned about his bike.
I called 911 for him, stayed with him till they came, then left when he started to argue with them. I had done my duty.
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Grant M
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You did the right thing and if her friends and she herself would take a step backwards and look at the complete story.... She would under stand you did the right thing.... God wanted you take her home. Probably if one of the friends who are bad mouthing her took her home and she died.... Would people be calling her and asking why did you kill her...... You did the right thing... and Good for you... Grant M in Pennsylvania
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007
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I think you have a sweet heart and a great attitude. Her attitude may be on of the reasons she doesn't have friends. I can understand her being upset about the bill but she should be upset and herself for hurting herself. She has issues. Let it go. Keep being a sweetheart.
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Ms. Chocolate
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Personally I think you did the correct thing. You treat others with the same respect you want them to treat you with. Help others if you are not in any danger, like you would want to be helped. Your actions require THANKS. However the person who should being saying thanks, is a self absorbed @#%&*. So for the people like me who would have appreciated your kindness, THANKS.
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gypsyveg
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She's ungrateful and now you know why no one wanted to take her home in the first place.
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Crank It Up
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Piss on her!!!
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tlbrown42000
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As a healthcare provider I can tell you that you did the right thing. If she cares so little about her life SHE has a huge problem.....not you. If she would have died......how would you have felt? So, this girl needs more help than even you....or the ER staff....can give her. But for Lord sakes....don't let her mental illness make you doubt your own morals and good judgement. People in thier right mind would have thanked you and felt the ER bill was a small price to pay for thier life. Please....do not let this incident change your mind about helping others. I always told myself...and my children....always do the right thing only because it is right......not because you will be thanked or even understood.....because...as you know now.....alot of times you are not.
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Buddy Love
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Charge her for gas for the trip to hospital!!!
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Bridget
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you did the right thing, dont worry about it. It is not your fault, if you wouldnt have helped her, she wouldnt be alive, and maybe she is just pissed. She will thank you eventually.
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Backhoe
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You did the rightthing. She should be thankful You took her to the hospital. Take Care
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fred
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A polite "you're welcome," is all such a situation requires.
If she attempts to sue you to recover the cost of the medical treatment that saved her life, well, that would not surprise me. Some people suck.
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omg Sofia. You have such a big heart. All the love to you <3 I'm so sorry you have to encounter very ungrateful people in your life. But please keep doing good things. Your story is very touched to me. :D
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Bren
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It doesn't sound like she knows how to be grateful to you for saving her life. You absolutely did the right thing and I hope it doesn't discourage you from doing the right thing again in the future. She was just too stupid to realize that you saved her life. Don't worry about her having to pay a bill, its her problem not yours. You have nothing to feel guilty about!!! It sounds like she needs to go for treatment for alcoholism. Good Luck!!! KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK!!!
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suba
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YOU HAVE DONE A GOOD DEED ABOVE ALL,IN SAVING A LIFE.Dont be worring about it . The person you saved will oneday understand that the life she's leading is all because of you.she'll regrate on her attitude & will feel sorry for it that day.
God had given you the opportunity to save a life.And yo've done it well from your part.Be proud for it &don't feel bad at any point.Most people think that money is a lot bigger thing than life & thats the reason that person yelled and cursed at you.
Dont worry about the consiquences for doing good.God is there for you forever.
GOOD LUCK!
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Bettygirl 29
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omg you must be such a nice person..... SEREOUSLY ! I would have loved you if I were her. If she comes again just say : FINE NEXT TIME I'LL LEAVE YOU THERE SO YOU CAN DIE B*TCH
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redruane333@sbcglobal.net
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that wa the best thing you could have done she could have gotten really sick without your help you did the right thing
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♥♥_BeaCH_GuRL♥♥
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you did the right thing.
i mean tell her to chill.
she could been dead already.
she should call u a hero.
plus you did all this hard work for her tell her if you didnt do that to her she could've been dead already.
you go girl! you did the right thing i give you a thumbs up!
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anewstart18
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You are exactly right, she should realize, a Dr. bill is a lot better than her life. You shouldn't have any second thoughts about this, you did the right thing. You came back to the party and picked her up, and you saved her life, and then you even took her to a hospital, she should be kissing your feet right now. Please don't think negatively about yourself, this was an amazing feet you accomplished. Be proud that you were responsible and didn't freak out when it came time to put those CPR classes to use!
In my opinion, you did the right thing!
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blastedby
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you were just being nice... the only other option would have been for you to sit her on the side of the road and call 9-1-1 and let an ambulance take her to the hospital, which would have cost her even more money... and it sounds like you wouldn't have done that... you were being nice (did i mention that?).
she obviously has bigger problems than this bill if she was that drunk. maybe she was trying to kill herself and is mad you got in the way... maybe she didn't want her family to know how much she drank... maybe she's embarassed you had to see her like that, do all of that for her... maybe it puts the issue of her overdrinking in her face...
chances are if she was that blasted it wasn't the first time she'd been trashed. right?
take a deep breath and feel good about yourself, you helped someone, even if you had just given her a ride you'd have helped her, but you saved her life... you did the right thing.
reward yourself. go have an ice cream cone or something!
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:}
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don't worry. you did the right thing. if you hadn't taken her in your car she would start choking and possibly die at the party. and if you didn't take her to the hospital she would probly be dead. just try to explain to her why you did it. like something like i wanted to try to save you cause i wanted to know you better but then you started choking and i had to take you to the hospital so you just wouldn' t die or something. or you can just help her pay of some of the hospital bills. well good luck! hope everything works out well <33
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jamorales
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you just did the right thing. in this situation, it is all her fault that she didn't even bother to thank you for all you've done. she should be thankful to all you've done to her..
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Fran
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You did the right thing. She may be mad because she has a bill to pay but what you saved her life. Many young people die each year from alcohol poisoning leaving their families totally devastated wondering why someone didn't do something for their child. Don't worry about it and feel like the hero that you are. You are to be commended for doing the right thing.
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xochi_13
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You did the right thing. A lot of people die every year from alcohol poisoning. It is nothing to mess around with.
It's better to be alive with a large bill to pay than dead.
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melicious
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VERY TURE I THINK YOU DID A GOOD THING SHES CRAZY TO MAKE A FUSS ABOUT THE BILL
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Elille
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She is completely crazy and ungrateful! She was so lucky to meet you, and also because of the fact that you knew what to do when sb passes out or sth....
From me, you have GOLD, and... I'm proud of you.
Had a similiar situation... My friend took drugs and she was completely out. We took her to her house , cause I couldn't take her to mine. She lived with her parents, I just said that she wasn;t well (she looked sick, not drunk...), she went to bed. But the day after her friends didn;t talk to us and was saying around that we are crazy cause we took her to her parents... Well - why didnt they, her friends, help her?!?!?!?!
Crazy world...
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Kristen!!!
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wow i deff think you did the right thing i mean come on she could of died if you didnt bring her to the hospital and if she doesnt see that then shes a idiot.......think about it your life or paying for a bill......so yea i deff think yo did the right thing =]
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mamarat
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Yikes! You did the right thing. Her family could be paying for her funeral right now. That's more expensive than an ER visit.
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lovinbeinmarried!
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this girl is not only lucky to be alive, but also very ungrateful. I understand that she is stuck with this huge bill and frankly i would be pissed to, but if it was not for you, she would not be alive. I think that she is embarrassed and mad at herself over what happened and she is looking for someone to blame. Keep in mind that you did the right thing and you probably saved a womens life-weather she is grateful now or not, she will be someday and hopefully she has learned from this. Best of luck and just don't answer the door when she comes around-she will get over it! Way to go on your fast action though-you should be proud of yourself!!
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Nicole K
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Forget what she has to say she will see one day that you did the right thing. She could have died many people die from intoxication. It was her fault for being stupid and drinking to much. Don't listen to whats she has to say you did what was right. You saved her life and she should be greatful. If she is not her problem she should come around soon enough but you did the right thing don't worry about it.
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NeLLie
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Don't feel bad you did do the right thing. Why is the girl complaining if you didn't bring her to the hospital and she did die, everyone would ask why you hadn't used better judgement. Wouldn't she rather be alive and have a bill to pay than be dead? Anyways, it is her own fault for getting so drunk in the first place. You did the right thing so try no to worry about it so much. And if she was friends with the people at the party and no one wanted to take her home, I think she needs some new friends.
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