How would you deal with a guy poking your breasts in class and during break?

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chris	beat em up! threaten to duck tape his mouth and tie em to a chair while he's asleep! im sure u could think of somthing Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Jo	Tell him you want to talk with him after class. Have another person with you. Tell him you do not like him touching you at all. Make sure he understands you, make him repeat it back to you. I know going to the teacher is not a first choice. Tell him and if he does not stop you need to tell the teacher or another staff member what is going on. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Chetos NFL Bowl Series Comisionr	you shouldn't feel uncomfortable, but I understand why you would. point him out to me( or a big dude you actually know) I'll poke his punk face in Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Cutie	Tell the teacher before it gets worst. Its not embarassing. Stay afterschool. Tell another lady teacher. Tell him to stop. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Mightymo	you can either go to the teacher, tell your parents and then give him an uppercut. I am not promoting violence here, but if he bothers you that much you need to take some drastic measure. Or, like the others say, poke him back and shove something down his pants from the back, so he doesn't see it coming. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

☆Tąrą☆	Tell the teacher. He could take it to a whole different level. Trust me, it happened to me. I took something like that with a light heart and I almost ended up getting raped. Tell ASAP. It's not embarrassing. What he is doing is wrong and he needs to be corrected on his behavior. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Mrs. Edward Cullen	Tell him that it's NOT funny, and that it's disgusting and perverted. And also tell him that if he persists that you'll report him as sexual harassment, and do so (to someone you feel more comfortable with) if he doesn't back off! Sorry you have to deal with that, it makes me mad to just read about how stupid the guy is acting. Also, maybe (as long as your teacher's the one who reads your homework) sneak a sheet with a note about it into the homework pile to get your seat switched. I really wish you the best of luck with this jerk!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Cat Loves LIN 300!	You really need to talk to a teacher you trust or the guidance counselor. This boy is sexually abusing you, and that is NEVER something anyone should be forced to deal with. He is counting on the fact that you and your friend will be too embarrassed to tell the teacher about what he's doing, and so he keeps at it. The truth of the matter is YOU HAVE NOTHING TO BE EMBARRASSED ABOUT! You aren't the one going around touching other people's breasts, he is! If I was in your situation, I would have broken his finger the first time he laid a hand on me. An alternative is to make a huge and I mean HUGE fuss next time he tries to touch you in class. Get up out of your seat and start yelling at him at the top of yours lungs saying things like "Why did you try to touch my breast? That's disgusting!" "What would your mother say if she knew you were doing things like that?!" "Where did you learn that it was all right to touch people in private areas without their permission?!" "My body is my property, not yours!" The last thing an abuser wants is for his dirty laundry to be aired, so this is basically the worst thing that could happen in his eyes. Trust me, I know it's scary, but nobody is going to blame you or take his side when they figure out what kind of a pervert this kid is. You said he does it during breaks, which I interpret as meaning between classes. If this is the case and he does it when no teachers are around, give him the one-kneed salute in the package, and while he's laying on the ground crying, say "Oh, I'm sorry, I thought you were poking me in a private area because you wanted me to do it back," then step over him and keep walking. IT IS NEVER ALL RIGHT FOR ANYONE TO DO ANYTHING TO OR WITH YOU THAT YOU HAVE NOT CONSENTED TO AND YOU'RE NOT 100% COMFORTABLE WITH! YOUR BODY IS YOUR OWN PROPERTY, NOT THIS BOY'S OR ANYONE ELSE'S! PLEASE, STAND UP FOR YOUR BASIC HUMAN RIGHTS! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

I change my name72	Try and talk to a lady teacher and explane to her what is going on with you.If not then yell relay loud at him to stop.Mybe he would get the hint. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

navdeepkaur	I think that he is taking advantage of the fact that you don't want to tell the teacher, because of embarrassment. But, girl, this is sexual harassment, and its gonna get worse. I suggest that you tell the teacher. But if it is a male teacher and you feel a little awkward then go to a female teacher and tell her. Then she will probably tell the counselor or assistant principle. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Gillian	Do you know which car he drives? I'd go let all the air out of the tires. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

cameron lally cscs	Tell him about sexual harassment, give him one warning and if he does it again go to your somebody you trust or the cops. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

DNA	Slap him in the face and yell loud enough for everyone to hear "cut it out" or "stop touching me." If you get in trouble for slapping him, tell the teacher exactly what he has been doing. This is sexual harassment. He could get into big trouble and even be suspended or expelled from school. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

hermanda z	i would go tell, i had a problem with a boy in the 7 grade who would touch my butt on purpose during class.go tell a teacher(woman) soon .please!!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

notmyrealname	report him to the principal. tell your parents. tell your counselor. there's no way you should have to put up with that. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Little Princess	I know it might be embarrasing to talk to ur teacher but plz do then if ur teacher dosen't do anything go to ur principal. That guy is giving u sexual harrasment Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Arissa	dont tolerate that just yell at him loud be like WHAT ARE YOU DOING!!?? DONT TOUCH ME LIKE THAT...you will draw attention and he will be embarassed and stop Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

kristen	kick him in the junk, he should get the point...........seriously though that is sexual harassment and you shouldn't be afraid to report it Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

whrldpz	You need to report this to a Prin. or Coun. The teacher is not really able to handle a guy like this. You don't have to put up with it, that's for sure. Best of luck to you girls. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Nagitar™	Kick his butt...............no, just tell your teacher in private. He shouldn't be doing this. He probably likes you but is to immature to handle it. But it is still wrong. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Catherine E: VT	Absolutely report him. What he's doing is sexual harassment. It will not make him do it more because your teachers have an obligation to protect you. Don't be embarrassed. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

ignoramus	Send the teacher an anonymous note to watch him because of his doing those things. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Hannah	WHAT! omg that kid is screwed up tell your parents and ask them to call the dean, they will make sure that they will not do it again. That has actually happened to me before except I told my teacher and this kid had to appologise to my face and he moved all the classes he had with me. Hoorah. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

SeNoRiTa	sounds like a jerk. try standing up for yourself. tell him to back off. then kick him in the nuts *** lol Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

abreen612	That's assault. Tell him to stop or you'll call a cop Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

gold	That is so uncalled for. Tell the teacher that he is harassing you and you need to change your seat to concentrate on school more. Then, slap him across the face next time he does it! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

DaBrat	I am going to assume this is not a collage class you are talking about so I will also assume you are young. I don't understand why you feel you can't tell the teacher because it will be embarrassing for you. He is the one who should be embarrassed. Here is what I would do; next time he touches you in class stand up and yell "STOP IT YOU PERVERT, WHAT'S WRONG WITH YOU???" Embarrass him in front of everyone. As for getting in trouble in school, it is the schools legal responsibility to protect you from such treatment. If they try to turn it around just mention the fact that you will take it to the Board of Education and that will be the end of that. Stick up for yourself or people will walk all over you for the rest of your life. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Laura J	You wrote: i cant tell the teacher its too embarasing Go make an appointment with your councilor and make a confidential complaint. Have your friend do the same. The boys parents will be called into the school for a descrete conference about it... because, it is grounds for arrest. He could end up in Juvi for that. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Kally	that is sexual harassment Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

notyou311	That is sexual harrassment. You MUST go to a teacher, a counselor, or the principal immediately. He cannot be allowed to do this. Stand up for yourself and do the right thing. It is less embarrassing than having him touch you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

zaden99	grab his finger and bend it overtill it hurts him, and then tell him if he ever mess with you again your going to report his perverted *** to the office and have him expelled or your parents will file sexual harrasment charges against him. (bluff him) if all else fails kick him in the nuts. Good luck Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No