
WAWAYNE
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if your are taking time to ask, this tells me you have doubts about it. So I recomend you take 100 steps back and wait till you figure some of these things out for yourself or with your trusted mentor/friend or hopefully a parent.
Tip # 1. Wait #2. Wait #3. Wait #4. Concider the aftermath. #5 Wait 6.# Wait 7. Fall in love for ever 8. Wait 9. Plan a wedding. 10.Enjoy!!
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so small
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Emily are u sure u got ur % right ???
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lovefromabove25
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I would STRONGLY advise against your decision. If you get pregnant then you are pretty much screwed. Not to mention STDs.
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Alexa
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You know whether or not you're ready for sex so go with how you feel. About what to do. . .the first time you don't HAVE to try anything. . .that will come with time and practice. Don't just lay there though. Go with his motions, make noises when it feels right, grab his back, run your fingers through his hair. . .just show him that you're enjoying it.
Also, first times arn't always the best. I'm not trying to scare you but it's the truth. A lot of times it's awkward and can be uncomfortable. But if you trust the guy and are able to talk to him to help make it more comfortable for you it should be good. Have fun. It's something you'll never forget.
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Duff Man
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you are not ready.
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Flower06
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Sex is a quickie,and love is exploring and sensual and it take the time to have love.If i was you i would wait a bit.But you have the last word.
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Sarah
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There is nothing wrong with premarrital sex you prudes. Just use protection always.
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gypsy
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you're not ready, you're getting ready.
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Klli
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just think about one thing do u want to have a baby there are way u can there is nothing that is 100% safe so think about it are u ready?
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icee
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i say go for it....a little hair never hurt nobody.....it's actually kind of cute sometimes......don't just lay there either....try to get into it.....don't make excessive noise just enough so he knows your enjoying it too.....first times never go as planned.....so if there is some awkwardness(which there will be)....don't worry about it, it happens....also rememeber practice makes perfect.....i'm not saying be a ho though
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Afsoun_Nicole_32907
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OK WELL TRY TO HAVE A ROMANTIC AND SENSUAL MOOD. then start kissing and go further from there.......start takin ur clothes of and just go for it..... umm this is gonna sound weird comin from a 14 year old but just.. tell him u nevar wanna forget this night. its ur first time. u should want it to be relly special. umm.... just be flirty and sexy... and shave.. and when he gives it to u just go with it. u kno scream, moan, ect. but dont fake it. go as much as u can . and tell him how u want it. if he is strong then i dont think you will be abel to walk or stand 2marrow.... lolz .
good luck!!
safe sex!!!!!!!!!!!!! use a condom TROJAN IS THE BEST.
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bartzan41
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Just let your feelings be your guide. You very likely won't be able to control your responses anyway. Don't worry about what hair you do or don't have downstairs, it doesn't matter. Just go with the flow, be responsive to what he does, and enjoy it. You will know soon what does and what does not feel good to you, so just let your partner know! You can run your hands through his hair all you wish. Guys like that, especially if they are going down on you. Just follow his lead, and know that it is ok to ask him what he wants you to do, and also to tell him what you find that you like.
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creartisan
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At 17, you may be ready to have sex... but it sounds like you don't have the right person to express first love to yet. That will be a mistake that could haunt you for years.
You would know what to do by the inspiration of your loving emotion... if you were not just with a guy to get banged. First times can be awkward, but when you are naturally motivated, things just kinda' happen.
Think about how when you love your dog or cat you want to stroke it... for the lovely sensations... to please yourself and your pet. Think how good it feels to cuddle and snuggle and say silly little lovey type things. When you take a taste of your favorite flavor, the "mmmyum" sound just flows out naturally. How about the burst of joy when you meet up with someone you haven't seen for a while and you rush to hold them.
These are the emotional links to the physical acts that we share for pleasure and to show that there is a specialness. This should not be missing from your first time, it should be an act of "love making" not casual sex. There is plenty of time in the rest of your life to explore the "casual" and meaningless sexual aspects... your first time should be a memory to cherish.
Until you are truly ready to express that special bond with your mate, you should prepare, because your life will change dramatically. It is up to you to make it a positive experience so you will not taint your future.
Learn to put a condom on a man and never have contact without it. Learn to recognize sores, rashes and funkyness.
Your personal form of birth control should be established well in advance of your first experience. It is your back up for condom accidents and carelessness. Learn about responsible sex, there are many sites online and books available.
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mexdimpls
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is not that your ready to have sex is that your hormones are reaching its peak meaning your horney. trust me! if you are ready to run the risk of getting aids or STDS
getting pregnant
getting an infection
pain cuz ur a virgin
a man disrespecting you cuz u gaved it up easily
and most important
are you ready to possibly be a disappointment to someone
than maybe MAYBE YOUR ready
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BlackAngeL
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don't do it your still very young, youre not ready....
you'll know if your'e ready if you are responsible enough to face the consequences. having sex is not that easy it has so many complications that i know your not ready to face and deal with, be young and enjoy yourself with other things do something fruitful and meaningful with your life....
Have a nice life....
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Bishop Rashad
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The sexual experience is different for everybody. As a virgin it may hurt the first time. What maybe great for me may not work so well for you. As for the Hair or no hair how do you and your partner feel about it.
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david h
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You are not ready if you need to ask how to do it. It is not something that comes with a manual. Everyone is different and the ways you will enjoy will be different then others. You should wait until it feels like you know what you want from him, then you will be ready.
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Slacker
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I would wager to say that you aren't ready. Find the middle ground here between the have sex now and OMG, wait until you're married crowd.
Our whole culture (in America) has a twisted view on sex- everything is hyper sexualized OR frowned upon by a religion. I would ask you to wait until you know all about safe sex, contraceptions, STDs, etc. 17 yrs old is way too young to think you have it all figured out. Wait a bit until you're making more of your own decisions on your own- don't let anyone push you into something if you don't feel comfortable.
Regarding the hair question- don't worry about it. If a guy wants you, he's not really gonna care.
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ronnny
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You say you are ready but you do not mention there is someone special. You need to wait and find someone special. If you feel ackward about your hair cut then this is another sign to wait because you are nervous and unsure. When you are sure you will not worry about your hair cut or even think about that. When you do get there you just do what comes natural. You will figure it out as you go along.
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squishy
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dont do it until your married. Your to young, and immature.
There are to many problems you run into if you go do that kind of thing before your married.
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Young
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all these questions mean your are not ready.
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BILL
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Make darn sure your ready and that you have the right guy who will not pressure you if you change your mind. Also use PROTECTION and if he doesn't want to then say no. All the rest will come naturally , just be yourself and remember we were all there at one time also
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Big Papi
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WAIT UNTIL YOU ARE MARRIED.......
HAVING A BABY IS A LIFE CHANGING THING
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dr3aming_0f_l0v3
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Oh my god do NOT make that mistake. 17? Honey you aren't even legal! Wait, wait, wait. You're not even legal and it's such a mistake if its not the right time or the right person. You're still in high school right? 99% of the time, high school relationships don't last. Don't have sex just because you think you're ready or because someone might be pressuring you. It's not all it's cracked up to be.
If I can't stop you, do yourself a few favors before you start having sex.
1. Get on birth control for at least a month before you start.
2. Always keep a condom on you, always use one.
3. Make sure to have a blood test with the person you want to have sex with. EVEN if they say they haven't had sex before or that they're clean, you should always check.
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Classy Granny
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If you don't know you aren't ready. When you are it will come naturally
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Seldom Seen
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No, you are not ready to have sex.
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sizefifteen_31
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If you have to ask.... you arent ready to have sex
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Stevie B
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No, you are not ready. Please wait.
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love-♥/-hurts
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hears a GREAt idea stay ABStINENt
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you down?
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im sorry but i think youre too young,just cuddle
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squaleneboy
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If you do not know what to do, then you are not yet ready, sorry.
Maybe you are ready to LEARN ABOUT sex, but not ready for sex.
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