How do i tell my mom this?!?!?!?!??!!?

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ohmartyn	sex at your age is risky not just because of pregnancy but more serious consequences like AIDS. most guys think of protection after the intercourse, so please be careful. to your question, get very close friends of your family, preferably an older lady, to tell your mom with your older sister. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

<3Danielle<3	Awww :( I would sit down and talk with her, just a calm talk when she's in a good mood. Good luck sweetie! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

lil-totツ	You need to tell her. I think she will be more upset finding out on her own than you telling her. Plus you are going to need all the support you can get! Your sister is not going to able to be the only one. Just tell her! Sit her down and explain calmly. Most likely she is going to be more hurt than mad at you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Lola(;*	that is so young, and stupid i believe that you wont be ready and you wont be able to go to school. tell your mom if you dont she will notice you have a huge stomac and see a baby pop out. why did you do that?! tell her straight out, MOM IM PREGNANT Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

rosie	OOH, that's a tough one. Um, ok, tell her calmly in a nice way that you guys need to talk. Sit her down and slowly get into the conversation. But, don't tell her that your sister has been taking you, so that she won't be involved in the trouble. After all, she has been nice enough to take you to the appointments. Also, tell your mom you're going to need her support 100% all the way. Now, hopefully you will learn from this mistake. Who knows, maybe this will be a blessing, and your baby might be a cute, little, bundle of joy. Your mom might need this to take her mind off of the divorce. Who knows, this may work out for every one. Stay in school, and good luck. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

krisduhh™	You have to tell her sweetie. Or you could get your sister to tell her. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

well.hello.there.	THAT IS BULL! I READ UR QUESTIONS AND IN ONE YOU SAID YOU WERE 16 AND A VIRGIN! BULLL! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Becky P	honesty is the key. just tell her you need to talk to her, and tell her. Be prepared for her her to freak out and most likely cry, but you have to tell her. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

c.plybon	Honestly, there is no right or wrong way to tell her. In a case like this, you just have to take a deep breath and blurt it out. I'm sure your mom loves you very much and will do all she can to help. Yes, she will probably worry, but really that's just what mom's do. Best of luck to you. I hope everything turns out OK. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Mobie S	you need to tell her...In the long run you mum would rather no that for you to keep something like this from her...If you are keeping it which by the sounds of it you are, shes going to find out sooner than later and i recommend sooner than later because you will need her help..you are too young to go through this alone especially without you mum... Be honest.and remember she loves you and will be there for you know matter what, yes she may be angry at first but she will get used to the idea and everything will work out in the end! Good luck xxx Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

amber	Well you are not old enough to be having sex, but on to the pregnancy thing. You need to tell her ASAP. Since you are not old enough to work, go to school, and care for your child, your mom will have to raise it until you are old enough to do so on your own. She deserves to know what shes in for. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

sokokl	Just let her know that you need to talk to her about something important in a private setting and then go from there. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

CarolSandyToes1	Te best thing to do is just face her. She's going to be upset anyway, no matter when you tell her. Just get it over with. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

mummy of one gorgeous boy	i guess just tell her u just found out i think she will be rather upset if u say uv known for so long and didn't tell her best way of telling her is u done pregnancy test about a week ago and u made an appointment with the doctor and u found out u were pregnant etc but just tell her and let her think it over cause it will be a big shock for her good luck Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Spirit Girl	Well, you are 15 and Pregnant, so your mom IS going to be upset. HOPEFULLY though she will get over it and help you out. Realize before you talk to her that she will be upset - probably more FOR you than AT you. I have a teenage daughter and if she were pregnant I would mostly feel like I didn't do a good enough job parenting so I would be mad at myself more. Also I would be mad that she was in a very difficult situation, and probably a little mad at her for not being more careful. But what's done is done. So sit your mom down and let her know that you have something to tell her that is hard for you. Tell her you would like for her to listen to everything you need to say before she says anything, then LET HER TALK TOO! There will be lots of tears, but it will be okay as long as you give her the time to let it all sink in. I'm sure it took a little bit of time for it to sink in for you too! Also if you have a plan for the baby, like adoption, or keeping it, it would be good to let mom know what you are thinking. Hopefully whatever you decide, you will keep going to school! That is REALLY important to parents. Good Luck! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

L♥VE	you have to tell her dont worry gods looking over you take her to dinner and tell her there. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Emma L	Honey, this is why they invented birth control. The only thing you can do is tell her. She'll most likely be supportive, but she might be mad at first. If you don't tell her, imagine how mad she'll be when the due day comes! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Eka D	iight teen pregnantcy is serius, YOU need to tell your mom now dont wait any longer not to be worrying you or anything but you never know whats going to happen tomorow or the day after that and you dont want that in your consiouse...and you need to take responsibility your a MOM now.. not a teen who can go out and do what ever she wants you have a child inside you breathing and living and need to take care of her/him and think about the future "how are you gong to support the baby???" where am i going to get the money from???...things like this....i say you stand right out of this computer and be strong for you and the baby and tell your mom... iam sure she would want to know news like this she could help you and support you i know its hard but you cant keep things from your mom at this point break it to her nice and slow and she is your mom she deserves to know she is going through some hard times also because of the divource and this is when she needs you the most and you need her if you hide this secret from her she find out another way in future so much harder and heart crushing for both...and her pain will be stronger then shes going through now because shell wonder why you didnt tell her and think you didnt trust her or believed she wouldnt support you ....and for a mom thats the worst feeling in the world so tell her you can bring your sister and tell her .....good luck for you and the baby ...also BE STRONG if your not who will??? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

jack	I don't know. but some moms would be more than happy to have a grandson/granddaughter Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Baby_G	Well tell her soon...I know you want me to tell you an easy way to tell your mom but to tell you there is NO easy way to tell her and she is going to worry either way...Tell her as soon as possible, it'll be hard but she has a right to know. She's your mom, she'll love you no matter what. Just tell her, at first she'll cry and be upset but she'll be there for you no matter what. Just stay calm and be strong. Good luck! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

JustAsking	You till your mom today o.k. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

*~Soldier Boy's Girl~*	Just be like "Mum, I really care for you and I don't want you to worry or anything, but I'm pregnant." Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

help????	well you should deffo tell her because soon she will work it out for herself and its better coming from you. just sit down and say mum i need to talk to you and tell her : ) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

freebird31wizard	You need to tell her regardless of the worries. keeping this a secret will only upset her more. You know, once she gets used to the idea, .....................she might even be happy to become a grandparent? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

dsfad	Ok first of all, I might sound biased when i say this but DONT GET AN ABORTION. You are way too young and the emotional stress will be the worst for you. You are much better off just talking to your mom about this and having the baby. You probably weren't considering an abortion initially, but just don't let anyone pressure you. Second of all, it will be difficult to break this to your mother, but it is inevitable. better sooner than later. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

The Mysterious One	Uh Oh!! Sit her down and tell her that you need her love and support more than ever now in life. Tell her you made a terrible mistake and are now having to face the consequences but also accept them!! Maybe have your sister there for support! Good luck my friend! Now pick a good name for him or her! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

I am cindrella	ummmm hi mom your gona be a grand ma Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

auburn	And you think she wont be upset when she finds out you have been keeping this information from her? You have to tell her as soon as possible as it is not the job of your older sister to look after you. You are still a minor and there are implications with that. You could also be getting your sister into trouble by allowing her to shoulder the burden. Your mother will find out eventually and believe me the sooner the better. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Jenn	just tell her and ur sister is there if ur moms not Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Ballin	Just let it all out there is no way she'll kill you, because it will be a double murder lol. She'll worry even if you do not tell her after you have the baby and that will be even worse, so tell her ASAP before it's too late Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

snappygirl	Bottom line is that you need mom's support now. So please tell her. If it would be easier, ask your sister to be there with you when you do it. You're mom will need time to adjust to the idea that you are pregnant and also time to prepare. So tell her as soon as possible. Good luck to you! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No