How do I convince a girl it's best to get an abortion?

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michelle12	i know that a million people will tell you that you are heartless and made a stupid mistake and ladidadida, BUT you are right i think. i know its not justifiable to kill an inocent but i really cant imagine anyone letting a child grow up knowing he/she had been the product of a stupid mistake, a stupid affair, the baby would also ruin the mums life- she would have to live off the dole to support the kid and she wont be able to go to uni, she would be a single mom and your family would be ruined if they knew what you did, i know i sound cruel but i think that people who say 'you cant kill an innocent baby' dont realise the magnitude of their stubborness, having a baby is because you would like to have a baby to love and to care for them not becuase it was a stupid mistake Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Dave A	offer the money grabber £200. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

teenchill	abortion is murder Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

the special one9	YOU DONT,, YOU DO THE OPPOSITE!!!!!!!!!!!!!! you tell her that you dont want to be part of the childs life, but that she should still keep the child,, if not that, then she should give the child up for adoption. even though you dont want the child, you couldnt live with yourself if you killed your child,, BECAUSE, EVEN IF YOU DONT WANT IT TO BE, ITS YOURS!! AND YOU SHOULD NOT KILL IT!!! AND EVEN IF YOU CAN LIVE WITHYOURSELF IF YOU DO THAT... ITS STILL WRONG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Joseph C	How can I convince you that you're a selfish man? With my fist? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Pregnancy Help	You are being cruel and selfish. There is no reason or right to convince (or pressure) someone into doing that. You are asking her to do something that will likely carry a lot of emotional trauma for her in the long run. It doesn't sound as though you really care, but this girl is the one who would have to carry around the guilt and depression caused by aborting this baby, so much worse so if that's not what she really wants to do. Also, there are a lot of physical risks, (one being that some women who abort can NOT have any more children), and you are being extremely sefish and irresponsible here. You were wrong to cheat on your wife, and you were wrong to get this girl pregnant,m the least you can do at this point is to man up and face the consequences of your actions. If you could not be with her, you should not have been having sex with her. You've already used her, don't hurt her further by trying to pressure her into something that is not right for her just for your own convenience. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Noname	DON'T! It is murder! And even if it wasn't murder, it isn't legally your call! Don't be an accessory to murder! While it is not (yet) called murder in the U.S., it IS murder in the only court that counts before God. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Dylan	It's like something out of a movie - you're screwed (ironic, isn't it). Well, seeing that you've got a family you shouldn't have been screwing around (literally) in the first place. It up to her obviously, so you shouldn't be surprised that she might have an opinion of her own. My advice, if she wants to have the kid you should help support it, but keep the situation in the dark and NEVER do something that stupid again. Silly rabbit, sleeping with eighteen year old girls is for UNWED men. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

neadles61	Man what were you thinking. Honestly do you even love your wife? Because if you did you would have not even be tempted, to get it on with another woman let a teenager. You had better hope your wife does not find out, as you may end up another John Wayne Bobbitt, who had part of his anatomy cut off. Sorry no sympathy here, just step and take responsibility Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

trudimiller64	u r not right first cheating on ur wife second asking someone U sleept with to get an abortion how dare u ur messed up in the head Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Cupcake	Its her choice, and I personally think its highly selfish that you arent taking responsibility. What if this girl is against abortion? You really think its fair to pursuade someone to go against their morals to suit you. You sound like a selfish pig, shame on you for cheating on your wife. You dont deserve her or your children OR this new one. I hope she keeps it so the government can take money off you for the next 18 years to support YOUR child. Maybe thatll teach you to keep it in your pants next time. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

cherbearhugz	your a selfish *..you cheat on your wife, that girl should never get an abortion!!!!she could have the baby and it should be up to her if she wants to keep the baby or put it up for adoption.. my self id keep it and then your wife would find out becuz youll hve to pay child sopport,,, and your wife will dump your cheating dirty *,,ya know you have a lot of nerve thinking youll get sopport on here..poor poor little mikey..man i cant beleive you... you sux!!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Lorna B	Its her choice you can't make her do it, and it serves you right for cheating on your wife and not using a condom! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Leonie B	the best thing you could have done is keeped your fling in your trousers,you should have known better than to sleep with a young girl.if she goes ahead with pregnancy you will never see the last of her.your wife and kids will be heart broken.if you loved them you would never have looked twice at someone else.as for trying to get her to terminate the pregnancy it will never happen its her choice at the end of the day,the more you try and force her the more likely she is to keep it.really think you should leave her alone and hope and pray she does what you want,and whats best for her! maybe you will think twice before you ever have a fling again Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

shelley	stop cheating on ur wife first off. and the right thingfor u to do is tell ur wife the truth and sorry but abortion is the WRONG thing to do. you wouldnt as ur wife to kill an innocet baby would you? obviously not. if u dont want a baby with this other girl then tell her that, dont try to make her kill it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

teresa_guthrie2002	Would you ask your wife to terminate the 2 children you have with her? I doubt it.. If this girl terminates the BABY which is a part of you, [don't forget] there is always a risk, of course you need to understand how abortion work's...They kill the baby! Now what if she did as you ask & later she was unable to become pregnant because she aborted...you may never know but if you did, would it bother you at all?? You both made a terrible mistake, it's actually cruel to concieve a baby when there is no love or a chance to raise the child together.. You need to face up to the problem rather than try to get rid of it, she might consider adopting the baby to a stable couple but you need to help her in what decision she makes...Face it, there is a chance your wife will find out, worry about her leaving you because you had a so call fling..We can't just sweep our problems under a rug & forget them I don't feel sorry for you or your preg. gf, unless you never told her you were married...OMG! I do feel sorry for your family & the unborn child... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

anais s	it is her choice you cannot convince her of something that she does not want to do and if she wants to take on the responsibility of being a single mother then stay out of HER business .you had your chance at making sure it wouldnt happen you lying cheating awfull father/husband dirty ****** bastard Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Lyndsey	i think it best you leave this girl to do what she wants dont ever try to make some-one do something for your benifit which i think you are trying to do, you should have thought about this before going behind your familys back, i have no sympathy for you, if the girl wants to face her responsability then good on her maybe you should take a leaf out her book and do the same, come clean to your family about what happend, and be there for your unborn child. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

lolly	It seems to me that if you are like any other male, your desire for her to have an abortion stems more from your own fears of having to live with the consequences of what you did, rather than not wanting this girl to have to rais a child in this situation. This is not your place to tell her what she should do, or that she should have an abortion. Your role is to support her, no matter what she decides. Live with your consequences, you were a part of this and you will be a part of the result, whether thats supporting her to have an abortion or supporting her to raise the child. Either way, its not your place to push her either way. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

beautyofthesea	If she does not want an abortion then please do not even try to talk her into it. Being pregnant is a very special experience for a woman and the idea of terminating the Life of her fetus can have very devastating effects on her emotional and physical well being. I think the real problem here is that you don't want her to have this child because of how it will effect your Life. SO this is a completely selfish motivation for wanting to destroy the Life growing in this young woman. I think you should tell your wife exactly what you did with this woman and how she is now pregnant with your child. Because from this day on, you are completely responsible for the financial responsibility of raising this child for the next 18 years. Next time . . . keep it in your pants unless you are prepared for the consequences! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Kelsies	Someone got a kick in the azz by Karma! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Froglet	Wow - you sound like a catch! You can't convince her - its her decision. Sounds like Karma came and bit you in the bum on this one. Looks like you will have to face up to your mistakes - you cheated on your wife and now the girl is pregnant. You have a duty to pay your way for this child even if you don't want to be a part of its life. I hope you do the right thing and honour that duty. And maybe you should try and figure out what made you cheat in the first place - and try to fix your marriage - if you still have one after this! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

rakshasdragon	You cannot force a woman to have an abortion if she doesn't want one, try keeping it in your pants in the future and being more faithful. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

totally hip chick! :)	thats sick by the sound of you already having kids and a WIFE you probably shouldnt have slept with this poor girl at all! its just natural to want children for a girl, youre just going to have to tell your family about this and face up to your own mistakes or karma will come back threefold Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

missy	Sorry about this reply mate ....you are a p** i hope she keeps the baby and your wife finds out and leaves you and they both take you for all you have ...they both deserve better than you Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Rose	You don't. The decision is hers. Jackass. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Mr. Torquato	You can't and don't try. Wear a condom next time, or just don't cheat on your wife. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

JNS	Nothing! Except to tell her you aren't going to take part in the childs life and you don't want her which in turn she'll tell your wife hopefully and she'll leave you and you'll then have three kids to pay child support for!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

black betty	Too bad you're already apart from the womb, can't terminate you. Loser. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Angel_eyes	Hey - it's her body and her life. The mistake has been made, so it's up to her what happens now... if you hadn't been unfaithful to your wife it wouldn't have happened in the first place. I'm pro-choice... so if it's her CHOICE to keep it then be a man and support her. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Georgie	Why are you cheating on your wife? And why did you NOT use a condom? YOU are the so called adult here, and you should have kept "it" in your pants, if you could not afford to put a condom on then you should have thought that having unprotected sex was going to cost you far more than a condom. Despite your wanting her to abort it, it is HER right to keep the baby, and you can't force her to have one. Have you asked her what her reason are for wanting to keep it? She may have legitimate reasons. Abortions are not something to be taken lightly, they are painful, can cost a bit to have done, and it is not unusual for the woman to feel guilty which can lead to depression etc. And there is an element of risk with these sort of procedures, which could even cause death or infertility. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No