Girls? Period question. Be mature, please! :)?

Okay, I know people ask A L O T of questions similar to this, but none of them are exactly like mine, so I'll just ask, lol. So, I'm 15... From March to late April I was havi...

Okay, I know people ask A L O T of questions similar to this, but none of them are exactly like mine, so I'll just ask, lol.

So, I'm 15...
From March to late April I was having sex regularly (With the same guy haha not multiple partners or anything)
Don't flame me about this, but two times during the Months we didn't use any protection. (But he pulled out, ) I know it isn't very effective.

Thing is, since then I haven't had a REAL period.
In June I had a little spotting, maybe some bleeding but not much..
And I went to the doctor, and got a blood test, and urine test.
BOTH were negative, and the lady referred me to an OBGYN but honestly I'm scared lol.
I'm kind of embarrassed to go to 'those kind of doctors'..
So should I go?..
I mean my period is extremely late, but I am only 15, and at my age I know it can be very irregular..
I'm just worried about my health, I'm pretty sure I'm NOT pregnant, but could it be something else?
Ovarian cysts, etc..?

Thanks to those who take the time to answer..
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Okay, so I'm going!
Thanks you guys rock :)
Like yall said, I have to eventually anyway.

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Kim	just go. its totally worth it. why waste your time getting unsure opinions when you can go there and get facts =D i think its a good idea. it could be anything. your body changes when you start having sex, regularly. when you do go, if you decide to. RELAX while you are there. everyone who works there is a professional and does it every day while those who are patients are there for the same reasons as you. nothing to be ashamed of. and ignore the people that say shame on you. you did nothing wrong everyone has sex with there boyfriend. and also, the obgyn can put you on the pill so you won't need to worry about getting pregnant.

PiXiE ViXiE	Hey,, I'm nearly 15! Sorry in advance if this is no use. The fact you've bin to the doctors twice and nothings shown up, 95% u're not pregnant =).. But if you had a regular period cycle, and now for some reson its stopped, i think u shud poss get it checked out, just to be on the safe side :) You've alredy dne the right thing by going to the doctors in the first place... i know id be so scared.. so well done anyways =) Just don't worry, cuz its probly nothing anyway! Take Care xXx

princessleah	Its possible you have irregular periods but have they always been regular before you started having sex? I don't think its an STI because i've never heard of that stopping your periods. Its probably just a minor thing but I do know that stressing will not help. Don't be embarrassed to go to an OBGYN it's important particularly if a doctor has referred you. Just go and see what they say, they are the most qualified people to diagnose you.

Schnoodle_Mom88	Even if it ISN'T because you are pregnant, there could be other issues. Sure it could just be general irregular and late period that most teens go through but it's better to be safe than sorry. Right? I know it's very embarasing to go in and talk to someone about this (even more so to have any sort of exam done.) I never liked it either. But it's something you should do now if you are concerned AND it's something you'll have to do regularly as an adult. Have you talked to anyone yet about the birth control pills out there? I was put on them in high school because i was having health problems that could have been related to irregularity. They helped even me out. Now i'm on the Seasonal pills - you only get your period every three months. It's a life saver, if you know what i mean! So yes, i would go in to be sure you're healthy. Good luck!

LaLa	The best way to protect yourself is to not have sex. Youre only 15. You have lots of time. Plus there are other health concerns other then being pregnant. AIDS,genital warts, infections. What youre doing is not healthy and you should stop having sex. Also talk to your mother, she can help you. You should also go to "that doctor" to get yourself checked out.Good luck.

cowgalutah	If you don't want to go to the OBGYN, see your family doctor. Also if you want to be seen with a little anonymity, go to your local Planned parenthood office.

hlysrendr	There's absolutely nothing to fear, you might as well get used to the idea, that you pretty much must visit those kinds of Doctors....trust me, they won't remember your vagina, they've seen over a million of them, You might be uncomfortable for about 10 minutes AT THE MOST...Go..have fun!

hazel	the doctor is really not gonna hurt u ... she might just do a swap to check for infections or anything like that ... and most probably give u pills so ur period would come in ... since ur not preg that is ... dnt be scared better safe than sorry ... and dnt be shallow about the sex protection thing ... its really serious ... always use protection .. but i really think 15 is an illegal age for sex ... u better take ur time ... go have fun with friends ... shopping ... excercise ... projects ... u have a life time ahead of u ... use this time wisely

istayhigh	Yes, you really should go to the ob/gyn appt. At your young age periods can be irregular, but it could also be a sign of various things. STDs, cysts, PID (Pelvic Inflammatory Disease), etc. Please do go, if you don't and there is something there, and you don't have it addressed now, you may end up regretting it later. I also feel obliged to say that you really should use protection. It is not just to prevent pregnancy, but many other things. Good luck!

moogle	its better to go and maybe ask for some birth controll just to be safe i know your parents dont want to be grandparents yet

Lúta	Go. They are the specialists. They will give you the best advice you can ask for.... usually.

Tatiana	If you already went to the doctor then your parents probably already know so it wouldn't hurt to go see an OBGYN. It's best to be informed and know what you can do to stop further infection right? You probably don't have a cysts because people I've met with cysts normally have pain in their abdomen.

wendy865	You need to do an at home pregnancy test to confirm that you are not pregnant. Then you should go to an obgyn, because if you aren't pregnant, you could have something else wrong with you and you should get it checked out. There is also a possibility that you contracted an STD. You should get tested just in case. In general, you should see an obgyn once a year from the first year you are sexually active. If you go to Planned Parenthood, they will give you a pap and an STD test for nearly free. You can also get nearly free condoms from them as well.

Karina Z	you need to see a doctor no one online can help sorry babe good luck

shortie_right	Go to a gynecologist. Its a good idea because you can talk to them about your problem as well as get checked out for any STDS.You did have unprotected sex and you never know who might have anything.

drip	Pick up an at home pregnancy test and check and make sure you are not pregnant. You need to be sure, not pretty sure. If you are having sex you should be going to a GYN now. You should have a pap smear. And be checked for STD. At 15 it is probably just your age. Yes periods at that age are very irregular. Ovarian cysts are painful and cause bleeding.

Sarah Bear	You should see an OBGYN when you become sexually active. When you become sexually active you raise your chances for STD's of course and also ovarian cysts and other "lady part" problems. I know it's embarrassing but when you decide to have sex, you need to be mature enough to be able to take care or your vagina. Trust me, I HATE GOING. I know, though, that it's my job to take care of myself. I hope this helps. Good luck. :o)

Awkward	I think you should get the courage and go to the OBGYN. If you wait to long it could lead to many more problems down the road such as cancer or infertility..

~ Luci ~	u seem like a nice girl, dont worry at 15 mine was very creepy and came 2wice on one month then stope for 3 months :D its pretty normal.. just try not to have unpotected sex ! especially at your age ! you wount want to get pregnant now... but do realx ... this is very normal, pretty soon it will come nd evrything will b alright

Bitchy Girl	heres an idea. ask your mom. thats what shes there for. im serious. shes not there to get you in trouble for having sex. shes there because shes the only person that really gives a **** about your sex life and you being safe. i know it sucks. but you need to talk to your mom.

candygal	Dnt ever use that sex technique again. You can still have a cycle and be pregnant and if you went to the doctor real soon after sex with him you may have went too early. It take s a while to show up in the urine.

babygirlxoxo@ymail.com	When i first when to the obgyn, i was SO nervous... im 16 now and i first went when i was 15... But i only went for a check up, and get tested for STDS and what not... Just to be sure!!! But after i went, i felt so relieved... I suggest just to go, and get it over with =) Its not as scary after you do it! Good luck<3

angel	It's probably nothing to worry about, but you should still go to the doctors. Don't drive yourself crazy about it and wait for the results. I'm sure all will be ok. But make sure you go.

*Angel*	You should go to 'that kind of doctor' you will regret it if anything happens, and its nothing to be ashamed of. It's what they are there for, but you shouldn't be having sex, especially without condoms. Promise me you will use protection every time. If he won't then you shouldn't be with him because he doesn't respect you. Angel

Chels	going to an OBGYN is something you'll have to do eventually, and at 21 i still dont enjoy it, but i know its good for my health. To make myself more comfortable i have a woman doctor. If you've taken both tests, you're probably okay. and yes you're right in thinking its irregular at your age... if the problem still persists and you're still concerned about it, i would suggest going to the OBGYN. its not AS bad as you think. its unplesant but its over before you know it. I hope i helped

latinprincess875	you should definetly go. it might be something as small as an irregular period, it happens all the time, but dnt risk anything either..go to the gyno

Raven	OB/GYN sounds like a plan. It's not pleasant but it's also not incredibly bad. It's probably the only way you're going to know what's happening to your body for sure.

bbygurl757	You should definitely go the the OBGYN. I think all woman are a little embarrassed to go, but it's the only way to make sure everything is right.

Why ruin it	Its hard to say. If you're really worried about it I'd just go see the doctor! :]] They have so many people come in I don't think that it would be weird or out of the normal at all!

Jane J	If your sexually active you're old enough to see an OBGYN. Don't worry about it. It won't hurt, although will feel a bit weird, and it's so worth it. He or she will make sure you get some birth control that's right for you and check you for stds and abnormal cells, etc. It's a good thing to do. Believe me it's nothing they haven't seen before. Good luck.

kim.talbot27	Sweetheart, I know what you are going through, I do. I was put on the pill when I was 16 because of irregular periods. At first they were like yours; spotting and very speratic. Then they got heavy and lasted longer than 7 days. The last time I had my period before I went on the pill, I had it for 34 days, and it was heavy. I would go to the doctor just to be sure. No harm will come to you if you go, but if you don't go, you might be risking your health. I can't tell you if you do have something (like a cyst) but I would definitely get it looked at. Good luck.