nicole
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I know what you mean.
It sucks...but you should be alittle happy you dont got it,
I am 14 too but dont have it.
I heard it sucks, lol.
I know it's true when the right time comes.
I promise it will come hopefully for me too.
I even got held back supposed to be in the 9th grade
and all of my other friends got theres.
A couple of days ago they were talking about
it..it is so embarrasing knowing you dont have it :(
Were just kids right now :(
But advice:
Keep a pad or tampon close by.
::backpack::
be ready to shock your mom :D
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Umm Hi!!
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listen! dont rush things when it comes it comes and u'll have 4 it along time trust me.. im 20 and had it 4 5+years...and last year i got sick and had a month+period.. so dont worry it'll come.. age matters.. when ur body develops fully and everything u'll get it.. every gurl gets it sometimes and if she doesnt theres a things that can help it.. ur 14 hun enjoy not having it bc when u get u'll wish u never did!! :D
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walkin in circles
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Everyone is right. Everyone's different and it comes at different times for everyone. I got mine in 5th grade but my sister didn't get hers until her sophomore year in high school. Just enjoy the time that you don't have it! It's not all great fun. Just chill. It'll come when it comes.
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Emotionless Shinobi
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I know you may be freaking out, but each and every girl has a different age of puberty. It comes when you are ready to handle it. My mother and all of her sisters got their periods between the age og 8-9, while i myself gained mine at the age of 13. Dont stress it, because stress may delay the process.
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lindsayy <3
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I have the same problem.. my mom said that she started at my age.. but I havn't started yet.. but like other people are saying.. you and I should enjoy life as we have it. (without periods!) :)
Hang in there! Your doctor is just trying to calm you down a bit. :) I went to the doctor too.. they all say the same thing. :)
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andy_campbell_99
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the books are right, you will get it eventually, dont worry. when you do get it, youre wish you didnt have it. its not a bad thing or anything but most women wish they could skip that part of the month.
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Heather Z
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dont freak out it is normal to not have it yet. many girls are having theres later than their friends. there is nothing wrong. dont rush it.
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Authentic Believer
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calm down lil grl, u'll get it....geez, like its not ur time, so when u get it, u'll get it......u sound like me before i got my period at 13, i was fussing about how much longer must i wait..........i think being a lil grl would be nice, i mean, i hate periods, and i hate the weight gain after it too!
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Turts
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First off, stop stressing over it. That's the easiest way to keep it away. Second of all, the books and the doctors are right. It will happen. When it's TIME for it to happen. I had boobs and pubes for two years before I got my period. I was almost 15 before I got mine.
But really, relax. Stress is the one of the primary triggers for late periods (even when you've had it for YEARS).
Your doctor knows when to start worrying about you not getting it. Trust them and (no pun intended) just go with the flow.
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Angie
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Hello: Please don't worry once you start getting you regular menstrual cycles you will be wishing you never did, I had my first period when I was just a peanut 11 years old my oldest sister had it when she was 15 much develop than I ever was lol . It will happen when you least expected it w/o out a doubt when is your time to bloom theirs no stopping it so relax trust me on that mean while enjoy your self. Am 39 today and because of my early development now am suffering pre menopausal syndrome. I hate them. lol
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Hugs&Kissesxo
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Its okay some girls don't even get it until they are 18! I feel your pain though i am 13 and don't have it either but maybe you just don't have all the signs.. Here they are
Sigggnsss..
-Pubic Hair
-Armpit Hair
-White Discharge (for at least 6 months or more)
-2-3 years of breast development
(after 2-3 years of breast development is when you usually get your period)
-You should also be at least 100 pounds.
alssooo..
-are you breasts sore?
-cravings for food/candy/drinks?
-lower back sore?
-any cramps around the belly button area or bellow?
-feel bloated?
-feel cranky/moody?
Hope this helped! :)
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AMAAZZING!
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DONT WORRY! i didnt get mine till i was almost 14 and ALL of my friends had theirs and they were YOUNGER than me!!!!! it was sooooooooooo sad! but dont worry bcuz everyone matures at a different rate..... u and me are just late bloomers....... so ur not the only one...... u'll get it soon..... good luck!!!!!!! :)
This might sound really perverted and awkward.......... but by the way r ur boobs big? cuz i'm a late bloomer too (u already kno that) and i have TINY boobs......... just wondering if i'm the ONLY one.... thanx! :)
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Jillian
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Well, the whole super skinny petit friend thing doesn't matter because super skinny kids actually get their periods earlier. I am REALLY skinny. Every year when I go to the doctor for a physical he thinks I'm anorexic. I am not but I am skinny and I got mine when I was 10.
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Not who you think ....
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Time dear. It will happen when its time. No way to predict when but it will happen as sure as the sun rises and sets! :)
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lhlover74
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Sometimes if you are an athlete it comes later. Believe me, once you get it, you wish you didn't.
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redfuzzycow
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my younger sister got hers before me LOL
don't sweat it, you will get your period soon enough.
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SallyJane
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ask your mom when she got it. i'm 15 and just got mine, and my mom got hers at 15, too. believe me, i know how you feel - all my friends have had theirs for over a year ago. it's weird and awkward but your time will come.
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Emma Francee
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There are several things that you have to consider.
One is that you should talk to females that are directly genetically related to you. Late periods may run in your family. I have a friend who is almost 18 and still doesn't have hers.
Consider your diet and health. If you're not healthy or eating right, your body won't let you have your period because it assumes that you cannot support a child with the diet/health issues you may have.
Any medications that you are on may also have an effect on your timing.
I wouldn't worry too much about it, I was late getting mine too, and while I understand how much it really stinks to not have one while everyone around you does...it's really not fun once you start it, but I can understand why it's important to you.
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dogan109
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OMG
Please don't rush gittin it
Just give it sum time
Plz don't b mad @ the doc cuz he is only doin his job
Trust me, I thought the same thang once b4 & then when I got mi period, I still hate every minute of it.
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Yanks08
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Thats totally normal. My aunt didnt have hers until she was 18. Dont stress about it, it will come. Plus once you have it, you will wish you didnt. Kind of ironic.
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glitterbug
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i had a friend who didnt get hers till she was 15 and she was totally normal in size and developement..there are early and late bloomers thats all
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K&C<3
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As much as you seem to hate to hear it.. Your dr is right. It comes at different ages for everyone. And trust me.. once you get it.. you wish it would have held off for another year.
Dont rush growing up. It happens fast enough as it is..
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amber s
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its COMPLETLEY normal! and honestly you dont want it! its sucks lol some girls dont get it until they are 17. i got mine in 5th grade, one of my friends did not get hers till 11th. age does not matter neither does the way ur body is developed. having periods stink. ur doctor is right. dont complain. its not a big deal. you already have all the body functions that come with it such as the hair and shape.... you have that without the pain of having one. you are a lucky girl! - dont worry about it, its normal. and ALL girls get one there is not way you could never not get one.
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LoveStruckGirl6
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you sound exactly like me :) and I didn't get mine until i was 16 (going into gr. 9).. and I am so happy I got it late, no periods to worry about... I am 20 now studying medicine, trust me you are perfectly normal. Enjoy it while it lasts xx
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Anirbas
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you're overreacting. Calm down, you only need to be worried about it if you haven't gotten your first period by 17.
FYI: stress will cause it to come later.
And just because you're a late bloomer isn't going to have any effect on you having children.
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You probably don't want to hear this but everyone has it at their own time. I'm 14 and had my period for about two years, and trust me once you get it you will hate it:(
enjoy the time you have without it.
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Zoey H
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im 18 and i still dont have it i know exactly how you feel like everyone else is in a club and your not invited everyone keeps telling me to see a doctor but i dont have one but i am sure you will be fine no worries and from what i hve heard there is no rush
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PSYCHEDELICmess
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Its genetic ask your mom when she had hers.
If hers was later than most, then yours could be too.
and ENJOY THE TIME THAT IT ISNT THERE!!
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amorgan
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getting your period sometimes has to do with your genes, if you mom didnt get hers until she was older, then you would probably too.
BTW- why do you want it so bad? periods suck!
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F
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completely:)
a girl i knew didnt get hers till she was 18.
My best friend is 14 and she, like me, does not have her period. It's all good.
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wii man
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IDK IDC
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