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Rachael H	yes its normal for a lot of women, your boyfriend getting annoyed wont help you to relax for it to happen Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

hot_john_dog1	if u find that rubbing only helps when stimulating yourself, u should try on top and grind your cl** area on him. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Denzle	Its quite obvious that your boyfriend isn't experienced enough to know what makes you turn on.....So try this next time......When having sex slide yourself down a little, so his tool bends and is in contact with your sensitive bit.. Ask him to work it gently around this area....Not just in & out... As a woman, tell him ,or show him what you want.... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

I Can Lick My Eyebrows	Don't get frustrated, you just need to find the spot. Every women has the spot, that when manipulated the right way, produced the orgasm you so despirate seek. Do some research first online and get an idea of what might feel good. Take a Saturday and find the spot. Spend all day in bed naked and try everything you can imagine. Buy some toys and let him explore ALL of you until you find the spot. The spot my be where you least expect it or in an area you have not fooled around with yet. According to MSNBC a few weeks ago, that area has been deemed untaboo. Before you get turned off by the though, give it a try, then make your judgement. Just be opened minded and be safe about it. Handled right, I have never known a women to not enjoy pleasure there. The uptight ones just need to learn to relax. Hope you find the spot. It's a new world once you get there :) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

montreal canadiens #1 fan	think of how hot and sexy he is then think of how his peniss make u hot and how it makes u feel good think of that and watch n see the sparkkxxxx that fly between the 2 of u Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

freerange00720002000	If you tell yourself you cannot orgasm through penetration then you will subconsciously prevent yourself having one. You say you only orgasm through masturbation or foreplay,this is very common but as again if you put too much emphasis on "oh my god i just know he's gonna think hes not doing it for me coz i cant orgasm" you will automatically prevent yourself. You need to relax and enjoy sex for what it is and not how you get an orgasm. I was like this with my x,i knew i didnt love him and knew i didnt want him,this always prevented me having an orgasm BUT i knew the cause to me not having an orgasm. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Sport	A couple of things you can try. He can rub your clitoris while he enters you from behind, either in a spoon position or doggie. Also, he can enter you from a frontal position but try to put more pressure towards the front of the vagina in order to stimulate both the G spot and the clitoris. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

jane d	orgasms are frequently difficult for women to achieve.... The most sensative area for sexual stimulation on a female is the clitorous.. which is rarely paid attention to or touched with regular intercourse... this would be the first place to start and then relax....THE Best ... most intense.. orgasms though occur from the Gspot.. this is a fleshy spot.. found just inside your vagina.. on the top.. if you put your finger in there and feel for it you will notice that it has a slightly different texture than the rest of your vagina...this can be stimulated (esp with fast movements...) and when it is it will swell or become engorged with fluid.... at the point of climax.. .. you may feel like you have to pee.. or urinate.... at this point.. you should push outward with your vaginal muscles.. try to push him out of you and.. maybe put pressure on your pelvic bone or lower ABD.... urinate prior to sex... always try to relax.. and clear your mind... and really the best place to start is with foreplay.. and clitorous stimulation.. again rarely is the clit touched with just the in out movement.. and this is the most sexually sensative area on the female anatomy... GOOD LUCK>>> Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Singapore Sling	It's actually quite hard to orgasm through penetrative sex. Have a look at the attached link. You might want to try different positions where you can still have penetrative sex, but also have clitoral stimulation at the same time. Go invest in a copy of the Kama Sutra, and happy practising! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

theemadmonkey	Tell your bf to grind round and round when he has put it into you this will stimulate your clituris thus orgasm. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

ann.gardiner4@btinternet.com	You are not alone - you are very very normal!! Here is some advice - http://clitical.com/toptens/female-orgasms.php Good Luck. XXX. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

raven1	you are normal most woman can not and never do have an orgasm during normal sex act. sometimes a man just don't hit the G spot. but if you get him to stimulate your clit while making love then you can have an orgasm with him. man there is nothing like orgasming at the same time.. but i feel as you age you will learn how to work that part of your body to accomodate you and your needs, hang in htere and keep working on it.. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

toronto_leafs	Don't worry, thats completely normal. Sometimes women just don't have the big O with penetration. Maybe what you could try is have him tease you until you're just about to climax...the before you give in, he goes inside of you and does his thing. Because your sense will already be heightened it may give you that little extra push needed. Or maybe even try a bunch of different positions instead of just missionary. try the reverse cowgirl or doggy style or something, that may add that little jolt needed too. (Or maybe he's not doing it right?) Search the internet, you'll find its common for women to not be able to achieve an orgasm through penetration. Show it to your boyfriend so he doesn't keep getting annoyed with you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Stumped	It is normal, there's nothing wrong with you or him. I can't get one with just sex, I have to masturbate to get off! Get creative and try all kinds of positions, pillows, and other stuff. Go to an adult store and see what they have that interests both you and your bf. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Bumumble	you need to tell him exactly what turns you on, i mean like guide his hands and dont be scared other wise you will never get one Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

zaba33	That is totally normal, teach him to use his tongue, if you are able to teach him how to use that before he uses his penis, everyone will be really happy! The important part is for him to use his tongue before he uses his penis. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

XxXxPinkPrincessxXxX	Get him to foreplay with you 1st, then start to have sex and when he is finished ask him to finish you of with foreplay. also the build up always helps like a good massage something that turns you on, make you want it more and most like give you more build up for an orgasm Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

who k	that's completely normal girl , a lot of women r like u , if u read more abt sex u will knw that , make him knw that n he will stop being annoyed , also most women have orgasm from foreplay more than intercourse so................. enjoy it , n try to have orgasm during intercourse but if u cant that's ok . u r normal , good luck........... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

xCharliex	i have been with my boyfriend 4 years this year, and i have only ever had 3 orgasms through sex! the rest have been through him erm playing with me if you like and then me doing it myself! my bofyriend aint bothered as long as i have one! it is quite normal for women not to orgasm during sex! relax and enjoy :) if you think i want to have an orgasm, you wont! and it will add to your stress! i find i have one when i relax, and enjoy it! :) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

tabby261	i have the same problem, but my husband seems to understand... there are many women out there that can't reach orgasm with just plain intercourse. with us it just opened up new doors to explore other things. try to sit down and explain all of this to your bf... if he really cares for you he will understand, and he may like the idea of trying new things with you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

theoneandonly	well i dont know anythin bout sex realli cos I'm 13 but you might have more pleasure in masturbation or forplay. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Strawberry Tart	i agree with cnith. i don't think you'r boy friend realises it's not your fault. alot of women do find it hard to orgasm through just sex. but being put under pressure to orgsm is not gonna get you any where. also it won't help if you can't talk about what is making you unhappy with him and it is not the sign of a healthy relationship. to be honest it sounds like an ego problem for him that he can't give you an orgasm. try and explain and talk to him about it and if he still dosen't get it get rid of him i'm sure you can do better ;-) ! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

breedgemh_101	Study the book--The Perfumed Garden. If you dont come after trying out some of the suggestions contained in it, I will eat my cap. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

CHARISMA	just relax and enjoy it, and get a vibrator, once you learn your bodies glow buttons, you can get teach your guy, or include the vibrator if all else fails! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Curly	Many women have trouble achieving orgasms. There are those times you are just not relaxed enough, have too much on your mind and/or your partner is just not hitting your buttons right. Don't worry about not having simultaneous O's - it is okay for you to go first and then him...try oral stimulation (from him) or perhaps get a vibrator. Once he is inside you, stimulate yourself with the vibrator...can make the experience what you are looking for. Good luck! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

blueteletubie	What you are experiencing is very very common, and is neither of your faults, and your bf shouldn't get annoyed instead try fun stuff..take a trip to Ann Summers shops and spice things up and have fun. Good Luck. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

freakyfairy	I'm 31 and Ive never orgasmed during penetration. My husband was a bit perplexed at first but he soon learnt that I can be satisfied in lots of other ways just never through intercourse! Its just the way I am! Its not abnormal its just our sensitive spots are in a different place! x x Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

?	Lots of women can not orgasm through penetration it is normal don t worry. Some women need direct clitoral stimulation don t worry plenty of women are the same Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

byebye	not all females can orgasm through intercourse,relax for a start,let him stimulate you until you're ready to burst but stop before you ***,repeat as long as you can stand it then sit on him and rub your clitoris on his pubic bone till you explode,good luck,you'll have fun trying Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

cnith	it's normal to not have one during straight intercourse. What you can do is stimulate yourself while in the act and that should help. If your bf really cares about you, he wouldn't be annoyed. The fact that he is concerns me. He could just be interested in himself and not you, that's why you don't connect well. A man cares about his woman's desires first and then his own. He wants to make sure she's satisfied. However, she needs to know how to do that. Next time, ask him to masturbate you while in the act and I bet it will happen...but relax. If you expect it to happen or TRY to make it happen, you'll be too tense and it won't. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

RadTech - RT(R)	At least 70% of women don't reach an orgasm through intercourse alone, so you are completely normal. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No