First time....bad...normal?????...

is it normal for the "first time" (in sex) to be really bad???? i mean really really bad ?????...

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anythingwilldo	it is usually very average - bad? could well be. especially if both parties are inexperienced. be reassured - it will only get better!
Liz	yeah it is pretty awkward. because u have never done it before
Robert O	'first times" are diffrent for different people.
The Only Wiseone	Yes
minichef2585	yes, definitely
jilly53	YES!!!!! When I think of my first time,now, I could just die of laughter at myself, the situation, the guy(I was madly "in love")etc....so in a few years you may look back and do the same. Anyway back then I thought "Is this what all the "to do " is about?"!!!!!!, YUCK!!!!! I am sure he was happy because of course something HAS to work on his side(and he was so lovey-dovey after too)( I couldn't wait to use the bathroom) So you must guess for women it is much more difficult to achieve satisfaction. So unfortunately be prepared for more of the same until you practice enough and you really have to know your own body too.I don't mean to sound bad but in the privacy of your own home ALONE try a vibrator or any experiment once you find that special feeling you"ll know what I mean so when the time comes again be in control and think of pleasing yourself not him (for now anyway) because nature knows he is ALWAYS going to get what he needs no matter what its only natural for guys. Hope you have a wonderful love life (don't be doing it just to be doing it either) you will never appreciate a healthy loving sex life if you are just doing it to be "in". I hope this isn't too much information but there are so many things that need to be in place like the setting, your mood, your nerves, your love interest, etc. and I am not speaking for everyone but for me first time was gross so....Good Luck ps I'm still with the same guy(we broke up several times) and sex couldn't be better at 53!!!!!
Mateus	All depends on how into it you were. If you just layed there and were akward, then yeah you were bad. So it can be normal, just depends on the person and how ready they really are.
big city	yes- for the girl. it gets better as you get older and have more practice and learn to have an or*asm
StabMaster Arson	Sex is like pizza, when it's bad it's still good.
EvilFairy	Not really bad but it wont be great either. Remember if you already know what you like tell them. No one knows how to please you more than you do.
weasel162get8	Yes the way this young @zz Boys want to just jump on it and hump like crazy,You can have a Bad experince..Find someone who will love & be careful with you..
Just a Crazy Girl	Yeah like over in 2 seconds and really really bad. Yes! Guys have it so easy, they totally don't realize!
Brittany P.	It is probably really bad for a lot of people but I wouldn't say that was normal. I guess I would need more details to answer, but the first time really doesn't have to be bad at all.
D.S.M	Yes, yet it shouldnt have been that bad.
Lassie D	Yes. It's the "forbidden fruit", which makes it all the more interesting and then hear stories about the earth moving and how "beautiful" it was for a lot of people, whom I think lie about it, honestly. In most cases, it's awkward and "underdeveloped" (neither knows anything more than what they've heard or read about) and methodical. Girls only care about making the guy happy (which a strong breeze can do) and don't care enough about having their own physical satisfaction met (I never really learned about that until my late 20's, and I'll tell you, I was pissed that I'd wasted so many years--and my partners LOVED being told WHAT to do, and were more than happy to do what I told them to do. It's MORE than a feather in their cap to say they "pleasured" their woman before themselves) aside from the physical, you won't see the REAL "stars" until you're deeply in love with AND loved by a special someone. You can have a lot of fun in between, but when you find the right one, you'll know, and THEN you'll see the fireworks......
kwest	yes. it gets better, trust me.
crazyallie	Indeed, it is.
Rachel84	Yeah, my first time sucked, really bad sex and it hurt and I developed pneumonia in the next two days and ended up in hospital, with a sore bajingo, fighting for life. Put me off for a few months I can tell you (fairly sure the pneumonia and the bad sex weren't related, I wasn't losing my virginity on an iceberg, but it wasn't great timing).
***	Totally normal. It hurts and it's really awkward.
suprheannariot	it depends on so many things. it depends mainly on who it's with and how comfortable you are with them. trust me, it'll get better :D
paulamarie27	yes from what i have heard apparently it is...but not all first times have to be bad....it all depends on the person you are doing it with and why you are doing it....if it is the right person and for all the right reasons it can be really good...but for most of us...we rush into things and don really thing about what it is going to be like later so....i guess to answer your question....yes!
Days08	Yes, if your a girl.... your unexpirenced!!
college_gal_83	Yup...particularly if it's both your first times.
Meggy<3	well the first time can be awkward and painful so yeah that is normal
Joe	Nah, you're probably just a **** shag
George Smith	yeah it's so bad you're going to get your asss dumped good day
ecemajor	OH YEAH!!! I've actually never had anyone tell me that their first time was good. Your so psyched up about it, and you expect music to play in your head, and sparks to go off and for it be an outer body experience, and its not! It's just two people having (hopefully) loving contact. I promise, though, it does get better, especially after you learn a little. I think it's like handwriting; when you first start writing letters, they look terrible and scraggly. Then it gets better as you practice. Good luck, and have fun practicing!
Laura Raeanne	lol. depends on what you mean by bad?
seeingidog	Yes. If you don't know what you're doing and/or if you're very nervous it is normal to be bad at it. Don't worry!
LaReina	haha. I take it you're first time wasn't so great, huh? everyone has a different experience..some people it was magical and perfect just like you see on t.v., other's...not so much. speaking personally, it wasn't bad..just awkward.. it's natural for it to be bad, and weird..you're doing something you've never done before! just remember that practice makes perfect! ; ) BUT always remember to be SAFE unless you want a baby. : D