Embarrasing question, but I have to ask it anyway....how much should you move when you're having sex?

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raeann682003	Dont need to worry abt moving to much or to little.. go with the rythm.. and it will all be good.. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

tk	Films will help you little bit Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Naomi	just move as fast as you feel comfortable but once you start doing it and get into it you most likely won't be thinking "am i moving to much?" just relax and enjoy your first time. If your worried and thinking to much about it you have the chance of getting awkward so just relax and do what feels right. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

jakieb	it's perfectly ok that ur a virgin. i personaly lost my virginity when i was 14. but who cares. if she really likes u and wants to help u she will guide u. if she's in it for the sex she will just dump u. when i lost my virginity my girl friend/ex helped me through it the whole time. it was a great and wonderful experiance. i hope it all works out. don't worry it'll all go the way it should. and don't be nervous it sadly is a turn off. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

*******	ok, first of all, make sure you guys are totally relaxed. Plus, beware of the fact that you might not last more than 30 seconds the first time. Sounds really funny, but try jerking off before you think you might do it, and try practicing lasting awhile. If she cares about you, she will be patient with you. As far as moving around, just do what feels good, not what you saw in a porno. your girlfriend should be telling you what she likes/doesn't like. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

friend	You know a lot of these people are going to be mean. Relax and go with it, she will help and it takes time to get comfortable with yourself. Do what feels good to you and her. Enjoy Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

wonder....	well do her Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Junglist	Hahahahah OMG! I'm so sorry I don't mean to laugh but it is pretty funny :) Don't worry about it hun! Take it slow she will understand. The first time is going to be awkward no matter what. Go as fast as you like for as long as you like. Just remember everything is gonna be okay! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Rick Flair	I lost my virginity when i was eight. To a pair of underwear. Happy humping! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Digit	The best thing you can do is be honest with her. Admit you have been a little shy to admit it, but that you are not very experienced. Tell her really want to learn and explore with her. She will appreciate that a lot more than clumsy and possibly painful attempts to pleasure her. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

raysmithson1	years ago there was a song ," work with me Anny," nuff said Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Fayaz	Listen dude...stop worrying and take it easy and as it comes to you since you mentioned she is your GF means you are love/commitment which would let your experience GF to take care of everything and help you out of any issue you may come across. Porn works but I would rather suggest to use your imagination, passion and the magic you have with your FF and take advantage of making love for the first time in life...feel it, live and make any or as much you move you need to make to reach your climax...yes but together. Wish you all the best. Oh! forgot tell you to be confident and happy with who you are. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Tammy G	I think you should watch a soft core porn movie just to get an idea of some moves...plus i think she might want you to be Gentle the first time you guys have sex anyway...but who knows. It will probably come naturally when you do it too! Don't worry have fun maybe she'll move you around!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Just Us	I'm not a man, but, I think it just comes natural. Sex is a natural thing and you'll be just fine. And, they say that you can only get better with practice! :) Good luck to you, you'll be fine! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

cristian n	well at first you got to have the conftable position. that means that you and your girl feel conftable. so at first you start kind of slow until you are conftable and then you start like going faster because is how your brain or something tells you. my advice is that just let the experience teach you the first time is great and you wanna do it again and again and again i did it like 5 times in the same day. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

footballgirl	Wow, I just read all the thoughtful, helpful answers! It is so nice to know people care so much!! Good luck to you! It will be fine, especially because you are so obviously a kind soul. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Kumar N	Hey, I was a really late bloomer. I didn't get it on until 25, though my gf and I were both new at it. If she's willing to have sex with you, she'll probably be quite patient the first few times. Trust me, it'll come naturally, because you'll do either whatever feels good to you, or whatever feels good to her. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

elenanita	Your body will tell you when it is time. There is no right or wrong amount of movement. She will probably let you know what she likes. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

prognosticator	Move a lot... as much as you want... and watch porn... seriously. I learned a lot that way. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

deadmanbro001	hump your bed. its not that hard. you just got to imagine it. and you shouldn't be worried there's a first time for everything. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

regular guy	22 isn't a late bloomer. wasn't there a movie called the 40 year old virgin? anyway, you move based on how you physically and mentally feel. just like dancing. you dance based on what feels right. so it is with having sex. the amount of movement is based on how it is making you feel. go with your feelings. not a plan or anything. good luck. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

natalie saporta.	I like how everyone's talking about "getting hard" first and "going in and out"... when Kelly is a girl name. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Rach	You know, watching porn to get an idea might not be a bad idea for you! Honestly, it all depends on what she's into or feeling, and what feels good to you. Sometimes it's fast and hard, sometimes slow and Gentle. Depends on the mood set! Good luck! ;) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

starryeyed	Honestly, don't worry about it. Just move so that it feels good for both of you. As long as it feels good, you're doing it right. just close your eyes and focus on that rather than how much you are or arent moving! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Jay D	It comes naturally at the time. wen ur a virgin it is all you worrry about, but when you get down to it it is very easy, make sure you and your partner discuss what is good as you go along and there will be no problems. Let her take control first time and before long you will be a regular joe love machine. I made that up but it sounds ACE! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

bardoll33	Just explore with your partner....learn each other....how to, "dance" together.....Honey, let the passion flow....I DARE YOU TO MOVE!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

sugar_plum522	BY THE WAY IF YOU HAVE WAITED THIS LONG KEEP WAITING,.WAIT TIL YOU GET MARRIED AND YOU WILL BE VERY PROUD OF YOURSELF CAUSE ONCE YOU LOOSE IT YOU CANT GET IT BACK. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Alex	Your question made me giggle a little! =) You know, we can't answer that for you. That is completely up to the two of you. You may want to move fast at times, and then slow at others. Do what feels right. Good luck with your first time! =) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

mad's	sex is not something you learn here on the computer cus no matter what advice you get , its not going to matter, ..I mean are you going to lay there having sex, thinking, ..oh well, "so and so" from yahoo answers said i should move like this...etc?? c'mon now! ..you do what feels right for you, and for him. Also, if you cant talk to the person your having sex with, as in your girlfriend, ...about this topic, then you perhaps are still not ready for sex. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

middnight_starr	There is no right or wrong amount of moving when you are haing sex....As long as she likes what you are doing, and you are trying to make her feel good as well as trying to make u feel good then you are doing it right! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Melanie	Just don't jack rabbit & move in & out really fast....that does nothing! Don't worry & try to enjoy it...she obviously won't be judging you or care that you are a virgin or she would've broken up with you when she found out. It must not matter that much...it wouldn't matter to me. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No