Honiss
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yes it hurts the first couple of times depending on his size. The chances of breakage is 50/50. You are going to wish that you saved that for your husband. When you find the man you want to be with for the rest of your life how awesome would it be to give that to him. I didnt and regret it. You are asking for regret and possibly trouble.
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thexfilez
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Wait another 2 years.
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Allergic To Idiocy
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It depends of everyone! Me it did hurt the first time and the couple times after, but the fact that my hymen wasn't broken didn't help. It depends if you wear tampons, and apparently if you do horse riding aswell, it could break your hymen and make it easier for the man to go in. But anyhow, it hurt for me. Not so much though, it was just like.. burning ish.
Chances of breaking a condom are very low. Unless you use baby oil, its going to dissolve! If you wanna use lubricant use a real one no oil or whatever else cause it dissolves your condom. I'm not on the pill either, I soon am 18, and I use the condom.
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Weary Widow
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It didn't hurt me.
But...Idk...
I hear it hurts a lot of girls their fisrt time.
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Jamie
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I am 20 and have never had sex. Which most people say is lame. I don't give a **** what they say.
But anyway I have heard that it does hurt sometimes because your body isn't use to having something go in it.
The condom does not usually break unless you are having anal sex. Then there is a MUCH higher chance of it breaking.
And no.. I do not think that you are just asking for trouble at all, but if you are not on the pill (which I am) and are planning to have sex soon you should probably consider it. But if you do go on the pill wait four weeks before having sexual intercourse!
Hope I helped
And I hope your first time is good!
But if you do not go on the pill USE A CONDOM! And for it to not hurt as much or at all use a for on lubrication!
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Shane O
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yea it could hurt especially if they guy is big
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Melissa
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I don't remember it hurting. Maybe just a little. We took it slow though and didn't rush it. It wasn't good by any means though. That comes with practice. I didn't have an issue with bleeding or anything. It will help if you use some lube like KY Jelly.
Definitely get on the pill. Just to be safe (and protect from STD's) you might want to use a condom as well. I've been in multiple situations where the condom has broken and it's always good to have a back-up form of birth control. It breaks easier if you get too dry.
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Mrs. S
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every girl is different. Some hurt and some don't... I didn't... use a condom every time as long as it's being used right, its effective, to be sure you don't get pregnant you can try using one with spermicide or use a separate spermicide...
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Nick-Nack
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First off, your to young. Second of all,it stings for a little bit but then you get over it. That's when the sick twisted pleasure begins. A broken condomn is one very rare thing to happen. You should check it before you start and then frequently check during. Just to make sure. Good Luck!
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Shareef A
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4 a woman yes.
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VampireObsessions
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For most yes, at least the first couple of times....it goes from a little pain, to discomfort, but it doesn't last all that long. There is always a possibility that any form of birth control may fail, that is why the wise choice to make is to have sex when you are completely capable to take everything in emotionally. The ultimate reason for sex is, after all, to have children. Dont want to scare you, but just make sure you are making the right decision, and dont forget that love really does play a big part in your decision. Condoms dont usually break if worn right, but its impossible to be certain.
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yes
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R
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For some women it hurts, but for others it doesn't.
And if your going to have sex, be put on birth control and use a condom, just in case.
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AK
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I hope not. =[
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Snooks
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yes. Breaking a condom is very easy to do. They are thin, can get old, some guys wear the wrong size, etc. Best to get on the pill if you are thinking about having sex because if the condom breaks, you can get pregnant and the chances are high that it will happen at least once.
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ashley
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if a female has not previously lost her hymen it can be painful having sex for the first time, but it subsides.
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gummi bear
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It doesnt necessarly hurt the first time, for some people it does for others it doesnt. There is a low chance that the condom will break, but it is possible.
Being 16 and not being on the pill isnt asking for trouble unless you have sex (which from your question I assume ou havent yet) and if you have unprotected sex. Although if you are planning on having sex I would suggest that you go on the pill and still use a condom because its better to be safe than sorry and two ways on protecting yourself is always better than one...
and dont forget only have sex if you, yourself are truly ready and dont do it for any other reason, esp. not because a guy wants you to even though you arent ready
also be safe
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sexylady is here
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Yes it does hurt for the first time and there are chances of condoms breaking coz it happened to me once.
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Delanogirl
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When i had sex the first it hurt. But as you keep having sex it does feel good anymore. If it hurts i think its a good thing because then it feels good and you may have a orgasm. Whatever really an orgasm is.
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john h
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If you are making love for the first time you want to be somewhere where you are totally relaxed, take plenty of time with foreplay, with your partner using his fingers or and his tongue,so that you are totally aroused, use KY jelly for lubrication and make sure he uses a condom with an anti spermicide gel on it.
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Alicia O
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Why would you want to have sex? You are 16, it is not worth the risk. Besides, just think how your future husband will feel knowing that you have been with someone else.
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pink_is_metal
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Yep :)
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photogirl
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it is more like an uncomfortable feeling than a pain. but after the first 7-10 seconds its great.
Condoms don't break that often. I'm 34 and in my expirence i say only 3 broke, very very very scary, but no children, and thankfully never anything to need a doc. over.
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gypsyveg
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So you don't believe every girl?
The first time can be painful when the hymen breaks upon penetration. There can also be some blood. Not all girls bleed and not all have pain. I never bled but there was a lot of pain.
Relaxing, foreplay, (oral sex, more foreplay – touching, kissing, etc) being fully aroused or better yet, you having an orgasm FIRST or using a lubricant like KY-Jelly or Astro-Glide can help.
There is always a chance a condom will break.
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anna!
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it does hurt and sometimes the condom does break, but you wont know until after the deed. you are asking for trouble. wait til you are older because the last thing you want at 16 is an std and baby on the way
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Airee
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Well, I'm a virgin too, but a lot of my friends are sexually active.
A lot of them said that it hurts the first coupple of times, but then it starts to feel good. Some says it doesn't really hurt, and it feels good for the first time. So, I dunno. I guess it depends on the person.
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flower
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Well yes sex does hrut the first time belive me and you should always be on the pill when u are ready 2 have sex cause u never know wat will happen
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how is babby formed
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For some women, sex hurts the first time. For some, it doesn't. My hymen broke before I ever had sex, so for me, it didn't really hurt the first time. I don't know what the chances are of the condom breaking, but I do know that if you use proper lubrication (like Astroglide), the condom is less likely to break. And don't worry about not being on the pill. Just use a condom and plenty of lube and you'll be fine.
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pamelacaraway
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it hurts as bad as cramps
but it's okay after the first minute
and forget the people saying dont have sex
that wasn't your question anyway
no one can tell you when you're ready
and if you think you're ready then do so
but i suggest to use a condom WITH lube
it goes in easier and less of a chance of ripping
but make sure to check every few minutes the first twenty
when doing it
JUST TO BE SAFE
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3mo-Furby
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Definetly!
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Mike
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girls told me the front doesnt bother them, but the back does if you dont lube. haha
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