Does My Boyfriend Masterbate?

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foot_liquor	Duh. If he's under 40 and you are not living together, chances are yes. And to answer your next question, he doesn't always think of you. In fact, you may be too "pristine" for that part of his life. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Alfredo E	I guess you are young and naïve….. If you ask the question to a young man, there is a possibility that he´ll be ashamed and negate it. If you ask an older gay, probably you may be closer to the truth: all men do it, if they are healthy. By the way, most women don’t do it. They don’t need to, because they have a more passive sex drive. Nevertheless, they should do it. in order to learn how their body works. Otherwise, many don’t know anything about sex except being passive, and that is not a sexual partner. They will always be unsatisfied. If you know what I mean…. Alfredo E. www.omega-3-fish-oil-wonders.com P.S. See my page: sex-omega-3 at www.omega-3-fish-oil-wonders.com Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

harley w	haven't met a man that hasn't Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

catchup	he could and it is normal. would u want him to wonder if you do? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Animal Lover	Almost all guys do it, so yeah most likely lmfao. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Jack	Probably. And there is nothing wrong with that. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

kas	yes he does Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

broken_fantasys	Well, have you ever gone to his house? Are their nasty white stains on his wall? Does he have weird looking holes in his wall? does he have a high pitched voice? are his hands big? Does he have hands? Most guys masterbate.. maybe look at his penis and see if its purple. hah. or just...ask him? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

masshg3	He probably does... don't worry about it... All guys (and girls, yes!) do it too. It doesn't mean he likes you any less or he's thinking about cheating on you, etc. It's just normal.... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

clayton_bigsby04	yeah he does...but so wht..tht dont mean u dont love u....he just needs to express his feelings for u in other ways..lol..im sure hes thinking of u while he is doing it.... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

sweetness #1	you should just ask him. but my best guess is that he most likely does. i think all guys do....wouldn't you if you had one of those things to play with ????? but don't freak out.....it is a normal behavior for a guy to masterbate........my question to you is do you masterbate????? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

roast_breadfruit	ALL men do. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Geo	No way to tell. You will have to ask him what his private solo sex habits are. Most likely he does and it doesn't mean he loves you less. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

junglemonica@sbcglobal.net	Most people do after reaching puberty. It's perfectly normal and even healthy for guys especially because it keeps the system clear, so to speak. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

brenkenlyn	yes ur bf masterbates and so does everyone else regardless if ur married or not. if a girl or guy says no they've never done that, then they're lying. it's natural and everybody does it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Yomi	Why are you so curious about is. Yes it is natural for girls and boys both. (Men and women too) It is part of human instict and one of the necessities of life. That doesn't mean that people don't restrain themselves, but at some point, before they thought there was anything wrong with it, they all did it. Even if it was as children that didn't understand what they were doing or why it felt funny or good. Hope this gives you some insight. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Yahooligan	There is no way to tell unless you give us more specific info. What makes you suspect that he masturbate in the first place? Well, he probably does simply because the vast majority of men do masturbate. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

instructnut	Locke has it right. Boys and Girls begin touching themselves when they are toddlers or earlier. Everything is about exploration then, it feels good and they haven't any idea about 'sex' or 'shame'. As they get just a little older they are socialized and begin to learn about 'private parts' and good touching and bad touching. Shame begins to be associated with certain parts of the body (which is, itself, a shame!). By the time our kids are old enough to have some really in-depth discussions about sex and consequences, emotions, love etc. they are too embarassed to meet our eyes when we say the word SEX. At the same time their brains have been programmed to shame, their bodies are starting to open the flood gates to hormones and major changes are taking place at a rate they haven't experienced since they were toddlers. Boys masterbate whether they choose to or not. Their bodies will betray them during sleep, in school (thank goodness for textbooks!), even (as my husband says) a stiff breeze can get a tween or teenager going. Girls have a little more choice, of the friends I have had the conversation with about half have said they have or do. I have heard many therapists (regular therapists, not sex therapists) recommend it to women as stress relief or to improve sex with their partner. The idea being if a woman figures out what pleases her she can communicate that during love-making with her partner etc. I had to laugh when I read the answer that said if your boyfriend was between 16 and 20... honey it goes on LONG after that. Even the answer that said something about a guy 'under 40' or close to that... LOL wrong again I am sure that there are men who have lower sex drives, or whose sex drives slow down as they age, but let me assure you that I know many healthy, happy, active, and sexually active men and women up to twice that age... yes, that means 80. I don't know that they self-serve but I wouldn't rule it out based on age. I, myself, am 40, my husband is older than me - our parents are healthy seniors. I don't know about their sex lives, except for the occasional joke or tush pinch between a Dad & Mom, but if I had to bet I'd say they are still locking the bedroom door. Heaven knows I plan on being that healthy and active when I am in my 70's and 80's too! So, does your boyfriend? Yup. Do you? If not, you probably will eventually. =) Jen Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Jcord29	I would venture to say yes to this one. Masturbation is a completely natural thing to do. By no means is it an indication that you are not satisfying him, so never think that. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

chickenhawk	they all do why don't you Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Georgie	the best way to find out is to ask him!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Okaki	every guy masterbates Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

fisikaellinida	I would ask:When my boyfriend masturbates does he think of me?Tht's the right question. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

emnari	he's a boy ... yes he masturbates .. they all do and they are liars if they say they don't. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Locke	Yes, your boyfriend masturbates. Masturbation is a very confusing thing to young men and women. The young men worry about whether or not they are doing something wrong, and young women(and many considerably older ones as well) are often not aware that almost all men masturbate. Masturbation is a healthy practice for men at any age from puberty until they can no longer perform the act. Masturbation and orgasms are a completely different experience for men and for women. Men are required to ejaculate. Lack of masturbation in men is quite unhealthy and can lead to many health problems. Even without masturbation or sex, men will eventually ejaculate in their sleep. Men can be even more sensitive about masturbation than some women are about their period. Some women understand masturbation to even this point and are often confused when they find that their boyfriends are masturbating even when the couple is constantly sexually active. Masturbation is not only needed as sexual satisfaction. It is needed in itself for psychological reasons. Men often use mastubation very casually (although secretly) in order to relieve stress or feel relaxed. It also has an effect on a male ego. There are many reasons why male masturbation is healthy, but as a young woman looking for an answer, please understand that it is healthy and him masturbating even if you two are sexually active has ABSOLUTELY nothing to do with dissatisfaction with you. Masturbation is much different with females. Although it is not physically needed, masturbation and self induced orgasms is very SEXUALLY healthy for women from the age that they gain sexual desire and interest. There is nothing wrong with it. It is not a sin of any kind and it does not make you a slut. Exploring your own body will bring confidence to you and also develope a sort of self-lust which will add even more to your confidence in and out of sexual situations and can often help you make correct sexual choices because of that confidence. The internet has much more detailed information than you might find here at yahoo. Much of this information I got from my own female friends and my wife. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

XXXDirtyDirtyGirlXXX	yes, he does. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

nimo22	Um, we really have no way of knowing. But most likely, he does. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Jackie D	well it depends how old he is. if he is around 16-20 yes he probably does but if he is older most likely you are the only one who gives him sexual pleasure. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

BJ	most likely.........yes but that is normal Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

hearts_on_fire	is he alive? does he have a penis? if you answered 'yes' to the two previous questions, then congratulations!!! you are dating someone that masterbates. good for you! keep up the good work! lol, just kidding. but honestly, EVERY man masterbates. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Raul D	dose he have hands. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No