Caught in the act by stepmom?

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John L	She's mad at you now because you lied to her. Before she was dissappointed in your lack of judgement. I know she's not your real mother, but obviously you and she care deeply for each other, otherwise this whole situation wouldn't be bothering you would it? As for the doctor, well thats obvious. One more thing, as a man, who was once 18, your bf was only looking for sex. He didn't care about you at all. I would stay clear of him before you really wreck his life....in the form of statutory rape charges, and those charges can be as bad for you as they are for him...all that public scrutiny. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Your A DWARF ON STILTS!!!	well,not completely, all you need to do is be patient and gain her trust again. it will take time. be goood and find ways to gain her trust again :) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

candy	listening to Crewmb85 will prob get u killed- If she cares for u she'll be mad- but if you want her to treat u like an adult you have to take the responsibility that comes with it!! If u make a promise- keep it. and if ur bf is a sweet talker, be aware of how and when he does it and learn to say 'no' Earning her trust back will be hard- but keep at it- when she sees u mean what yousaid!!! she'll trust you again!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

ash	Pretty much, yeah. You shouldn't just assume what you're mom's gonna do. Moms are crafty & they def. know what's up. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

supersillysmarty	I'm sorry. I would probably just die if my mom caught me. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

cinnamon	trust is earned, you have lost her trust . However it can be re - earned eventually. Go to the dr. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

bookworm1410	i would say so... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

munro5112	You are being used. You have the one greatest gift we men will never have. A body that makes new human life come alive and guarantee a future to our world. Think of the future - you body has been uses as a receptical for males to discharge their seed in their pleasure to have sex. Is that a place you would like your children know where they come from?? They (the boys) have made no commitment to you but just talked you into being "the other half" of a sex act. My wife and I were virgins when we married 32 years ago. I can be 90% certain our three daughters were also virgins to their husbands (I can never be definate as to ask them would be an invasion of their privacy). Stop now before you are stuck as a single mother. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

monkeyballsmaster	Yes you did, your at fault and so is your idiot boyfriend. Take hte conciqueses. Thats all you can do. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

HeavenlyRa	You blew it by being really stupid. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Jennifer	Warning. If you two decide to do this again AFTER he turns 18, he may find himself in jail very quickly. Yes, you did blow it with your step-mom. You lied to her, broke a promise, and did something you knew was wrong. The only way out is to walk the straight and narrow line. Do what you should when you should. Consider this a wake-up call. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

cope_acetic	Sorry, but yes---you blew it really big. I would never trust you again either. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

miri-miri-off-the-wall	You blew it so bad, you should have been a tornado! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Fire's Shaddow	yeah you blew it, the only good thing about this is she cares enough about you that she is mad. Take this as a lesson you will always get caught evintually usually at the worst possible moment. Wait til you graduate to have sex you dont want a baby while you are still in HS, and it can happen to you, you got caught didnt you? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

babygirl83128	well I'm not really sure of the question but you shouldn't of did it again especially in her home. and of coarse you bf asked to do in one more time because hes a guy, he should of just understood that you couldn't do anymore. you mother has all the reason to be mad. you are going to have to try to win her trust back for you, not really sure how to do that but just try. and also try talking to her more...moms like that Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

catfizh2001	you are risking too much over nothing. Sex can wait a baby can not. If he dont marry you then dont have sex with him cause as soon as you become pregnant he will not stick around and you will be left holding the bag. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Phill Lee	Yes. If you do the crime, be willing to face the time. It's the adult thing to do. Face your consequences. This alone will prove you are remorseful. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

♥Shortstuff ♥	You blew it big time & now you can't be trusted. You seem to have no respect for yourself or your step mom & that's a real shame. You've got a huge job ahead of you, when it comes to the trust & respect issues. Start using your head & stay out of negative situations, especially with your b/f. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Jessie lynn	No not really... Shes just looking out for you because of how old you are and the age of your boyfriend. She's worried about you and im sure she will get over it. All your ganna have to do is just work on getting her trust back. Talk to her about what happened and tell her how you feel. Tho Just because of the age you are and that you have a boyfriend doesnt mean you have to have sex. You should love the person and think carefully about what your doing and use protection because things could happen and im sure she doesnt want a 16 year old pregnant Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Marie	yes u blew it........go to gyn, dont argue abt it.. u are 2 young to be having sex...the mental repercussions are staggering. plus could you imagine having ababy?????? for someone at your age its like prison 24/7/365 Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

k a r ii n a :]]	yea u did....... ur probably going to have to work on her trusting you again it may take a while but ull get it back sooner or later Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

mlgable	Yes you blew it and you could get your boyfriend in jail. Sex with minor is illegal. If she decides to prosecute him he will go to prison for sexual assult of a minor and have to be listed as a registered sex offender for the rest of his life. Your step mom has good reason not to trust you as first you skipped school by faking being sick and you had sex when you were told specifically not to. If you are not on birth control pills you could be pregnant even if you used a condom. Since you are sexually active you need to be tested for STD's and get a yearly pap smear and pelvic exam from now on. You best bet would be to do lots of chores at home without being asked and to let your stepmom know where you are at all times. There is not much other advice I can offer you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Shayes Momma	Yup you did blow it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

redhottx0x	wow the biggest problem to me is that your boyfriend had to TALK you into having sex. Don't do it to please him. In fact don't live your life to please anyone else but yourself. It's not selfish. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

samuelj13	Sure did. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

luvettes91	yes you did im not gonna sugar coat it for you Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Jody	Yup. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Beausmom	Yep, you blew it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

somethingtrinity	Yes, you blew it. When you get older you will understand how she feels better. She is trying to protect you and keep you safe. I think it is a good idea to have someone home with you all the time, then you won't be so tempted. Listen to her as she really does know what is best for you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Nana Callie loves to sing	yeah pretty much! sounds like your boyfriend doesnt care and only is in it for sex not a good influence Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Jamie-lyn V	yeah sweetie you did and trust is a hard thing to earn back. Sit down with her and talk to her about it. Let her know you were sorry for disrespecting her and lying to her and try to have an open and honest relationship with her. She can't be and forever but she is probably hurt that you lied to her and very disappointed in you. Try to behave and be honest she may still be upset with you at times for being honest but she will be able to trust you, and by all means if your boyfriend doesn't respect your wishes when it comes to sex and the choices you have made he never will and there will always be one more time. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No