sandy k
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not if he loves u
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i hope this is a hypothetical question and you don't truly have breast cancer but i will answer as though you do and are trying to make a decision to have your breast removed and possibly losing your mate. a man that truly loves you and wants the best for you and your body would definately want to accompany you to doctor appointments and be there for you all other times with love and sympathy as well as cheering you up. being there would consist of supporting your decision to have your breast removed, if after a second and possibly a third opinion from numerous doctors saying that it's the best thing to do in your stage of cancer. what makes a woman isn't breasts, it's what's inside. if your man is so superficial he should not be with you. although it 's a hard decision to make whether to keep a breast or not don't add to the heartache by assuming what your man will think. just ask him. if he truly wants what 's best for you he will stand behind you instead of walking away. give your man credit...not all men are shallow. first you need to find the strength within. men usually leave because they are usually stuck with a majority of the burden and can't handle it. if you do need a breast removed, get counciling for you and he and all famliy members involved. kids get scared and need to know what's going on, too. kids can't be left out and not included so please consider that as well. i'm sure you will be fine. also, alot of women go through a mastectomy and never follow up with mammograms and other treatments for the other breast and later find out it has matastisezed or spread. don't make tha t mistake either. breast cancer runs in the family, tell sisters, aunts, and all other female members of the family to get screenings as well. good luck and god bless.
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sous_lepontmirabeau
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Many probably are, but if it's someone you've been with for a long time, like your husband, I doubt it would matter.
Many women who have lost one or both breasts due to breast cancer opt for breast augmentation. You should look into it.
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CJ O
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They may, but that isn't as serious as loosing your life. I have lost a breast and got a new lover. And cheated on him, and again ;-) so I broke up and had another one. Then I had my reconstruction done and found the love of my life, who didn´t even notice it was reconstructed, at first. So don´t worry about them, take care of yourself first!
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needsum
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I dont know why you ask this question but ive got your answer. My wife has lost both her breasts and i am still as attracted to her as i ever was. If someone isnt attracted its because they have only themselfs to please and that means they dont really count. Hope that this will help you.
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Whatcha Doin???
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Well, are women turned off if men had only one testical? It goes both ways, No one is perfect in this world, I live by the Golden Rule! TREAT OTHERS AS YOU WOULD WANT TO BE TREATED!!!
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bowhunter2006
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personally, i think a man should love a woman even if she has only one breast due to cancer. it's not whats on the outside that matters, it's what she has on the inside that counts the most. let this be something to all you men to think about.
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Yea, if hes a real ***. Like most of them are.
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RY
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No, not a real man.
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becca_2
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lets face it... some guys are more about looks then feelings and it would bother some. And others are more for feelings so they are just happy they know you and it wont bother them. It just depends on the guy. and if they guy is that superficial then he isnt worth ur time.
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sherry c
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I think for a man that is not personally connected to a survivor, the answer would be yes. Which I hate to say. But I have a friend that lost both her breasts and she said her husband was great. It never bothered him. He loves her so much that he is just happy she survived. She has been due to go in for her reconstruction, but it really is not an issue because she has gotten such support from mainly her husband. I feel that I would likely want the reconstruction for myself, whether my husband had a preference or not. I really think my husband would be supportive though. It is kinda like when you put on a few pounds...anytime I have gained weight, my husband hasn't wanted me less, but I wanted to lose the weight for myself. I hope this helps you. I think if we are talking about you..then if the man you are with is turned off, then he is not the man for you..you deserve better. but chances are he will love and want you just the same. He will likely want to make sure you don't feel neglected and you will be having awesome sex...good luck!!
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sewshawn
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If you are meeting a new man, then yes, he probably would. BUT, if you meet a new man and get to know HIM and he you...then the subject is bound to come up.
Now if you are in a committed relationship, while it is not an attractive scar, most men would not care. I like to give men the benefit of the doubt and say not ALL men are clods and I am sure you could find one that is sensitive to this topic.
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love911
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A real man would accept you for who you are. He would see the determination and strength that you had to go through such a ordeal.
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rickey w
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not to some but then you have others. i just thank god to still get to talk with you
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sanam
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If the man has love as a prime one with her, he should not feel for it. He should give her more love to comfort her from that loss of breast.
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Sager
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Some one worth while won't care.
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Juliet
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Hes shouldnt if he loves her then it shouldnt matter at all because he has to understand that it wasnt something she wanted for herself. He should be happy and proud of her for beating the battle against cancer and Thank God that she is still around!!!
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Julee
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I wish i knew.My sister died in 1997 of breast cancer and she was only 49.Her 8th husband told her if she were to get a mastectomy,she wouldn't be a woman.So she did the radiation and chemo and died anyway.The day of the funeral her husband left the state with another man.
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melo M
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Not a REAL man. And certainly not the Right man for a Survivor.
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princess angel 2207
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not if he loves u
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Erika
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Oh, that'd be a shame. It may take both of you quite some adjusting to but, I believe if you find the right man who wants to be with you always, he'll love you regardless and will support you.
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to all the men who are sayin 'yes' wat if u had ur balls cut off ??? do u want ur gurl to leave u ??? thank u
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Leito
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If he were a real man he would love the woman even more for being so corageous, and surviving the battle of cancer. That doesnt make someone any less of a woman. I think men should be in it for so much more then that.
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Ahdunno
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Nope
even if both are missing
it's still the SAME person
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popgoestheweasel
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IF A MAN TURNS OFF TO THAT, HE IS NOT A REAL MAN
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Smarter thn I look........
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Only a person that is simple and lacks compassion for uncontrollable issues would have a problem with such.
Much prays to whom ever………..
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john john
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no.
if he loves her,
he's thankful she's still around.!
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I would consider a man like that very "SHALLOW".
A woman is a woman as long as she still has a heart.
Looks and missing body parts have absolutely nothing to do with love.
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uncle billy
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NO! not at all, it takes more than boobs to make a woman.
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Morphious
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NOPE... Nothing at all. She's a woman after all. Maybe you need a bit of reality.... Would any woman be turned off if you had one ball because of cancer?
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Yummy Mummy
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Any man who is turned off by that is no man at all.
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