
paganmom
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Even if you don't have a hymen, you are still a virgin if you have not had sex.
A hymen is not always an indication of virginity, some women lose their hymen from things other then sex.
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MommytoThree
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Until you have intercourse you are still a virgin. Hymens can break for many reasons other than intercourse. Here is a very useful website.
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RIckW
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You may have broke it doing a physical activity when you were younger. And if he is inserting fingers or objects I doubt it's intact either. Go to the doctor, and tell him exactly what you posted her. Trust me they heard much worse than this. Everything said and done in the doctor's office is completely confidential. Website wise check out webMD.
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love
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Really its not a big because many girls doesn't have sexual relation and they are not virgin they took birth like that so if you didn't have sexual relation no worries don't be scare about it dear hope you will be agree with me
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You could check Planned Parenthood's website: http://plannedparenthood.org/ They are a helpful organization and they have some phone numbers that may prove useful to you.
By the way, your hymen can break doing normal, everyday activities, not just because of sex. If you are active in sports (like soccer or something) your hymen might already be broken. Also, if you are in a severe accident, sometimes that can break your hymen depending on the accident and where you got injured as well.
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kcadonis25m
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Don't worry much about the hymen. Some woman break it doing normal day to day activity. A guy who believes that an intact hymen is a symbol of virginity is a complete idiot. Some women don't even have a sealed hymen and they never have a hymen rupture during their first intercourse. If your so much concerned about the hymen thing and if your's is not intact, you can get hymenoplasty done.
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joniboni
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This is a very important and sensitive subject for you. Because it is tied into your religious beliefs. I think you should look for professional women of your same belief to talk about this. I am sure you are not the first woman with this concern.
I gave you a few sites below to read about your body but it is more important to have clarity with your husband to be that it is from someone you don't know.
Hope this gives you some insight.
Good Luck.
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Aaron D
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sometimes fingers can break the hymen and other impacts or injuries in some cases
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iheartaaron4life
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Not to sound crass, but if nothing has been put up there then your hymen is still intact.
If by some chance, it did break, you would know when it happened. Theres pain & it bleeds.
Gynecologists I'm sure have heard every question there is to hear about what goes on down there, so don't worry about asking yours about this. It might not be the first times someones asked them.
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mcrjunkieee
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i think you are still a virgin.just talk to your doctor. doctors go through those kind of questions all the time so it wont be awkward
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chiken pollo
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no
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josh
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ok you can loose your hymen without having actual sex so if that isnt there and you honestly have never had it dont worry many thing cause it to go away in modern life. and you dont have to stop what you and your boyfriend you. are a virgin simply as long a penis stays out of your vagina. do whatever else you want.
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SONY : Sheldon Yeung
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yes you still are as long as you have not had you kow majour intercourse involving fertilization
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diannaleigh85
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ask him straight up. and you can break it by running so just go in and ask him and he'll check
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Joel H
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Tell him the exact same thing you told all of us here...the doctor will help you. You were persis in your question.
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french_poodle_25
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Just because your hymen is not intact,doesn't mean your not a virgin,sometimes a hymen can be broken from using tampons and maybe sex toys,Some people believe that oral sex isn't really sex,as long as he hasn't penetrated you then your fine.
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odandme
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You know, if your hymen completely covered the opening of your vagina it would be impossible to have a period. If you've never had penetration then you're still technically a virgin.
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Marillita
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First of all, any religion requires you to be pure at time of marriage, intercourse, is a big no no in christian religions. but fooling around with your boytoy is just as bad because you are lusting. You need to stop and repent to god for your sins.
Intact hymen or not, if you have not had intercourse in your life then you are still a "virgin".
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princess1226
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okay untill you have actual intercourse meaning the penis goes inside your vagina you ARE a virgin. some women don't even have a hymen!!!! alot of women are born without one , or they can break from a tampon, falling on a bike etc. you don't need to stop what your doing. if your religion is to not have intercourse until marriage then just don't have intercourse. but please don't worry about the hymen. some women have it some don't. even if you do have one and it gets broken it doesn't mean you not a virgin anymore :)
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Shannon W
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Just tell your doctor that you would like to know if he could check you out to make sure your Hymen is still intact because when you was a young girl you fell and hit your pelvic bone and spotted blood and you've never had sex. He will surely check you out.
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rebeccamillermarcus
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You're still a virgin as long as there has been no penetration.
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apocalypso
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You're a virgin if a penis has never entered into your vagina. The hymen can break from non sexually related acts (like riding a bicycle) so it doesn't need to be intact for you to be considered a virgin.
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browneyedbeauty
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yes . you are . dont worry this has nothing to do with virginity. you are officialy not a virgin only if a man;s penis enters your vaginal opening while having an erection. talk to your gyno. it will be okay
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Dan H
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The hymen can break for a number of reasons. Physical activity, horseback riding, tampons, masturbation, etc.
You can be a virgin and not have an intact hymen.
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the_fire_dog
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ok Web site WEBMD , but legally if his penis broke the plane of your body and entered you even a little bit your no longer a virgin
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deemee
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Your hymen has nothing to do with virginity. If his penis penetrates your outer labia, you are not a virgin. If it has not, then you still are.
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Jim J
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Virginity has nothing to do with the hymen. A virgin has not had intercourse. Hymen or no hymen.
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Ms. Rather Unique™
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The breaking of your hymen does not determine whether you are a virgin or not because you can break your hymen many other ways besides engaging in sexual intercourse.
The only way you can break your virginity is if his penis was inserted in your vagina lol.
And your religion not allowing sex before marriage is not silly, that goes for all religions I believe. I'm guessing your Muslim because your name is Salma? Sorry if im wrong. But really, just be careful and always remember God is watching you! :)
Hope I helped hun! =]
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Dr. Inright
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Very simple: dick in pùssy--> not a virgin anymore
No dick ever in pùssy--> still a virgin
Hymen ain't got a thing to do with it. What counts if you've been entered by willie the one eyed wonder worm!
It is also sad your "religion" requires you to be a virgin to marry. Most guys in the states like to try on the shoes before buying them.....
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i<3cuteguys!!!
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ur a virgin unless the train enters into the tunnel
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Morgan
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look i completely understand your problem heres what you need to do you need to talk to your doctor just be open about it they will completly understand and if you've never had intercourse than yes you are still a virgin as long as you did not have intercourse. but don't be shy about asking your doctor thats what they are there for all they want to do is help you so just be open about it with them
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