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kureeus1	Before I answer your question I want to state this; "In the end we all have to make our own decisions!!!" First of all, I think if you've been pushing him away maybe you yourself are not completely ready. Next, you should never feel like you have to because you feel bad. When the time is right it will be natural and you won't have second thoughts. Don't worry about what your friends are doing; they are not you. Lastly, if your bf really cares about you he will wait until you are fully ready to take that step. Always enjoy yourself no matter what you choose to do! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

bocasbeachbum	Do it because YOU want to not because your bf wants to or your peers have. Once you get it out of the way you can decide if it is a special thing to do or just something that is fun at any time. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Meep	If you think you are too young and are unsure if you really want to, THEN DONT. You clearly arent ready. Just because "everyone else is doing it" doesnt mean you have to. Take some time to think about it, and its many consquences and decide if its what you really want. And if he pressures you about sex, dump him. His mind isnt on you, its on your body. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Allison	If you feel bad about it, you should NOT do it... you are way to young and you have your whole life ahead of you and you will have plenty of chances to have sex... I promise, if you do have sex and you are not ready, you will regret it when you get older... trust me on this one! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Shon	This is coming from a fellow older teen who has more experience than you. DONT do it! You are too young and not ready even though you THINK you are. Wait a few years honey. Chances are you to wont be together long after it happens anyway. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Exitwound	If you feel bad, don't do it. Tell him to go pleasure himself, at that age it doesn't take much. If you do, have him wear protection. Be patient. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

McCrazy	i suggest u wait, because sex is not something to play with, there are consequences to your actions. take it slow and if your bf does not understand then he's not worth u risking your virginity for. if u tell him that ur not ready he should understand. take things slow, you are too young for sex. Be mature and understand u are too young. Good luck! :) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Star Bright	This is something you only get one chance at, losing your virginity is a very special thing and should not be rushed. It should be with someone you want it to happen with, who you love and respect and they have the same feelings for you. This guy doesn't care about you honey, if he did he would respect your wishes and wait until your ready. Don't make a huge mistake you may regret for the rest of your life. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

chika	I think you should not do it. I feel that deep inside you are not ready yet because you feel bad about it. it is an important matter and you should really consider thinking and talking about it with your parents or other siblings or any guardian. no reason to rush things through. he should understand if you are not ready yet. don't do it bec other friends had done it or bec he wants to. takecare of yourself. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Mount Zoomer.	uhm...DUH!!! hers a big clue... if you have to ask.. your not ready... about 3 of my friends are doing it too. just because your friends are doing it... YOU dont have too... trust me on this.. i wish i could talk to you in person...besides the whole "stay safe" crap...you may feel ready physically but emotionally...(i know its hard to believe ) your not... you are too young.. i know thats hard to suck in... its VERY VERY VERY tough and hard to remain pure in this world.. (not so much that church/christain crap) later in life or when your 17/19.. youll be SO SO SO thankful and more appreciative of your self...so will your husband/bf... hold your head up high, hold your morals....i KNOW its hard...i went through this too. but you will have more RESPECT, KNOWLEGE, and be better,smarter, braver than you friends who obiluolsly arnt making good choices. your bf's p[ressure too much? try doing other things or move on... DO NOT DO ABSOULUTLEY NOT make him pressure you into sex. oral and stuff is OKAY, but stds and stuff its BAD but wayy better than sex... just trust me on this one... if you do make this chioce..be safe...and be careful because kids might call you s;ut, or other names along that line.....PLEASE do not go through with this.... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

VoTe Huckabee!!	No way he doesn't really like u at all if he wants to have sex. It won't make Ur relationship better it will be ruined. And you'll also get a reputation as "easy" and you'll always be used just for sex then the guy will breakup with you. Plus you could get pregnant. Wait until ur married. I've heard to many bad stories about this kinda thing. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

alex f	no you should wait because what if you do it to early and you get preagnant so the you'll be 14 and preagnant with no job and your bf will probably leave you so just to be safe my reply is no Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

mexinena	No i think you should wait your too young. If he really likes/loves you he would wait until it's the right time. You both are virgins, so there could be a chance that you could get pregnant...if you do your future would be ruined. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

ohhello	if you have to ask a bunch of random people you dont know if you should have sex, you shouldnt. you should be content in when you give up your virginity. make the right choice and if you chose to.. be safe Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

LiarLiarPantiesOnFire	Obviously you'll do what you want to do and what you think is right, but in my opinion you are a little too young. You're body is still trying to develop. Are you sure you're really ready? I would think you're really not if you're asking for advice in here. Don't let your boyfriend push you into it. Do it ONLY when you are truly ready. Tell him to take a cold shower and he will be just fine. :) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

robert v	dont be so dumb. you'll regret having sex later.do you know how many people under 18 plan to have sex and they turn out to be pregnant.your too young to have sex.trust me Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

littlewhiispers	First off, you should never feel bad denying your bf! It's fully your decision if you want to or not. Why would you want to feel pressured your first time? Second, just keep in mind the consequences of it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Diamond Y	Oh My Goodness. Child please don't do that! Don't be one of the billion of people who start having sex at that young of an age! Be an individual! If you do have sex he might be happy that he had the experience and leave and go test the waters. I learned that if he really cares about you then make him wait! If he said I'm gone then keep looking for a better person. But if anything don't do anything because how would you feel having a baby at 14? I had one at 17 and please believe its not easy to do school and work and take care of a child! Wait as long as u can because there are still some days where i wish that I could have just waited! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

baja QT	I feel 14 is to young, you have a full life ahead of you and maybe someone that means more to you to share sex the first time with, you need birth control and you need to talk to your parent's this may sound weird but they are your best friends. Do it when the time is right. grow up some and read and research your own body first. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

alianna_hodiya	Dont have sex JUST because Everyone is doing it. Make sure you know the responsiblities that come with sex, ie use protection. and yes If you are ready have sex. dont do just because other people are forcing you to. do it when your ready or allowed to do it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

tout petite	Gabby, You obviously are not ready for sex you proved this by stating that "everytime he tries it i push him away..." What you are feeling is pressure from your boyfriend combined with a few sexual urges. Be wise and don't do it. Maybe right now you won't regret it. But, years from now when you find the right guy you will. Just wait... Good luck. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Hello!!!	If you feel ready,its your decision but if you do decide to do it then make sure to use protection Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Heather	If you really think your ready, then do it, I personally dont think its a good idea... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Little Softy	At the age of 14, as much as you think you feel older, you are not quite ready to deal with the emotional reprecussions of having sex. To the females, sex is not just something you do. It is more emotional than you might think. Even as an adult it can complicate things. And have you considered birth control? Or even sexually transmitted diseases?? I would think long and hard before making such a big decision like that. If you need someone to talk to, just message me... I'll be happy to chat with you to be sure you are well enough informed. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Nicki	Well you shouldn't be having sex for him. When you are ready then you can have sex for you! Don't let some guy push you into doing anything you are not ready for. If you feel bad, you probably shouldn't be doing it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Unafraid ○●○●○●○●○	You are too young. Why not wait? You will not regret waiting but you might regret going on ahead. Perhaps you'll meet an amazing man one day and marry him, why not wait till then? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

sonofbeesh	and then you'll get pregnant and get fat and have a baby and miss out on YOUR life cuz you hve to take care of your child while all your friends are out partying. Yeah, sounds like you should do it to me, think of all the benefits Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Tay	way to young. am i the only 14 year old girl in the world that does not believe that sex should be for true love. when you can get married! my god... have you heard all these girls loosing their virginity at 12!!! come on.... anyone with me on this?!?! who cares if your friends have done it...... seriously... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

J *	Just wait until you feel right about it. If you feel bad, you don't feel right. Trust me, you will be happier if you wait until just the right moment. Then it is more fun too! : ) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

aliaysleighbasic	You don't sound like your ready. Think about it. Everytime tome he tries, I push him away? that doesn't sound like someone that is ready for it- and this desicion is your and yours alone. Some retard off yahoo answers shouldn't play a deceiding life factor like this. I want you to think about this. The first time you have sex, you will remeber that for the rest of your life, you will carry it with you, and you will never forget it. do you really think that by giving your virginity to your boyfriend is really the right thing? how long have you been together? he's pressuring you, and that doesn't sound like he loves you for you. And after you do it the first time- and if it's not what you wanted, or imagined it to be, it will make any futher sex you have "tainted." You have to be in a place mentally where you are comfortable with yourself. This IS A BIG desicion. if you waste it, it will forever haunt you, and the "next" guy and you will have problems from it. you won't be able to give your love "freely" to him, because you had hang up from the first guy that are not easily forgotten. you should remeber any religious/morale commitments you have made. You should be able to be comfortable about yourself the next day, no matter what happens. I mean, what if you find out that this guy had sex with you just to win a bet? It happened to my friend. really. i remeber another friend that after she did it, at like 15. her boyfriend told her that she "wasn't a good lay" and broke up with her. will you be able to handle that? how would you like it if another girl that didn't like you found out that you had a bad experience with sex and made fun of you and held it over your head..... talk to the women around you- most women's first times are TERRIBLE- in the back seat of some crappy car, in the woods, with a guy that ejaculated right after he got in in her and didn't want to do it anymore...these stories are just a little bit of what could happen. You want your first time to be special! no worries of getting caught or pregnant (which mean that you should wait until you moved out on your own, so you can handle the conquences of it yourself) you want to know how sex works, how to enjoy it, what is normal and what isn't. you should not be scared, or doing it for anyone other than for yourself. you should look in a mirror one last time before you take that plunge and ask yourself if you are really ready.God bles you Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No