What is oral sex?

what is it? why do people do it? how can we do this safe?Additional Details why do you think this qustions is from somebod...


what is it?
why do people do it?
how can we do this safe?
Additional Details
why do you think this qustions is from somebody young?



matty_mo1
if you dont know, then dont do it.


mrrtt4851
Ask your parents.


li l
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hoho...

go to this STD dating site http://www.stdromance.com to ask them. You can get the supprised answer


LINDSEY S
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i think its time for "the talk" with your parents. but its basically when a woman sucks and/or licks a mans penis. men suck and/or lick a womas privates.
to stay safe use condoms
i think people do it because it feel good and relaxes some one or gets them in the mood for sex.


: )
BAHHAAHH

look it up


you have questions google has answers!

:P


Outspoken but Honest
Ask Bill Clinton? They say Hilary is touring the states just now wearing no knickers and lifting her skirt and shouting we don't need Bush!!


Shawn W
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Put your mouth on your partners private area. They make a choice to do it. There motivations are different. Condom and dental dam.


callan
TAKE TO LONG TO ANSWER its quite a mouth full


Scobill
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it is when one partner stimulates the others sexual organs with their mouth
The woman or another man in the case of a gay couple will use tongue and then take the penis into mouth and stimulate , sometimes to orgasm and ejaculation
The man , or again another woman if a lesbian couple will use mainly tongue to stimulate the partners clitoris
many people do it as they find it highly erotic and sexually satisfying , however like all forms of sexual contact there are dangers of STD's and AIDS , particularly if there are multiple partners


Gavin T
Oral sex generally is safe if you know the person you're having it with, unless you start biting. Get a guy to give you some oral, you'll love it.


Rob P
Women - sucking and licking a mans pen is or females labia.
Men - sucking a females labia and other bits there r another mans pen is


Josie
I'm not sure if this is where you should be asking these sort of questions. I thought schools taught sex ed early nowadays..?


amanda
em...maybe you should ask your mum or dad

if you are 13 you should really know this by now

i mean i am 14 and i found out about that ages ago


Mark C
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What sex is safe? This sounds more like Bill Clinton now.


Kate G
using your mouth on your partner's sexual organs.. you can safely do this by 1. asking if your partner has any STDs/being tested 2. if the oral sex is being performed on a male, using a condom. If you are performing oral sex on a female, I don't know of any way to prevent contracting an STD if your partner has one. Just don't perform oral sex on a female who has STDs!


Jane
oral sex involves your mouth to the other persons genitals people do it because it feels great....keep one thing in mind though don't engage in oral sex with someone who has a cold soar or you will get a severe outbreak of genital herpes.


gynoassist
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What is oral sex?
Oral sex is stimulating the genitals with the mouth, lips and tongue, by kissing, sucking, licking and nibbling. Many people use oral sex as foreplay or a substitute for intercourse, because it can be just as important and enjoyable as full sex.

how can we do this safe?
For oral sex on a woman, use a latex barrier (a small sheet of latex which acts a barrier between the vagina or anus and mouth) to prevent spreading HIV or other STIs. Latex barriers (known as 'dental dams') are available at some UK pharmacies and can be purchased online.
Condoms should be used when performing oral sex on a man. Some people complain that condoms have a rubbery taste and lessen the sensation on the penis, so using thinner or flavoured ones may help. Also, using a small amount of lubricant inside the condom could help increase sensation - but only use water-based lubricants on latex condoms. Oil-based lubricants such as petroleum jelly will weaken them.

If you have any sores or cuts in your mouth, you should avoid oral sex. Also, don't brush or floss your teeth right before you have oral sex. This could tear the lining of the mouth, and increase your risk of catching any viruses that may be present. If you want to freshen your mouth first, try Mouthwash or mints instead.

Why people have oral?
Its another form of foreplay each type of foreplay gives a diffrent sensation for both males and females its just another way of exploring and pleasuring your partner


callum
putting your partners bits in your mouth and trating it like a popsicle, or having yours licked.
people do it because its damn good.
the safest way is DO NOT use your teeth.

enjoy!


Tracy M
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When you talk about it (LOL)


tweetylove_0101
its when you or your Parten taste each others genital area people do it as a form of compassion a gesture to show there sexual feelings to do it safe always use a pertective devise like dental dam or a condom


Samantha1029
Basically, for a man it's when a woman puts his thing in her mouth and sucks. For a woman its when a man licks her special area. People do it because it feels good. Basically you need to make sure that the person your doing it to has no diseases, std's. You dont want to do it if you have a cold sore in your mouth either or dont let anyone do it to you if they have a cold sore. that's it. lol


kamikazebug
Ok, LISTEN UP, because I might be the only one on here to give you a real educated answer. Oral sex is when your sexual partner pleasures your genital reagion with their mouth or vice versa. people could do it because of many reasons. One reason is because they find it kinky and fun. They like to explore the tastes and/or textures of their partner's body. Another reason could be becaus one person can not be given an orgasm from normal vaginal intercourse. In that case they often turn to oral pleasure as it could feel better in some ways that they need in order to experience ogasm. sometimes people just get bored with the usual, natural, intercourse. I personally do not condone premature sex, or sex before marriage, however, that is your decision. Should you choose to undergoa sexual relationship I would promote the use of safe sex. The best way to avoid sexually transmitted diseases is to use what they call a "dental dam". If performing on a male, use a condom... they come in different flavors specifically fo oral purposes. If performing on a girl yo could save money and simply put a layer o plastic wrap over the vaginal region. make sure you do not get the wrap that is perforated or ventilated. you can also find dental dams in any pharmacy. Your partner may desire direct contact between your mouth and his/her genetalia. If this be the case tell them tey must get checked by a physician first and you must see the results documented. BE SAFE. I hope you know what you are doing after having read this. have fun and good luck.


starlite3597
Spend some time and get your lover excited before making the plunge. Tease her whole body before you head south. When having oral sex with your lover, it's not all about her clitoris. Let your mouth and tongue explore her whole labia, clitoris and vagina.
Slowly lick up her thighs and kiss her vulva. Spread her legs and open her lips with your fingers. Take a look. Tell her how beautiful she looks.

Use your tongue. Your whole tongue. Flatten it out. Use just the tip. Lick her like an ice cream cone. Flick it like a butterfly wings. Use Gentle strokes. As her excitement builds, add more pressure. Focus more on the area around her clit.

How to tell if she likes it With your head smashed between her thighs, it may be hard to see what her response is. Feel for the clues. If she raises her hips to meet your lips, that is good. If her vagina gets wet and her vulva swells, she's getting aroused. If she starts moaning and trembling, keep doing what you're doing. Rapid breathing and writhing around are good things. If she grabs your hair and pushes you in for more, things are definitely going well.

Take her clitoris in your mouth. Suck gently. Release. Gentle flicking can send her over the edge.

Use your hands. Place your hands under her butt and gently lift her towards your mouth. Reach up and stroke her nipples. Put a finger in her vagina or her anus. [Note: DO NOT go from her anus to her vagina--you can spread unwanted bacteria.]

Rhythm is the key. Tune in to her responses. All women are different. Have her tell you what she likes and wants more of. Some women love having their clits stroked, others are too sensitive. What turned her on one day, may not work the next. Some love a finger or two or three inside them, others do not. Some women love the feel of a finger in their anus, others jump to the ceiling with a screech.

Communication is necessary for great sex. If you're new to this, or even if you're not, talk to your partner. See what worked, what you might do differently and have fun perfecting your skills!


Wendi H
Kissin carressing genital parts both men and women. to be safe use a comdom.


keiko
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Using the mouth/tounge to stimulate the genitals of your partner.

The nerve endings in the genitals are super sensitive, the tounge has better control and move percice movement. It feels great to recieve.

Don't do it with multiple people. Using a condom is kinda gross and defeats the purpose. There is really no 100% safe way to do it


currie_gordon
Something you just cant get enough of


Naheidelyn
Oral sex is stimulating the genitals with the mouth, lips and tongue, by kissing, sucking, licking and nibbling.

The fact that this form of pleasure is still seen by some as forbidden, and even a bit dirty, adds excitement. When your partner chooses to be in such intimate contact, it's like being told that, far from being unattractive, you're good enough and special enough to eat. It can feel like the ultimate expression of acceptance.

There's something irresistible about being treated in this way. Even though you can do it to each other at the same time, it's usually a case of one person lying back and having all their desires and needs attended to.

The mouth, lips and tongue have a dynamite combination of flexibility and softness that can't help but please. You can kiss, lick, suck or nibble. Some people prefer Gentle movements; others prefer firmer attention. It's up to you to discover your particular preferences together.

something important
What not to do
Although oral sex is known as a '********', the one thing you should never do is blow into your partner's body. You could cause an embolism (obstruction of an artery by an air bubble) or infection. But many people like their partner to blow gently on skin made damp by licking.


Stacey W
Its basicly wen a mans penis gos into a womans mouth or a man kisses a womans vagina. To keep safe use a condom as with any sex
Anyway how old r u?
I thought all state skools did sex ed?
If u dont no dont do it
u obviously aint old enough


T.H.
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if you need to ask on here, then your too young to know.


ssmesq
When you apply your mouth, tongue, etc to someone else's private parts and kiss, suck, etc. It's done because it feels good. And you can use a condom or a dental dam


Derke N
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It is red-hot mouth on genital action.

It is a form of sex, which is pleasurable to many people. It also carries no risk of pregnancy.

Wash or bathe first. Lock the door. Don't bite.