Rachael H
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you and your parents are different people, if you dont want to get pregnant, use protection, its that simple
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Jewel
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If you want a baby don't use condom.
% chance of getting pregnant depends if you or your partner has a womb, is fertile and is healthy.
If you don't know if you can't trust to have a healthy partner, chances are you can't.
Would recommend you not bring any more children into the world. Definitely use a condom.
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judith r
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have you and your partner both had tests to amke sure theres no chance of hiv std,s?
and if you want to get pg then dont use a condom otherwise always use precautions it only takes one sperm to get pregnant remember
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Stephanie S
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When you are married, you can or dont have to use a condom. Just because you use them while married doesnt mean you dont trust your partner, its just another way of Birth control. You dont want to get pregnant and prefer not to take the pill, condom is a way to do that. But if you dont use any type of protection (pill, condom, etc) you alway carry the risk of getting pregnant if you are not ready to yet. There are several methods there you dont have to use any form of birth control but those are few and far between as far as preventing pregnancy.
Also, if your parents didnt use a condom when they were first married, either they didnt mind if they got pregnant (a wanted pregnancy) or they used the method where they knew they couldnt until they were ready.
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Brandi W
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I would think you guys would have already talked about having kids and future plans like that if your married. This is a big decision you both should make together. Really it's not up to others to answer that. If you don't want to have kids than you should use condoms or get on birth control. Other than that, your taking a huge chance! Not using anything will definately not help your situation.
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sammy
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if want a baby then dont use one but if you dont then use it. but beware he could have aids
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The one and only
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If you don't want to get pregnant then you need to use some type of birth control. I have a friend that didn't have sex until she was married, and right after she got married, she was overwhelmed with a baby.
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Laura J
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it depends on your body. i got pregnant after quite a few tries
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Raimon
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If you don't take care, you'll get pregnant. If you're even remotely considering getting pregnant, it's a good idea for you and your partner to have a checkup first, not only because of STD's but also to detect any medical conditions which may affect the baby.
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ann.gardiner4@btinternet.com
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The risk is HIGH!
It only takes once - believe me!
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stevie the chipie
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all ways use a condom till you are ready for children then there is no risk of stds
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njyogibear
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that's weird that you know so much about your parents' sex life.
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charlotte
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If you dont use any conraceptives there is a strong chance of you getting pregant very quickly. It all depends on the way you feel about it. Probably best to wait a while and just enjoy each other if you are both young and the body clock is not ticking away
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lynn a
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If you've discussed it and ready for children then there is no need. I personally it differs for each individual. I fell pregnant straight away when stopped taking precaustions.
Assuming you have been with your partner long enough to know about his past then you shouldn't have anything to worry about. One sure check that all is ok is if he is a blood donor as they screen your blood on every donation!
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Bud's Girl
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As for the health of you and your partner, maybe you should go and get checked for any STD's. This way each of you will know you are safe. It depends on your cycle when you will get pregnant or not. Your fertile time is usuallty 28 days after your last period begins, with a window of a day less, and a day more. So for 3 days you'll be fertile.
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pixie
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Most defiantly NOT and your parents are very irresponsible for telling you that they didn't use protection.
You always make sure that you are protected and not just against pregnancy but STD's, you make sure your more adult about this then your parents where { shame on them }
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billy s
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As long as you both get tested for any STD's.HIV you can have for yrs and not know it.So be smart and both go together and get the tests done.
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stefstudy
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if he's healthy and u don't want 2 get pregnant than use 1.
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jeanimus
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The only way to be sure someone is healthy is if theyve had tests. In your parents day there was probably a lot less promiscuity and stds around so maybe it was ok for them.
If you dont want a baby, then use protection. It is too big a risk to take otherwise
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Buzz
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The risk is too big, unless you are wanting to get pregnant. Just remember that whoever your parner has slept with, you will be sleeping with them too. If you are considering this maybe you and your partner should go get tested together for STDs, AIDs, etc.
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JS
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Can you trust your partner?? Well if you are married I would hope so. If you don't want to get pregnant don't risk it.
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Wisbom
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Unprotected sex equals a very high chance of pregnancy. If you want a child, dont use a condom. If a child is what you both want then use a condom. Simple. No mystery.
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Pablo
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Well if you want to have a baby and you are financially and emotionally ready for a baby then of course you wouldn't use a condom. If you don't want a baby just yet you need to take birth control pill and use condoms. I would not trust your partner if you just met him. You cannot tell if someone has an STD just by looks. Have a nice day.
Pablo
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Bumumble
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you cannot trust that your man is healthy, you have to take him to the clinic and find out your self.
the percentage of you getting pregnant varies on when you period is due.
has nothing to do if you your doing it for the 1st time or the 1 millionth time.
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M
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I hope you will stop thinking about your parents while having sex!
If you want to get pregnant, do it "as your parents did", otherwise use contraception.
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bmac
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Wow. This makes no sense. Would you MARRY someone you don't trust? Look at your post.
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