How can i tell my girlfriend that i have a STD.and we should go for treatment together.?

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howie r	just tell her before she gives it to someone else Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

criminal_justice2007	Did you cheat on her? Because if so, you need to start by telling her that and then find the person you cheated with. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

♥Šωèé†íé♥	Simply sit her down and tell her that you both need to go seek treatment for STDs. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

myFEARisALIEN!	haha.. wow, i dont think shes gonna take it to lightly, get ready to get pegged with whatever is lying around Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

giggle_queen2005	no offense but DUH! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Marie	just tell her...it happens, just make sure it doesnt happen again WITH her.. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

JENN	Tell her ASAP. Be straightforward, no jokes. If you fail to tell her and only treat yourself, the next time you two have sex, you'll likely be infected again. Tell her so both of you can be treated and to avoid any further complications!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

nuggeteli	you should just say there's something i need to tell you it's important. Make sure you have privacy though. and then let her know that you might have a STD. it's better you tell her soon before it becomes serious or she finds out another way. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

LINDSEY S	u just have to be honest and tell ber. preferably before u decide to have sex with her and just the two of u. she might freak out and be mad at u for a while. u can get treatment together but she may choose to do so on her own. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

emilybronte	By saying I have an STD darling. We both need to get treated. Then.... tell the truth. How why and when. Good luck. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

cottontail	no easy way i am afraid. you could write it in a letter if you cant say the words. Better just to get it over with! good luck Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

mr big	BE A MAN! sit her down! AND EXPLAIN ,YOUR A PLAYER AND HAVE MESSED UP HER LIFE AS WELL! !!!!!!!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

<33	Sit her down, and just explain to her how you didn't want this to happen but it did, and you're sorry, and then tell her that she should get tested and if she has it too, you both could get the treatment. Don't think of it as a road block either, just a speed bump. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

kinky_scotty	After sex, offer her a cigerette and a Valtrex. When she asks why you're offering Valtrex, tell her you've got to go, you have to be at work early in the morning. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

tallflguy	She will probably leave you, but if you have any ethics (which I don't think you do because it sounds like you cheated on her) you need to tell her right away. They also could be legal problems that you might face as well especially if you knew that you had an STD before you had sex with her. People have done time in prison for doing that. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

julvrug	Be honest. Do you really want something like this to affect her the rest of her life? Some STDs can cause life long effects if not treated. If you really love her you would not take that risk with her life, although you have no right to do so in the first place. There is no easy way to tell a person that you may have infected them with an STD, with any luck she did not contract it, if you were taking precautions. But regardless, you need to inform her of the risk. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

whatshername	First of all.........How did you contract this STD? Did you have it before you guys became sexually active with each other and if so you will have to explain WHY YOU DID NOT TELL HER and why you infected her with an STD! If you did not know you had it then apologize and tell her that you two will get through this together. Did you cheat on her and contract this? Well, if you did then I seriously doubt she will stand by you. That is 2 huge strikes against you. Infidelity and giving her an STD from the other chic. Ewww, I would kill ya! LOL! One way or another you are going to have to tell her. That is the ONLY respectable and responsible thing to do. Good luck. Be careful from now on! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Shirl	If you have any respect for her at all you will just blurt it out and ensre that you both go for treatment if you think she should or not. I am angry that you knew about it and didn't even have the common courtesy to protect her from catching whatever it is you have You weasel Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

kevin friend	start with........ THAT DOES IT IM NEVER GOING TO USE ANOTHER PUBLIC TOILET, SINCE I SAT ON THAT ONE AT THE SHOPPING CENTRE WHEN I WAS LOOKING FOR A CHRISTMAS PRESENT FOR YOU I HAVE HAD THIS SERIOUS ITCHING AND ITS DRIVING ME NUTS. The rest of the conversation will automaticly lead to the clap clinic Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

gina	plain and simple ! but you need to tell her... bottom line ...TELL HER !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

cindi	I hope it isn't anything serious. You know, in some states it is against the law to have sex with someone when you know that you've got a disease you could pass on to your partner. Plan on her being furious. Whatever you do, don't chicken out. Better now than later when it could be too late to get treatment! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

myhrtbby2007	Are you cheating on her???? Because if you aren't she has it too!!! You need to tell her ASAP so she doesn't give it to anyone else!!! And if you are having sex with her you asre a shallow man!!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

LittleMiss	There really is no easy way to tell her. It will be uncomfortable for you know matter how you say it. Good luck Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Serenity R	Tell her in a very private setting...say to her, you are very sorry, but have something extremely important you need to tell her...do it slowly and carefully and look her in the eye the whole time...be prepared for her reaction...be understanding and supportive...seek medical help asap... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Talk Dirty to Me =P	wow thats alot to tell a person, but YOU HAVE TO tell her! just come right out and say it cuz theres not easy way to tell someone you just gave them an STD. very scary but you should have told her before you did anything if u did already. shes gonna br pretty pissed but tell her, especially if u gave it to her Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Sugar Pie	"Sheila, I've been diagnosed with genital herpes. I"m afraid I may have passed it on to you. I've started treatment, but you need to as well. Can I drive you to the clinic to get help?" This is, if she ever wants to see you again! If you're having sex, you ought to be able to talk about ANYTHING. If not, dont' have sex! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

MsBlue2U	You tell her RIGHT AWAY!!!! Just be honest and tell her. She deserves to know. Please tell her ASAP. Yall lives depends on telling her ASAP. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Tuck	HOLY HELL! Did you get this while poking around another bush? If so you need to tell her how that came along. But, if you care for her, she needs to know you gave her a gift that keeps on giving and go get tested. Getting rid of whatever the hell you gave her would be the important factor in all this, I would think!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

hargusbr	Start with OOPS! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

nite_angelica	You just have to tell her straight up - I don't think there is a good way to do that. Hopefully it isn't too serious and isn't one you already knew you had when you started having sex. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Dr Simon	ALERT! ALERT! - UNETHICAL ANSWER--- Give it to her then blame her for giving it to you. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No